The women I hang with want to be talked to, not at.

They want sincerity, serious,joking, playing, dancing.

They want to feel safe and free to rant and vent without us trying to fix em.

They want to feel safe and confident her man won't use her as a shield in a gunfight.

She wants help rearranging the furniture without us adding our two cents.

She wants a confidant she can tell anything to.

IMO, most want a leader. One who leads with wisdom and compassion. Wisdom is knowing we don't have all the answers and we will need her experience, strengths and abilities.

That's just a little bit of this old farts experience with women...

Spoken very well!!! Good job that u understand us. Now to try to use it in a relationship. Now that would be the man for me!!!! Lol... I can't figure myself out!! I would like a man to give some effort in trying...That would be someone special in my eyes...

.. the actors name is Brandon Lee Bruce Lee's son.. the shot was taken from the crow. the movie.... he tragically dieod from . a special effect..

I must learn how to post pics. I have the matching pic of the other side. Lol

No complaints of how u type of men don't exist here... your kind is few and far between.. Pat on the back from me....
.. I don't know I have to pinch myself to make sure I'm real.. pinch. ouch that hurt.. yep I'm real.. time to go get the kids ready for school.. clean up the house quick.. pull something out for supper.. go to work.. come home.. make supper. well I tidy up the house again... serve supper.. talk to my boys.. post a little bit on here.. do dishes.. make lunches.. go online pay some bills.. then have a coffee. put my boys to bed.. tidy up the house once again. post this message.. think how nice it would be to have some help... and then listen to you women complain.. about how I don't exist... then think to myself. why I'm better off by myself... laugh to myself.. and then go post somewhere else..lol.. oh look it's time for me to go to bed.. so I can get up tomorrow and repeat.. and repeat. and repeat.. I love dishes.. vacuuming . dusting.. mopping. making beds.. oh yes and doing laundry

What she said. I'm a single mother of two. I gave up everything for my kids. They come first no matter what. Regardless of whether you are a single father or mother, if your person of interest doesn't understand, or grasp the importance of your children, or simply not like children... Tell'em to kick rocks.
:D

Until it happens, just be content with it all.

Spoken from a true parent!!! Great job ladies. I'm also a single parent of two wonderful boys... It takes two people to make babies!!! It takes exceptional people to be parents!! And to stay being parents once you split up!!!! My kids are my world!