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Sun 02/23/14 01:50 PM

I am starting to think that maybe why no response is because there are very few real people here like yahoo chat was


You are being judgmental. Want real people not on a computer, go to a gym.

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Sun 02/23/14 01:47 PM

Snickers*

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Sun 02/23/14 10:12 AM

We put on a hockey clinic in Sochi...smokin

Congratz to all medal winners drinker


Canada was awesome in both Hockey tournament.

Russia won the medal count with an American born and a Korean born athlete. amazing. Overall, Canada and the US did a good job, I do wish the American Speedskaters had shown up.

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Sun 02/23/14 10:10 AM

Does someone have money on their mind, money on their mind?

I'm not really interested in how much a guy earns. If we're getting along fine, then money is the last thing I'd look for in a guy.


Post of the day, you are awesome. :-)

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Sun 02/23/14 07:51 AM




I have a feeling some people out there are missing out on knowing what your really about. They have very little in common with your profile and think because they find so little in common with it that they won't have anything else in common with you. If you have at lest 3 common interest with someone why not message them to find out if you have more in common. Also you may find some of what write about them self neat too, but I feel like because there is so little there you think your short message won't catch that persons attention. It might, but if you don't try you won't know. I mean you clicked on the profile for a reason and see you have things in common(A lest 3.) so why don't you send a message of some kind because it can't hurt you. Who knows in the end you may have more in common with that person then you know and may end up becoming friends or even dating. So next time you click on a profile and find things in common message them because if you don't then why did you view them?


there may be something else in the profile that is a deal breaker. Why start something if you know it can't go any where? not always the case, but just as likely as not.


This is an excellent point.




thank you. I can see both sides of it though, The OP I believe is wondering how can we know whether it will go anywhere if we don't ask, and sometimes that is also a valid point. So for me a lot of time it is something they have said either on here, in a message, or on a profile (tho I seldom read those lol) that is the deciding factor


Once again I agree with you. The forums can provides more insight than a profile. It is the advanatge Mingle has over the other sites. Other dating sites you have to rely on the profile unless it is by a person who solely relies on pictures.

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Sun 02/23/14 07:31 AM


I have a feeling some people out there are missing out on knowing what your really about. They have very little in common with your profile and think because they find so little in common with it that they won't have anything else in common with you. If you have at lest 3 common interest with someone why not message them to find out if you have more in common. Also you may find some of what write about them self neat too, but I feel like because there is so little there you think your short message won't catch that persons attention. It might, but if you don't try you won't know. I mean you clicked on the profile for a reason and see you have things in common(A lest 3.) so why don't you send a message of some kind because it can't hurt you. Who knows in the end you may have more in common with that person then you know and may end up becoming friends or even dating. So next time you click on a profile and find things in common message them because if you don't then why did you view them?


there may be something else in the profile that is a deal breaker. Why start something if you know it can't go any where? not always the case, but just as likely as not.


This is an excellent point.


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Sun 02/23/14 05:14 AM


I hope you don't think I'm trying to put you down. It's just I think you enjoy the sex with him, so much, that you can't get yourself out of it. It's clear you and him get along pretty well. Actually, I almost went and got myself into a similar situation, where he asked me if I'd ever want an affair with him, but we only kissed while drunk, and I told him I couldn't have an affair with him, because the right guy would want ALL of me, not just certain parts of me. It's okay for HIM, having two women at once, but do you really feel loved? How do you feel, every time he gets back into bed with his wife? Apart from sexually satisfied. It must be very difficult. I think a talk with a therapist might help. Incase you end up feeling suicidal. I'm not being dramatic. These situations can end up with one of them trying to commit suicide, because the suicidal person can't express openly, how hurt they can end up feeling. As not many around them will listen. And also, the two people who had the affair, sometimes feel very bitter towards each other, for keeping it a secret.

Yeah, but her case is different, as it isn't an affair, he loves her and they're going to get married and have babies
frustrated

I steer clear from married/involved men. And it never seizes to amaze me how many are looking for some excitement 'on the side' because things got boring with the missus.
But the risk of falling in love with a married bloke, no way am I going there!
Her case is exactly where you'd end up and you'd waste years of your life before you get out and over it.
So sad that so many women still fall for this BS and even defend the w@nker that's simply using them.


Well said.

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Sun 02/23/14 05:10 AM
I agree, don't take it personal it happens on all sites. Keep mingling.

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Sat 02/22/14 09:11 PM
Storm I am going to steal your thunder


Hopeful x2

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Sat 02/22/14 09:06 PM

I am everything you are not looking for


That was awesome.

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Sat 02/22/14 07:17 PM

right I think finances should be kept separate, I agree w/ what KLC said. I have my own expenses and would not be interested in a relationship that jeopardized my ability to meet those.


I agree with both of you on this.

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Sat 02/22/14 06:33 PM




I posted this..not to cause conflict but really just to proclaim it. Ive never told anyone I love them and actually mean it. I think I wanted to hear what others would say considering its not an ideal relationship. I know he loves his kids.... I would never come between them. I knew people wouldn't "approve" of our relationship but I was expecting a little compassion of our circumstance.I just can't bring myself to be ashamed of falling for this man. Who just happens to have the misfortune of being married to the wrong woman.
ha! its not that you fell for him, its that you cheated with him. and he doesnt have the misfortune to be married, he chose to be and to remain married while engaging in an affair with you and who knows who else.


Getting his tofu and eating it too.

I mention tofu, cake is bad for you.


Listen McClintock, I don't mean to be rude, but everything in moderation babeshades ...enough with the healthy lifestyle cookbooks,ill it's the weekend hot pants....love


That is when people slack off in their eating habits, :wink:

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Sat 02/22/14 06:17 PM



That Mars and Venus stuff is nonsense. I never met a girl from Venus, met some that were out there and met some that were out of this world but not Venus specifically.

Guess you're not a linguist? Or a Virgo or both, lol


I don't believe everything that is written in a book or astrology.
I don't believe Elvis was kidnapped by aliens either.


I just took some pain medication, may have to reevaluate my previous statements.

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Sat 02/22/14 06:12 PM


Personally I wouldn't have a threesome with someone I was in a loving relationship, the reason being the problems you have listed. The threesome is all about lust, hence why most are unplanned whilst drunk. They're still great tho :-)

The problems you people have when (or because) you get drunk! Always makes me wonder why the he|| people feel like drinking to begin with. You wake up regretting what you've done, or not even remembering what you've done, have a major hangover meaning you waste more time of your life, feeling sick. Plus it costs you a fortune. I never got the appeal of that.

As for "it's just lust". What's the point? You trying to tell me that with your own partner you'd never feel lust, only tender loving care and romance?
There's nothing wrong with lust.

@ KLC, you said women generally want a relationship. I concur with that :) Not with the last part of your statement though, that one will walk of with the third party, or something like that.
And again, couples should only do threesomes if their relationship is rock solid, otherwise it is indeed asking for trouble.

KFC may be protesting a little too much. (Wink, Wink)




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Sat 02/22/14 06:11 PM



I did go 4 times a week before my injury, when I am able to go back, I have alot of catching up to do.

One time I was late in paying my membership. Would that be a problem?
4 times aint bad. I guess it would depend why a fella was late payin his membership. Downloading too much porn that week?


I went to the gym 4 times a week, I was late for a payment once.

I don't do porn, KFC! You are a bad girl but you won't p me off. How did you come up with porn? Guilty conscious? KFC's like porno, I bet you like threesome's and don't want to admit it.

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Sat 02/22/14 06:03 PM



Exhausted! Phew!!!


My leg hurts, phew!!!


You shouldn't have put.too much pressure on it bigsmile


You are adorable.

I shouldn't have slipped on the ice. phew!!

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Sat 02/22/14 05:58 PM
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Sat 02/22/14 05:54 PM

Exhausted! Phew!!!


My leg hurts, phew!!!

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Sat 02/22/14 05:50 PM

Wtf? Can you even construct a coherent sentence?


Yes, there is an invention called the 'comma'.

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Sat 02/22/14 05:49 PM



....Hey, it's Saturday night, date night, where's your man?....
Thats a really good question. I wonder who he said he was with tonite.


Maybe he's home babysitting HIS children while his wife is out with her young, hot lover...bigsmile


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