Well the subject basicallyis the question??!!

I've only ever had one threesome when I was 19 in Ibiza. Met this girl in a bar we went back to her apparment and just as we were about to get our nasty on she asked if I would mind if her friend joined in. They were both good looking girls so there was no complaints from me.

But it seems that was an exception rather than the rule as I've never had the same opportunity come up again. If I would of even mentioned it to some of my past gf's they would of worn my balls as earrings.

I wouldn't touch this topic with a ten foot pole..lol.. are I wouldn't even touch this topic if. it was me and two other women in bed.. are three other women.lol.... Are me a woman and another dude..

Yeah if a woman asked for a threesome with another bloke they would get a f### right off from me.

I don't go for that, when I am intimate with a woman, she deserves my full attention, not splitting it with another woman. One on One.

From a health risk standpoint, more of a chance to catch something not healthy.

If you have to ask, you'll never know.....

Nah, don't agree with you on this. One should never go for something like this if the relationship isn't rock-solid to start with.
I hope to try a threesome at some point, with my partner that is, not with two people that are more and less strangers to me.
If the love and trust is there, what's the big deal? You have a great evening of physical pleasure that you share with a third party. Doesn't mean anyone has to fall in or out of love.

Is your wish for MMF or FFM? I'm just curious about the whole threesome scenario and what other people's opinions of them are.

Cos I DO agree with you on that one, so it wouldn't compute with me saying "Nah, don't agree with you on this."
lol

You talk about "threesomes" like something you buy off a shelf, a menage a trois is such a simple yet incredibly complicated thing to try and get vox populi about, that it literally becomes an exercise in futility. The chances of getting wholeheartedly honest answers become very slim when opening a question to public scrutiny.

Maybe you'd be better served asking yourself the same question first, honestly, what do YOU think about threesomes and if you were to have one how do YOU think it would affect YOU.

All that aside, the cynic in me questions why you'd ask such a thing in the introductions part of a dating forum as your opening gambit to the rest of the site.

I tend to think too much though, so ho hum and erm good luck in finding the answers you seek.

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that sounds like a double standard

who do Trey.. standard I think you mean.lol

No.
'One less bell to answer..' ya know?

Not only NO but HAIL NO!!!








The idea of earrings would be the go to idea for any fool who suggested it to me too,

i would do a threesome but only for that pleasure

Ho hum, ho hum...Some good thoughts up there^^...Lots of problems with a m�nage � trois...Even when a couple thinks they have it all neatly compartmentalized, they cannot know until it happens because it involves emotions...It is not just a physical act...During and after problems can arise that have the potential to change the whole composition of the relationship turning a healthy union into one with insurmountable problems...Biggest considerations are jealousy, remorse, doubt, disease....If you are fortunate enough to have a solid relationship, why would you risk it on what is basically a one night stand? ...

Personally I wouldn't have a threesome with someone I was in a loving relationship, the reason being the problems you have listed. The threesome is all about lust, hence why most are unplanned whilst drunk. They're still great tho :-)

I seriously never got the attraction tbh, i see the obvious one of 2 is better than one, but to me from a guys perspective, it's hard enough to keep one woman satisfied why double the chance of disappointed ladies hahaha

well perhaps for you then..u..g..b..lol.. just playin brother..

The problems you people have when (or because) you get drunk! Always makes me wonder why the he|| people feel like drinking to begin with. You wake up regretting what you've done, or not even remembering what you've done, have a major hangover meaning you waste more time of your life, feeling sick. Plus it costs you a fortune. I never got the appeal of that.

As for "it's just lust". What's the point? You trying to tell me that with your own partner you'd never feel lust, only tender loving care and romance?
There's nothing wrong with lust.

@ KLC, you said women generally want a relationship. I concur with that :) Not with the last part of your statement though, that one will walk of with the third party, or something like that.
And again, couples should only do threesomes if their relationship is rock solid, otherwise it is indeed asking for trouble.