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Topic: WHY???
silkybluezz's photo
Sun 03/30/08 02:55 PM
I have a question...why do men not want to date women that are seperated, when a divorce is inevitable? I need love too sad
Any advise would be helpful...Thanks

brian325's photo
Sun 03/30/08 02:56 PM
I don't have a problem with it. I've even lived with seperated women, as long as I knew for sure there was no going back to the ex.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 03/30/08 02:56 PM
drinker Then get a divorce and the problem is solveddrinker

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Sun 03/30/08 02:57 PM
I don't see why that should be a problem, assuming that the marriage is truly over.

stevil342001's photo
Sun 03/30/08 02:57 PM
i dared a women who said she was goping to get her divorce come to find out she never did i ended getting hurt in the end mybe thats why its a risk..

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Sun 03/30/08 02:57 PM
i don't have a problem with it, either. unless that separation DOESN'T end up in a divorce, that is.

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Sun 03/30/08 02:57 PM
MEN WONT DATE US BECAUSE THEY FEEL WE HAVE BAGAGE AND THEY FEEL LIKE THEY NEED TO TAKE CARE OF US AND OUR KIDS WITCH IS SO WRONG WE BEEN DOING ALL ALONG OUR SELVES SO FAR

itsmetina's photo
Sun 03/30/08 02:57 PM
because they dont want the drama

harleyfan15's photo
Sun 03/30/08 02:58 PM

I have a question...why do men not want to date women that are seperated, when a divorce is inevitable? I need love too sad
Any advise would be helpful...Thanks



their afaird u'll go back to him

silkybluezz's photo
Sun 03/30/08 02:58 PM
I am just waiting out my time...before my divorce if final - Due to the laws in NC.drinker

beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:00 PM
I'm seperated as well, but just received my divorce papers. After three years of seperation.....sad, but glad it's finally the beginning of the end.

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:01 PM
I have a better question.
why do we like to generalize?
why don't we use the word "some" when we make this kind of questions?

no photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:01 PM
with much trepidation, i tried it once.......


they reconciled....ohwell




it can wait till your divorced.....

Queene123's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:01 PM
thats odd? as many woman would date men that are married or separated
i was with a guy for 2yrs and he was separated fron his wife for over 5yrs and they never talked.
i even help him with his divorce papers, for he didnt know how to handle it.... as long as your separated and knowing that you wont get back together i dont see it as a big deal...

what is the laws in NC

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:02 PM
I did not date when I was married.. even when I was seperated. I am aware others make different decisions, such as my ex...

But I don't date married people. Period. If I was interested, I'd wait. Simple. But married is married.

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Sun 03/30/08 03:03 PM
Wait for the divorce!! Some folks may SAY there's a divorce on the way, but they need to take care of unfinished business before I'll even consider. And, it can just be a line they hand you. You also become their sounding board, then if there's a relationship with you, and they go back to the spouse, you both end up being cheaters.

brian325's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:03 PM

I did not date when I was married.. even when I was seperated. I am aware others make different decisions, such as my ex...

But I don't date married people. Period. If I was interested, I'd wait. Simple. But married is married.


oh lilith, just stfu and kiss me :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:04 PM
Muah Brian... muah muah muah! bigsmile

silkybluezz's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:05 PM
The law in NC is waiting 1 year for a divorce. I never said all men...in general , I just said why do men..meaning the men that I have been in contact with so far - which isn't that many. Am I suppose to sit at home for a year?? without any opposite sex contact...even if it is just a buddy to hang out with.

brian325's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:06 PM

Muah Brian... muah muah muah! bigsmile


oh my...that, that, was waaaaaaay kool blushing blushing blushing

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