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Edited by
hippydaninsa
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My ex or current or what ever she is considering herself to be makes no since to me. So I am coming here for help or at least input.
Ok so this is a longish story. so I'll just hit the biggish stuff. I was with her for 2 1/2 years. We started dating in Wisconsin I had met her at work. She was in a bad way with relationships she just liked the wrong people. I pulled her out of that so to speak, and showed her how she should have been getting treated. From the beginning i was planning to go to collage here in Arizona and told her that if she was going to come along that I would only want a serious relationship. She agreed. I moved was measurable with out her and gave up free housing to be with her after she could come out here. I lost my job and she supported me for 3 months so that I could concentrate on school. I felt like an @** so I got a job. Our roomate screwed us so we fell behind on finances so I took a personal LOA from school and worked 48- 50 hrs a week on a grave shift. In this time the person I thought to trust most was telling her that I wasn't there for her because I didn't care. In reality I was just happy to come home to her. Well she believed him and started preparing herself to leave me for him. She cheated on me. The thing is I forgave her and took her back. I worked through everything with her just for it to start up again a couple of months later. I found out and left her, but she badged me to give it a go for the time we had together. I dropped all of my plans on where to go and what to do. 2 weeks later she goes to me and says **** it I don't feel like trying. I am getting my life back together and now she says she wants to be friends and see if we go any where?????????? |
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My ex or current or what ever she is considering herself to be makes no since to me. So I am coming here for help or at least input. Ok so this is a longish story. so I'll just hit the biggish stuff. I was with her for 2 1/2 years. We started dating in Wisconsin I had met her at work. She was in a bad way with relationships she just liked the wrong people. I pulled her out of that so to speak, and showed her how she should have been getting treated. From the beginning i was planning to go to collage here in Arizona and told her that if she was going to come along that I would only want a serious relationship. She agreed. I moved was measurable with out her and gave up free housing to be with her after she could come out here. I lost my job and she supported me for 3 months so that I could concentrate on school. I felt like an @** so I got a job. Our roomate screwed us so we fell behind on finances so I took a personal LOA from school and worked 48- 50 hrs a week on a grave shift. In this time the person I thought to trust most was telling her that I wasn't there for her because I didn't care. In reality I was just happy to come home to her. Well she believed him and started preparing herself to leave me for him. She cheated on me. The thing is I forgave her and took her back. I worked through everything with her just for it to start up again a couple of months later. I found out and left her, but she badged me to give it a go for the time we had together. I dropped all of my plans on where to go and what to do. 2 weeks later she goes to me and says **** it I don't feel like trying. I am getting my life back together and now she says she wants to be friends and see if we go any where??????????  Move on without her. |
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My ex or current or what ever she is considering herself to be makes no since to me. So I am coming here for help or at least input. Ok so this is a longish story. so I'll just hit the biggish stuff. I was with her for 2 1/2 years. We started dating in Wisconsin I had met her at work. She was in a bad way with relationships she just liked the wrong people. I pulled her out of that so to speak, and showed her how she should have been getting treated. From the beginning i was planning to go to collage here in Arizona and told her that if she was going to come along that I would only want a serious relationship. She agreed. I moved was measurable with out her and gave up free housing to be with her after she could come out here. I lost my job and she supported me for 3 months so that I could concentrate on school. I felt like an @** so I got a job. Our roomate screwed us so we fell behind on finances so I took a personal LOA from school and worked 48- 50 hrs a week on a grave shift. In this time the person I thought to trust most was telling her that I wasn't there for her because I didn't care. In reality I was just happy to come home to her. Well she believed him and started preparing herself to leave me for him. She cheated on me. The thing is I forgave her and took her back. I worked through everything with her just for it to start up again a couple of months later. I found out and left her, but she badged me to give it a go for the time we had together. I dropped all of my plans on where to go and what to do. 2 weeks later she goes to me and says **** it I don't feel like trying. I am getting my life back together and now she says she wants to be friends and see if we go any where?????????? Move on without her. |
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run away
forget her |
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jus remember my dads fav sayin fuc!< me once FUC!< me, FUC!< me twice FUC!< you
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Edited by
Spaceman2008
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Mon 04/07/08 06:46 PM
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Ditto. Go on without her....more fish in the sea.
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lol thanks those where quick
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move on and get on with your plans and your life.
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She messed up your life, helped you out a bit and still messed your life up and now wants to be your just friends to see where things goes.
WARNING: Don't do it. Move on and find some one who will treat you better and finish getting your life together is all I have to say. Don't look back either. |
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If you take this girl back, i personally will fly to AZ, and kick you in the head on multiple occasions, and for multiple reasons.....
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sounds like my Ex wife, how fast can you RUN ? GO now and dont look back
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lol thanks those where quick listen to Trae "No Help" and "B*tch quit calling me" or, just look up the lyrics. They're good songs. |
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If you take this girl back, i personally will fly to AZ, and kick you in the head on multiple occasions, and for multiple reasons..... Dont put it past her bro! |
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Do I trust her with the friends thing or just get away from that as well? The only reason I ask is because I helped her with a lot on a personal level.
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well i would just forget about the whole ordeal and move on...being friends is just going to make your romantic emotions surface...i would say leave it be
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If you take this girl back, i personally will fly to AZ, and kick you in the head on multiple occasions, and for multiple reasons..... Dont put it past her bro! I keep my promises huh Jim? |
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If you take this girl back, i personally will fly to AZ, and kick you in the head on multiple occasions, and for multiple reasons..... Dont put it past her bro! I keep my promises huh Jim? Sure do! A woman of her word |
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Do I trust her You coulda stopped right there, and the answer would be "Hell no". Seriously, have you see anything to suggest she's even remotely trustworthy? Is it possible she would make a good friend? Sure...anything's possible. Doesn't mean it's likely, and doesn't mean she's a good risk. |
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Do I trust her with the friends thing or just get away from that as well? The only reason I ask is because I helped her with a lot on a personal level. The question is, do you trust her? Is she good for you? If not, then you have your answer. |
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Thanks everyone I think ill do just that I gave her all I could physically and emotionally and thats that she treated me like dirt
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