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Topic: Tool Man
Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:40 AM
Why do men think they have to "fix" everything?

why can you not tell a man something and have it just be that, why do they ALWAYS have to jump into fix it mode with things?

What is that?

I can tell my female friends things, and they do not feel the necessity to "fix" it for me, but a guy has to "own" it and then "fix" it.

hikerchick's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:41 AM
It's a guy thing. They feel powerless if they just listen and say "aww" when you have a problem. They want to rescue you. At least, that is how the guys I have known are.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:42 AM

Why do men think they have to "fix" everything?

why can you not tell a man something and have it just be that, why do they ALWAYS have to jump into fix it mode with things?

What is that?

I can tell my female friends things, and they do not feel the necessity to "fix" it for me, but a guy has to "own" it and then "fix" it.


Don't want me fixing anything...just screw it up more than it was, and I didn't think that was possible with some things.laugh

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:42 AM

It's a guy thing. They feel powerless if they just listen and say "aww" when you have a problem. They want to rescue you. At least, that is how the guys I have known are.


OMG is that it? Since when have I needed rescued?


CleanBathroom's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:42 AM
I'm Jewish. I fix nothing.

Occasionally, I call a gentile to get it done but only when necessary.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:43 AM

I'm Jewish. I fix nothing.

Occasionally, I call a gentile to get it done but only when necessary.


You're a goofy kid too...:tongue:

lilbity's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:44 AM
from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things .
If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff.
belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything

CleanBathroom's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:44 AM


I'm Jewish. I fix nothing.

Occasionally, I call a gentile to get it done but only when necessary.


You're a goofy kid too...:tongue:


I'm allowed to hit on you. How bored are you this morning?

HI HIKER!!!

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:45 AM

from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things .
If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff.
belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything


If I said to you "hey I'm sad" would you feel it's YOUR job to fix that?

CleanBathroom's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:47 AM


from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things .
If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff.
belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything


If I said to you "hey I'm sad" would you feel it's YOUR job to fix that?


I would cheer you up by showing you my collection of Disney on Ice figurines Lily.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:47 AM


from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things .
If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff.
belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything


If I said to you "hey I'm sad" would you feel it's YOUR job to fix that?


Want some...uh...I have fuzz, you want some...ohhh look at that...

lilbity's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:47 AM


from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things .
If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff.
belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything


If I said to you "hey I'm sad" would you feel it's YOUR job to fix that?

depends on why you are sad but I would atleast let you know i will be there for you if you needed a shoulder to cry on

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:48 AM



I'm Jewish. I fix nothing.

Occasionally, I call a gentile to get it done but only when necessary.


You're a goofy kid too...:tongue:


I'm allowed to hit on you. How bored are you this morning?

HI HIKER!!!


I only have one eye open yet this morning, so if you are going to hit me, make sure I can see it coming is all I ask..:tongue:

HMontana's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:48 AM
What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!!bigsmile

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:49 AM
Clean and Fear, you guys are too much this morning...:heart:

CleanBathroom's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:49 AM

What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!!bigsmile


Sweet. Wanna have a 3some with Lily and I? She's half asleep so I'm thinking we could sneak up on her.

HMontana's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:50 AM


What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!!bigsmile


Sweet. Wanna have a 3some with Lily and I? She's half asleep so I'm thinking we could sneak up on her.


Tempting, but I'm running late, as it is. You two carry on and tell me how it turns out. Let her teach you a few things, will you...then let me in on it later?bigsmile

mry's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:50 AM
I love it when guys want to fix everything!!

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:50 AM


What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!!bigsmile


Sweet. Wanna have a 3some with Lily and I? She's half asleep so I'm thinking we could sneak up on her.


I said make sure I could see it comeing.....

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 05/08/08 04:51 AM



What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!!bigsmile


Sweet. Wanna have a 3some with Lily and I? She's half asleep so I'm thinking we could sneak up on her.


I said make sure I could see it comeing.....


Sneak from the front.laugh

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