Praise the carpet?

You wouldn't say that if you saw my carpet.

you are welcome but stick to the topic if you just want to chit chat then go someplace else.

i am talking about people explaining aviatars or getting off topic. i asked a question and expect people to stick too the topic. if not then go someplace else. that is my biggest pet peeve of forums.

Why do so many people feel a need to control the world? When people talk one thing leads to another, that's the nature of humanity.

Ok, let's go back to your OP and address your questions then.



That's a blanket statement and the answer is that all men aren't the same. There are plenty of men who are more than willing to be abstinent until marriage. Maybe you're just refusing to date them because you don't find them attractive? Maybe the men who are like that appear to be highly undesirable to you?

Having intercourse was never a priority on my list. So from my point of view your question doesn't even apply to me. Especially when I was your age! At 59 I'm not about to marry a woman I haven't yet been intimate with (although even that doesn't need to include intercourse). But when I was 20 I was still naïve enough that I would have married a woman that I hadn't yet had intercourse with.

But I wonder what you would think about sleeping with a man and not having intercourse? Would that still be considered to be abstinence?

What exactly are you calling abstinence? Just no intercourse, or no physical intimacy at all? What about necking? Kissing? Petting? Where's the line before abstinence has been breeched? Is the line just intercourse itself?

Would mutual masturbation be considered a breech of abstinence?

Is it a sin to have an orgasm? Or induce an orgasm in your partner?

Or is only intercourse a sin?

You'd have to define precisely what is a sin and what isn't.

What precisely do you mean when you say, "abstinence?"

If you want to discuss this topic you need to be willing to actually discuss it which includes defining precisely what you mean by asbstinence.




Again, define sex. Is kissing sex? Is petting sex? Where's the line?



As I've already stated, it's been my personal experience that women are more anxious to have sex with me than I am with them. That's been my personal experience. Especially in a temporal sense. In other words, women seem to be more interested in having sex both, sooner, and quicker (faster about the whole act of sex), than what I would choose to do.

Actually I'm not so worried about the "sooner" part, but I would like to find a woman who enjoy slow drawn-out intimacy. A woman who is into tantric sex might be nice.

So what does abstinence even mean to you. Exactly what are you asking men to abstain from?

Is it just intercourse? Or are you expecting them to abstain from any form of intimacy at all?

I don't think I'd be very interest in dating a woman who wasn't even interested in kissing, and cuddling. Much less be thinking about marrying her.

Okee dokee...

Hey guys, party at my place!

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/128071

Abra writes:



Some people, men or women, like to control things and even relationships. In a relationship it can spell disaster. Nobody likes to be controlled and eventually the one being controlled will break free of the controller.

Come to my thread and you can discuss anything you want on or off topic.

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/128071

LMAO...too funny

Oh you R 2 FUNNY!!!! the sex gods???? I'm still LOL at your other posts. OMG!!!!