Topic: why can't men.....?
Big_Jim's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:10 PM

why can't men respect a woman's choice to remain abstinent until marriage? i have encountered several who feel that even though i was married once, that i can continue to have sex. i feel like god commanded me to remain pure until i enter a union in holy matrimony. therefore, i choose not to until i remarry if that is god's will.
anyone else have similar problems?


Do whatever you have to do. You won't find many boyfriends who share your ideals, though. Fights, messy breakups, yada yada. I'd just take yourself off the market if I were you, to avoid strife until the ONE comes along. As they say, you'll know him when you see him.

Myself, personally? I indulge whatever delights that catch my eye. Be they of the flesh or anything else. We're quite opposites, aren't we?


Abracadabra's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:12 PM

This entire thread is a joke, right?


I hope so! I'd hate to think my past girlfriends really were dying. glasses

But I think tiffanyraquel is trying to make a federal case out of the jokes. laugh

If people really want to get serious about it the answer is simple. If a person seriously believes that it is ungodly to have sex out of wedlock and the person they are dating doesn't agree then perhaps they are dating the wrong person?

It never fails to make me laugh when people come onto the Internet and complain about the behavior of the person they are dating. If they aren't happy with the person they are dating they should take it up with them.

What are we supposed to do? Go look the person up and tell them to stop being who they are?

I wonder if these are the kinds of prayers God has to deal with all the time.

Dear God, will you please change so-and-so into a person I find more attractive and likable? Pretty please? I'll say a hundred hail Mary's if you do this for me, honest I will.

tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:13 PM
Did I hurt your manhood...ruff rufflaugh

Abracadabra's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:14 PM

Do whatever you have to do. You won't find many boyfriends who share your ideals, though. Fights, messy breakups, yada yada. I'd just take yourself off the market if I were you, to avoid strife until the ONE comes along. As they say, you'll know him when you see him.


She could always consider becoming a nun too. bigsmile

tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:14 PM
You write these long, ridiculous, postings and I just have to laugh.laugh Then, you make yourself out to be the God of sex. You should write a book Oh Mighty One.laugh

Big_Jim's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:15 PM

She could always consider becoming a nun too. bigsmile


Yes, that would do very well. happy

tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:16 PM
A federal case? I had sex at 15 and enjoyed it. I have more porn than my hubby. We go skinny dipping every chance we get. I am extremely sexual. BUT, I don't claim to give men paradise. Just my hubby.blushing

Big_Jim's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:18 PM

A federal case? I had sex at 15 and enjoyed it. I have more porn than my hubby. We go skinny dipping every chance we get. I am extremely sexual. BUT, I don't claim to give men paradise. Just my hubby.blushing


I would be a traitor to my religion if I didn't indulge every time I had the chance.


tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:19 PM
Edited by tiffanyraquel on Wed 06/04/08 05:19 PM
I always remember what my hubby told me once, " Everyone is pretty to someone." That means that some people have good chemistry together and some do not. There is not one person in this world that can give the best sex ever to the opposite sex. It is pure chemistry. Even though I am a Christian, I do believe that people should drive the car first. What a sinner am I.devil

Abracadabra's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:21 PM

Did I hurt your manhood...ruff rufflaugh


Hell yeah. I was getting all macho and stuff, and you had to come along and priçk my balloon. Now my pee pee is all embarrassed and went and got all withered up to hide. laugh

Everyone knows that I'm not a stud now and all the women in my life were really just faking religion.

It's terrible. I feel so exposed. I don't know if I can ever live down the shame. Owl have to pretend that my cat typed all this stuff in now.

Meow. flowerforyou


tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:26 PM
Edited by tiffanyraquel on Wed 06/04/08 05:27 PM
That's what I thought:tongue: But, seriously, be a man and admit that I did. That is what is funny about these forums. Everyone tries to say " intelligent " things or what the other person wants to hear....just to hook up.:wink:

tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:29 PM
Whatever you guys/gals think makes you more interesting on the web...lol.happy

tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:32 PM


A federal case? I had sex at 15 and enjoyed it. I have more porn than my hubby. We go skinny dipping every chance we get. I am extremely sexual. BUT, I don't claim to give men paradise. Just my hubby.blushing


I would be a traitor to my religion if I didn't indulge every time I had the chance.




What the hell is your religion? You look like a complete dork twiddling your thumbs on your pic.

tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:33 PM
Edited by tiffanyraquel on Wed 06/04/08 05:38 PM


A federal case? I had sex at 15 and enjoyed it. I have more porn than my hubby. We go skinny dipping every chance we get. I am extremely sexual. BUT, I don't claim to give men paradise. Just my hubby.blushing


I would be a traitor to my religion if I didn't indulge every time I had the chance.




What? Am I supposed to be mesmorized by your demonic look and goat tee....lollaugh

tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:35 PM


Did I hurt your manhood...ruff rufflaugh


Hell yeah. I was getting all macho and stuff, and you had to come along and priçk my balloon. Now my pee pee is all embarrassed and went and got all withered up to hide. laugh

Everyone knows that I'm not a stud now and all the women in my life were really just faking religion.

It's terrible. I feel so exposed. I don't know if I can ever live down the shame. Owl have to pretend that my cat typed all this stuff in now.

Meow. flowerforyou





It took you like 30 freakin minutes to respond:angry: What? Did you get a friend to help you or did you have a brain fart? Gheez....just admit your a faker.

tiffanyraquel's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:37 PM
Twiddling my thumbs while they think of a response. MAYBE, they are having a meeting with other sex Godslaugh

Abracadabra's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:45 PM

That's what I thought:tongue: But, seriously, be a man and admit that I did. That is what is funny about these forums. Everyone tries to say " intelligent " things or what the other person wants to hear....just to hook up.:wink:


Actually what I said about the women always being the first to initiate sex it true.

I'm not sure why that would make women want to hook up with me.

I actually prefer women who aren't overly anxious about sex.

I also have no interest in oral sex either giving or receiving. That's probably the least popular thing a person can say on the Internet.

The last thing I'm out to do is to falsely impress someone. But I do joke around a lot. The joke about women screaming "Oh God! I'm Coming!" was pretty much a joke. Although I was with one woman who actually did so that and I thought it was really strange to tell you the truth. And that's no joke.

Abracadabra's photo
Wed 06/04/08 05:49 PM

It took you like 30 freakin minutes to respond:angry: What? Did you get a friend to help you or did you have a brain fart? Gheez....just admit your a faker.


Everyone isn't just sitting at their computer screen monitor a single thread all the time to pounce on responses ya know.

Some people actualy have lives going. bigsmile

Extracyberspacial activities. laugh

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Wed 06/04/08 05:51 PM


That's what I thought:tongue: But, seriously, be a man and admit that I did. That is what is funny about these forums. Everyone tries to say " intelligent " things or what the other person wants to hear....just to hook up.:wink:


Actually what I said about the women always being the first to initiate sex it true.

I'm not sure why that would make women want to hook up with me.


I need your writing skills to ghost write a book I'm working on, or collaborate with me on. I need your brain...

I actually prefer women who aren't overly anxious about sex.


I fit that description. I can take it or leave it....

I also have no interest in oral sex either giving or receiving. That's probably the least popular thing a person can say on the Internet.


Oral sex... hummmmmm .. Does that mean talking about sex? laugh laugh :tongue:

Jeannie


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Wed 06/04/08 05:58 PM


Sex is an integral part of being human.

Marriage isnt.

Humanity was not designed to be monogamous.

So, ditch the idea of marriage and just live with the guy.

Have sex with him and enjoy it.

Withholding sex for the sake of it, is not good for either of you.

But be selective.


marriage was ordained by God! sex was created for 2 to become 1. let me get this straight I AM NOT WITH HOLDING SEX FOR THE HECK OF IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU ALL ARE DRIVING ME NUTS BY MISTAKING THINGS. I WANT TO BE PURE FOR MY HUSBAND. POINT BLANK END OF STORY. SO STOP TELLING ME WHAT I SHOULD BE DOING!!

Not if you have a high sex drive : you will burn .ohwell .