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Topic: Do you still enjoy intimacy?
paul40 Joined Sun 03/02/08 Posts: 356	Thu 07/10/08 09:42 AM
intimacy is great... but being friends first, I think, is most important... Intimacy is nice all the time . friendship is a bonus .

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Thu 07/10/08 03:12 PM
I think the two go hand in hand!!!!

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Thu 07/10/08 04:14 PM
It takes a great relationship to have great intimacy and great sex. I don't know if that's necessarily the "friends first" that women seem to think it is. It causes me to wonder how long will we be "friends" before we become "lovers" or if she has issues about being intimate. One area where the guys really fall down on the job where women generally don't is taking care of their skin. Women use a good skin moisturizer all the time but men rarely do. Once I started using a decent drugstore moisturizer with SPF 15 I took at least five years off my face. If you want to get rid of that aged haggard look try that. It'll make ya feel sexy again fella!! Having a great relationship is wonderful. But, that relationship can take on many different looks, friends, lovers. If there is that connection, some people call it chemistry (yuck), it definitely makes sex better.

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Fri 07/11/08 05:15 AM
Sure I like intimacy, as long as it doesn't rub me the wrong way.

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Fri 07/11/08 08:33 AM
Sure I like intimacy, as long as it doesn't rub me the wrong way.

buckethand56 Joined Wed 09/20/06 Posts: 1081	Fri 07/11/08 02:25 PM
Hello gal, I see you are back, missed you!!!

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Fri 07/11/08 05:37 PM
I am still here. Doing OK You?

KoolAidWoman Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 1079	Sat 07/12/08 08:54 AM
goodmorning everyone!!! thats why i want just to. Be hugged daily,i din't get that as a child #4. Of five kids.is there anyone that din't get the hugs eather!i know what i need,and i know what i want! im a simple living lady!koolaidwoman,,,

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Sat 07/12/08 09:01 AM
Morning every one!!

KoolAidWoman Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 1079	Sat 07/12/08 09:10 AM
God moring girl greer hows it going dear!

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Sat 07/12/08 09:30 AM
Going well!

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sat 07/12/08 10:20 AM
to thoes thats just turning50,,,,lol i thnk your still young,all i can say at th age of 50,,,i was very happy with all life was handing me,,,,,wait till you get older,,,,,then u can start crying

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Sat 07/12/08 11:35 AM
Joe, I do not think I'll ever cry about being my age, as I am proud to be the 56 and a half that I am!!!

flame1cutie Joined Thu 04/24/08 Posts: 7307	Sat 07/12/08 11:43 AM
Joe, I do not think I'll ever cry about being my age, as I am proud to be the 56 and a half that I am!!! Ditto, greer, I am a very proud 63

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Sat 07/12/08 11:50 AM
Hey Girl! How are you? It has been a while since I have been able to talk to you guys and it feels good!!! Sis and Niece left today and I feel so free. Mom has been in bed all day and I have been trying to catch up on emails.

flame1cutie Joined Thu 04/24/08 Posts: 7307	Sat 07/12/08 12:03 PM
Doing great here, I'm so glad you are doing better, I was worried about you there for a while. Now you can kinda relax and take care of yourself. I hope your mom is doing ok

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sat 07/12/08 12:13 PM
they are some people that start boohooing at th age of 50,even as to th point they want date a man over 50,,,,,,,i was just making a coment,that at th age of 50,,,,,,,i was enjoying th hell out of life

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Sat 07/12/08 12:13 PM
Mom is doing good!! She still has here moments, but she is OK!! Thanks for asking about her! We are taking a trip tomorrow to Kansas to see my grands.

flame1cutie Joined Thu 04/24/08 Posts: 7307	Sat 07/12/08 12:28 PM
You guys take it easy and be safe on your trip to see them grands

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 07/12/08 12:28 PM
I get to enjoy intimacy at work. I never realized just how intimate my job was. I am glad you brought this thread up. Sometimes it is a 19 year old woman giving me a hug and asking for one because she wants to be with her parents. Sometimes it is a nurse giving me a cartons of eggs because she wants to show me how thankful she is that I came in and has so many eggs because her chickens are doing good. Sometimes it is a very old person who is lonely and wants someone to talk to. Sometimes it is a nurse who is very frustrated and is seeking validity. Sometimes it is a high ranking person who gave me 20 dollars for gas so I could have gas to make it to school. Sometimes it is a man who has no legs who gives me candy for helping him on a portie pottie. Sometimes it is a Director of Nursing who tells me that is thankful that I come in on my days off. Sometimes it is a person who can't talk but likes getting fed through a feeder tube. Sometimes it is a 23 year lady who has cerebral palsy that giggles when I squeeze her toes. Sometimes it is a new aide that appreciates the time I take with them to explain things. There is so much intimacy that sometimes i wonder if I wonder if I will ever time for a relationship because I have so many.