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Topic: Moving In
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/27/08 06:16 PM
What if youve been in a relationship for a few weeks and your girlfriend wants to move in with you but you dont think your ready, what would you say so you dont piss her off or hurt her feelings ?

SAEgirl10 Joined Sun 06/22/08 Posts: 804	Fri 06/27/08 06:17 PM
tell her tht you want to get to know her better so no one gets hurt

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 06/27/08 06:17 PM
Don't know what to say that won't piss her off. But that is WAY too fast. Just say no.

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Fri 06/27/08 06:18 PM
Id tell the person the truth..that i'm not ready for that to happen..and hope that they understand.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Fri 06/27/08 06:18 PM
hell no b!tch...wait...that might piss her off

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 06/27/08 06:18 PM
At this time I don't think it's a good idea.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 06/27/08 06:18 PM
Only if you put out to me everyday!!

tonia25 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 844	Fri 06/27/08 06:19 PM
Tell her u just don't think u r ready for that step just yet.... (leave room for the possibility), but just not now...

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 06/27/08 06:19 PM
She should respect the rule...always go the pace of the slower party. It is the only way to go.

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Fri 06/27/08 06:20 PM
you tell her you dont want to ruin a good thing by moving to fast and you dont think your ready just yet....

Ambivert Joined Fri 06/13/08 Posts: 190	Fri 06/27/08 06:22 PM
Tell her u just don't think u r ready for that step just yet.... (leave room for the possibility), but just not now... This works I would also stall so i could do a back ground check. She may have Finacial, or Law problems

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Fri 06/27/08 06:22 PM
Let her move in but tell her no sex...that you want to save yourself for marriage.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Fri 06/27/08 06:22 PM
i say piss her off, sounds like a stalker

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 06/27/08 06:22 PM
She should respect the rule...always go the pace of the slower party. It is the only way to go. That is very good advice. I need to remember that!

bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163	Fri 06/27/08 06:29 PM
This works I would also stall so i could do a back ground check. She may have Finacial, or Law problems i second this notion.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Fri 06/27/08 06:31 PM
not enough time dont do it!

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Fri 06/27/08 06:33 PM
A few weeks is very early in the relationship to be moving in. Be honest with her. If she really wants to be with you she'll wait.

astrosfan Joined Thu 09/07/06 Posts: 450	Fri 06/27/08 06:39 PM Edited by astrosfan on Fri 06/27/08 06:40 PM
What if youve been in a relationship for a few weeks and your girlfriend wants to move in with you but you dont man hell no i did that **** one time ended up regreting ..... actually i did it twice .. and regreted it twice.. she needs a place to stay for a reason, .... i wont ever do it again .. there is a reason she wants to stay with you ,no lie you will get the most ass you ever gotten !!!

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Fri 06/27/08 06:41 PM
Move her in...to the backyard.

UNIQUE79 Joined Sat 06/07/08 Posts: 101	Fri 06/27/08 06:41 PM
If you are not ready DON'T DO IT she might hurt a little but you might hurt longer making the mistake.you are not ready not ready.