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Dating====I love taking women out I really don't know and spending money on them to discover that I really don't like them and then may or maybe we will have relations.... I am being Sarcastic in case you cant tell..... I just wish I could find someone I liked enough to want to have a LTR with.......that would so cool Its become my belief and observation that MOST women over 40 are not looking for love they seem to be looking for a retirement plan........ AND I SAID MOST WOMEN if this does not apply don't get offended. If you got offended it most likely applies.... I am having opposite problem I guess... I'm 42, been solo for 5 years... graduated college.. buying my own place, have a decent vehicle, decent job, and would love to find a decent man for a long term...i am sooooooooooooooo tired of the short term leases... BUT, the men I meet say I'm too independant..WTH??? because I dont want to be controlled or I dont need a man to take care of me???? whats up with that?? I am so looking in the wrong places I guess...I love independent in all people especially in women.....I just keep finding women who see my nice truck, house, job and want to latch on to me for all its worth.......I was ask my credit score on a first date here while back..... Since that I have slowed down dating big time....and that is so wrong to all the other womem 
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Dating====I love taking women out I really don't know and spending money on them to discover that I really don't like them and then may or maybe we will have relations.... I am being Sarcastic in case you cant tell..... I just wish I could find someone I liked enough to want to have a LTR with.......that would so cool Its become my belief and observation that MOST women over 40 are not looking for love they seem to be looking for a retirement plan........ AND I SAID MOST WOMEN if this does not apply don't get offended. If you got offended it most likely applies.... I am having opposite problem I guess... I'm 42, been solo for 5 years... graduated college.. buying my own place, have a decent vehicle, decent job, and would love to find a decent man for a long term...i am sooooooooooooooo tired of the short term leases... BUT, the men I meet say I'm too independant..WTH??? because I dont want to be controlled or I dont need a man to take care of me???? whats up with that?? I am so looking in the wrong places I guess...I love independent in all people especially in women.....I just keep finding women who see my nice truck, house, job and want to latch on to me for all its worth.......I was ask my credit score on a first date here while back..... Since that I have slowed down dating big time....and that is so wrong to all the other womem |
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Dating====I love taking women out I really don't know and spending money on them to discover that I really don't like them and then may or maybe we will have relations.... I am being Sarcastic in case you cant tell..... I just wish I could find someone I liked enough to want to have a LTR with.......that would so cool Its become my belief and observation that MOST women over 40 are not looking for love they seem to be looking for a retirement plan........ AND I SAID MOST WOMEN if this does not apply don't get offended. If you got offended it most likely applies.... I am having opposite problem I guess... I'm 42, been solo for 5 years... graduated college.. buying my own place, have a decent vehicle, decent job, and would love to find a decent man for a long term...i am sooooooooooooooo tired of the short term leases... BUT, the men I meet say I'm too independant..WTH??? because I dont want to be controlled or I dont need a man to take care of me???? whats up with that?? I am so looking in the wrong places I guess...I love independent in all people especially in women.....I just keep finding women who see my nice truck, house, job and want to latch on to me for all its worth.......I was ask my credit score on a first date here while back..... Since that I have slowed down dating big time....and that is so wrong to all the other womem 
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Dating====I love taking women out I really don't know and spending money on them to discover that I really don't like them and then may or maybe we will have relations.... I am being Sarcastic in case you cant tell..... I just wish I could find someone I liked enough to want to have a LTR with.......that would so cool Its become my belief and observation that MOST women over 40 are not looking for love they seem to be looking for a retirement plan........ AND I SAID MOST WOMEN if this does not apply don't get offended. If you got offended it most likely applies.... I am having opposite problem I guess... I'm 42, been solo for 5 years... graduated college.. buying my own place, have a decent vehicle, decent job, and would love to find a decent man for a long term...i am sooooooooooooooo tired of the short term leases... BUT, the men I meet say I'm too independant..WTH??? because I dont want to be controlled or I dont need a man to take care of me???? whats up with that?? I am so looking in the wrong places I guess...I love independent in all people especially in women.....I just keep finding women who see my nice truck, house, job and want to latch on to me for all its worth.......I was ask my credit score on a first date here while back..... Since that I have slowed down dating big time....and that is so wrong to all the other womem No need, because with right person I would love to share my life and all that I have with......KEYWORDS "right person" maybe my standards are too high. One of them standards is they have good life too. Two good lifes would make a great life and thats what I want and will settle for no less.....I don't think I am wrong but I am lonely  Got to go to work....
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I would like to first exsperiance a REAL date.
 (Seeing as I have not had a date yet.) A relationship would be a much in the future thing for me. I would like to date for awhile and enjoy getting to know people. Perhaps through dating- a relationship will develope latter on. |
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Sounds like most people have a Relationship in mind.
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I want a relationship, but I am going to have to date to get there. Along the way I have already met new friends and have new encounters and experiences.
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Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs
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Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities. |
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Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities. Then you is (are) lucky 
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Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities. Then you is (are) lucky It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly. |
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Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities. Then you is (are) lucky It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly. Well if I am eating eaten alive by a tiger, it is kinda hard to pretend a giant teddy bear is tickling my belly. Know what I mean? |
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Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities. Then you is (are) lucky It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly. Well if I am eating eaten alive by a tiger, it is kinda hard to pretend a giant teddy bear is tickling my belly. Know what I mean? I see your point but WHY are you being eaten alive by a tiger? Are you on safari in africa? Do you work at a zoo cleaning tiger cages? One has to consider the environment they have put themselves in. Life is not so random as we may think. People really need to accept that they are deciding factor in how their lives play out. |
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Edited by
Random_Stranger
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Sat 06/28/08 03:36 PM
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Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities. Then you is (are) lucky It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly. Well if I am eating eaten alive by a tiger, it is kinda hard to pretend a giant teddy bear is tickling my belly. Know what I mean? I see your point but WHY are you being eaten alive by a tiger? Are you on safari in africa? Do you work at a zoo cleaning tiger cages? One has to consider the environment they have put themselves in. Life is not so random as we may think. People really need to accept that they are deciding factor in how their lives play out. Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy. People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw. Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying. |
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Edited by
msmyka
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Sat 06/28/08 03:43 PM
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Relationship here, but when it is time. Dating is a waste for me, although small steps are necessary for future plans. Cannot hold anyone to expectations and you cannot put all your eggs in one basket..... Unless you got a big ass basket and a few eggs My basket is infinite, filled with possibilities. Then you is (are) lucky It could be the same for anyone who chooses to see life that way. Most become disenchanted rather quickly. Well if I am eating eaten alive by a tiger, it is kinda hard to pretend a giant teddy bear is tickling my belly. Know what I mean? I see your point but WHY are you being eaten alive by a tiger? Are you on safari in africa? Do you work at a zoo cleaning tiger cages? One has to consider the environment they have put themselves in. Life is not so random as we may think. People really need to accept that they are deciding factor in how their lives play out. Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy. I believe all things happen for a reason and if you must be hunted and mauled by a beautiful tiger to learn how to protect yourself from future attacks then, so be it. In this case the only possibility you have ruled out is this one tiger, still endless possibilities await! I'm not saying all possibilities are good possibilities, there will still be tigers and teddy bears. At least you will be able to see the difference HOPEFULLY before you get mauled by a tiger again. |
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Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy. People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw. Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying. Im not saying people should live in delusional land, but that they should see the world for its possibilities and not only for whatever distress it may have caused them in the past. |
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Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy. People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw. Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying. Im not saying people should live in delusional land, but that they should see the world for its possibilities and not only for whatever distress it may have caused them in the past. LOL I don't get mauled by tigers anymore. I just feed them poison if they look hungry. I was just trying to make a statement is all. In fact, I don't even venture in those areas. I chill in my car and just scope the view. It'll happen one day.
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Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy. People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw. Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying. Im not saying people should live in delusional land, but that they should see the world for its possibilities and not only for whatever distress it may have caused them in the past. LOL I don't get mauled by tigers anymore. I just feed them poison if they look hungry. I was just trying to make a statement is all. In fact, I don't even venture in those areas. I chill in my car and just scope the view. It'll happen one day. Glad to hear you have tigers under control, but becarful of those cougars! They are even more dangerous and less conspicuous! |
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I think that most people are interested in a relationship, but only on their explicit terms. Uncompromising, my way or the highway type relationships, each for their own personal reasons based on their experiences.
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Well, some things just are. Think of Tiger, the beautiful hunter (I dunno, some woman)....... Then check my creepy and strange analogy. People do have the power to "believe" differently, maybe might help them see, but the world isn't fooled. An earthquake is still and earthquake. It isn't a fun world seesaw. Still though, I don't get down easily. I am just saying. Im not saying people should live in delusional land, but that they should see the world for its possibilities and not only for whatever distress it may have caused them in the past. LOL I don't get mauled by tigers anymore. I just feed them poison if they look hungry. I was just trying to make a statement is all. In fact, I don't even venture in those areas. I chill in my car and just scope the view. It'll happen one day. Glad to hear you have tigers under control, but becarful of those cougars! They are even more dangerous and less conspicuous! Oh........ Lord knows I love wrastlin (yes I said Wrastlin!) those cougars......
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