So I had a friends with benefits arrangement. It was great, he's hot I'm hot for him etc. good company and easy times. Well one day he's all like "did you miss me?" I say yes he wants to know if I missed him or his willy. I say the latter and he gets kinda weird, later when he's ready to go he says he loves me. HUH? So we talk and I tell him that I do like him. Ok so he's happy and I feel better. KICKER..... I havent seen him since and he's stood me up twice! Help please? Are there any normal men here?

nope... not a one

we're all weiners

I'm normal

sounds like he started to want more than friends with benefits.

That sure is the way it sounds.

I think we are all crazy and this is a problem: we need more psychiatrists than the grass on the lawn .
I mean : how can a girl like a man' s willy and not the man ?. Is my willy more important than me ?. Oh ! lady I just can not take it ..........
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This is why I don't believe in friends with benefits!! I think it gets all messed up..someone always gets hurt or starts having feelings for the other person.
See when someone says the big L word then that changes everything. Now the whole situation is going to be messed up. After he said it, he probably realized that he messed up!
Honestly...I don't think you can ever have a good relationship when it comes to friends with benefits...theres always one person wanting more then just sex! No one will ever convince me this is a good way to go!!

I do like all of him. The longer he avoids it the less that's becoming true though.

Are you sure he was happy? I can't offer you advice...I don't do friends with benefits. Sorry. Good luck

I'm not sure what's wrong. I asked and he just said we'd talk when we got together, which hasn't happened.