If you have ever been in a relationship that you have not felt free to be who you are, did you leave, or try to change?

I'm the same no matter what!!

this is why i'm getting divorced

I left....

Why would you even get in a relationship where you couldn't be yourself? Cause if you aren't yourself, then that means you are a fake, right?

Their loss...not mine, I am who I am all the time.

Partly the reason I am single again.

I'm always myself..before..during..and after a relationship...if you feel the need to be somoene else in a relationship then it's not the one for you.

same here

I left!!

I'm not changing for any man!! That is why I got divorced!!

for me, it was gradual. we were together for a total of 15 years, and i felt myself going from a generally outgoing, happy person to somewhat of an introvert. i've been on damage repair since we split.

no...they know who I am before the relationship gets too far, and they have never expected me to be anything else.

I did and will leave. If i can't be who i am. Whats the point?

nope, always me, take it or leave it!

Welcome to the "bitter zone"

First, I tried to change. My husband wanted me to be perfect.
The perfect wife, the perfect business partner, the perfect lover, the perfect housekeeper, the perfect secretary and he wanted me to be his mother on top of that.

He wanted to be adored, respected and worshiped and he treated me with less respect than he would treat a total stranger.

He had no clue. He thought he was good at playing the game and good at mind games. I left him. I discovered I was perfect after all.

If you want to get rid of all your faults, just divorce your judgmental spouse.

No I believe that people shouldnt try to change eachother Take as Iam or take me at all