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Topic: I have the worse trouble...
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Wed 07/09/08 11:52 PM
with exes! My most recent ex told me he wanted to stab me in the face and the one before that, who has a new girlfriend whom he says hes madly in love with, wont quit talking about how he wants to have sex with me...what to do??

crazysillygirl's photo
Wed 07/09/08 11:53 PM
tell the girlfriend...LMAO...no im kidding.....i have no clue on this one hun!!! good luck

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Wed 07/09/08 11:56 PM
huh

DrX's photo
Wed 07/09/08 11:56 PM

with exes! My most recent ex told me he wanted to stab me in the face and the one before that, who has a new girlfriend whom he says hes madly in love with, wont quit talking about how he wants to have sex with me...what to do??


i would avoid getting stabbed in the face and i wouldt have ex sex, sure it's fun, but everybody leaves confused

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Wed 07/09/08 11:57 PM
I would go to Mcdonalds and have a happy meal!!!bigsmile drinker Oh and get the toy!!!!drinker

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Thu 07/10/08 12:00 AM
Theres a girl called Uniqueblonde though she's really a brunette. You guys seem alot alike and I think you should mail her for some advicelaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 07/10/08 12:01 AM

Theres a girl called Uniqueblonde though she's really a brunette. You guys seem alot alike and I think you should mail her for some advicelaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


How exactly do we seem alike?

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Thu 07/10/08 12:02 AM
first, i wouldnt go around him if he has a knife... being stabbed in the eye sounds painful

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Thu 07/10/08 12:27 AM

with exes! My most recent ex told me he wanted to stab me in the face and the one before that, who has a new girlfriend whom he says hes madly in love with, wont quit talking about how he wants to have sex with me...what to do??


Why are you talking to these guys in the first place? You get to set the rules.....if it's because of kids, just tell them that's the only subject you will discuss with them. If they make any other statements about anything else AT ALL, just continue with the appropriate subject and do not show any reaction of any kind to their stupid remarks. When they see you have no reaction, they will get bored and move on. Not the easiest thing for you to do, but be diligent!


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Thu 07/10/08 12:48 AM
Muzik is right!! You choose your destiny. YOu are the rule maker. Unless you love drama......maybe you do??????huh

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Thu 07/10/08 01:08 AM

Muzik is right!! You choose your destiny. YOu are the rule maker. Unless you love drama......maybe you do??????huh


No of course not! I told the most recent ex that I wasnt going to speak to him again. And so far, he hasnt tried to talk to me. As far as the other one...I still care about him a lot(even tho I know he doesnt care about me the same) and it's hard for me to just stop talking to him. He is a very good friend, regardless of the sex talk, and I dont wanna throw that away.

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Thu 07/10/08 01:18 AM
you seem like a nice girl, I just glanced over your profile to look for any obvious signs of why you attract such men. Just cut out the band things in life and take your time when dealing with relationships. You got a long life ahead of you kiddo and a lot to learn about men, as well as yourself and what you want. You are 19? Well 10 years ago you were probably playing with barbies. Where are they now? Of no use to you. Now imagine 10 more years later, what your interests are. Give another 10 more and then you will know who you are going to be for the rest of your life. You will discover more, but have a more solid idea of who you are and what you want out of life...

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Thu 07/10/08 01:25 AM

with exes! My most recent ex told me he wanted to stab me in the face and the one before that, who has a new girlfriend whom he says hes madly in love with, wont quit talking about how he wants to have sex with me...what to do??


Uh tell the new girlfriend and stab you in the face, this guys needs to be in jail for saying that or even thinking it. You seem like a sweet girl, so be safe

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Thu 07/10/08 05:00 AM


Muzik is right!! You choose your destiny. YOu are the rule maker. Unless you love drama......maybe you do??????huh


No of course not! I told the most recent ex that I wasnt going to speak to him again. And so far, he hasnt tried to talk to me. As far as the other one...I still care about him a lot(even tho I know he doesnt care about me the same) and it's hard for me to just stop talking to him. He is a very good friend, regardless of the sex talk, and I dont wanna throw that away.


In terms of the sexual talk, you should directly tell him it makes you uncomfortable.

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Thu 07/10/08 05:54 AM
For...stab you in the face guy...restraining order?

For...wants to have sex with ex...I would pass, but I only have sex in relationships that have FORWARD momentum.

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Thu 07/10/08 06:51 AM

with exes! My most recent ex told me he wanted to stab me in the face and the one before that, who has a new girlfriend whom he says hes madly in love with, wont quit talking about how he wants to have sex with me...what to do??


God this is just so like some women. You break it off with an ex, the kind of guy that you shouldn't have even gotten with in the first place, and then crap like this happens, and then you wonder why it is happening. Simply put, you are making bad choices here on who you are dating.

I say that this is so like alot of women BECAUSE it is women who end up doing this...getting with the wrong person. For the ex who wants to stab you in the face, I'm guessing he was sweet and gentle in the beginning, or at least that is what he showed you. Then, once you are together, the REAL person inside of him comes out, and now you have a psycho ex. As for the ex who still wants sex from you? Well, must have been good sex and that was all he ever wanted from you to begin with. That's what he misses. No real mystery there. Plus, his new girl just might not be doing it for him sexually, whereas you did.

Seems to me that you do, in some way, like drama. Some people need it to function (Why that is I have no clue).

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Thu 07/10/08 06:59 AM
Edited by No1sLove on Thu 07/10/08 07:00 AM


with exes! My most recent ex told me he wanted to stab me in the face and the one before that, who has a new girlfriend whom he says hes madly in love with, wont quit talking about how he wants to have sex with me...what to do??


God this is just so like some women. You break it off with an ex, the kind of guy that you shouldn't have even gotten with in the first place, and then crap like this happens, and then you wonder why it is happening. Simply put, you are making bad choices here on who you are dating.

I say that this is so like alot of women BECAUSE it is women who end up doing this...getting with the wrong person. For the ex who wants to stab you in the face, I'm guessing he was sweet and gentle in the beginning, or at least that is what he showed you. Then, once you are together, the REAL person inside of him comes out, and now you have a psycho ex. As for the ex who still wants sex from you? Well, must have been good sex and that was all he ever wanted from you to begin with. That's what he misses. No real mystery there. Plus, his new girl just might not be doing it for him sexually, whereas you did.

Seems to me that you do, in some way, like drama. Some people need it to function (Why that is I have no clue).
Do you have the secret deciphering code to determine when a mans "sweet and gentle" side could later turn psycho, then, or only criticisms of women who do not posses crystal balls?

I'm sorry if that sounds harsh...not trying to pick a fight w/you at all, but your comment seems critical of women who make poor choices and then say you understand the men seem to be good guys at first. Are you suggesting that if they seem good they are probably not then? Why blame her for falling for a rouse she could not have seen? huh flowerforyou

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Thu 07/10/08 07:02 AM

with exes! My most recent ex told me he wanted to stab me in the face and the one before that, who has a new girlfriend whom he says hes madly in love with, wont quit talking about how he wants to have sex with me...what to do??



wow...nice guy!!

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Thu 07/10/08 07:06 AM

with exes! My most recent ex told me he wanted to stab me in the face and the one before that, who has a new girlfriend whom he says hes madly in love with, wont quit talking about how he wants to have sex with me...what to do??

quit talking to both of them!:wink:

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Thu 07/10/08 07:09 AM
I got it! Don't speak to either one. Period. Friendship or no.

Just say no to ex.

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