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Topic: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 07/14/08 09:06 PM
Do you believe in the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater"?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 07/14/08 09:07 PM
Yes, & a leopard never changes it's spots

SAEgirl10 Joined Sun 06/22/08 Posts: 804	Mon 07/14/08 09:08 PM
Yes, & a leopard never changes it's spots agree

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Mon 07/14/08 09:08 PM
anything is possible

pms64 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 1143	Mon 07/14/08 09:08 PM
Yup.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 07/14/08 09:08 PM
Yes, & a leopard never changes it's spots agree!

Angelface2000 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1930	Mon 07/14/08 09:08 PM
To some degree, yes...Depends on the underlying psyche..but for the most part yes.. ((((Mirror)))) How are you hun?

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15104	Mon 07/14/08 09:09 PM
Yep

myssfytz Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 14460	Mon 07/14/08 09:09 PM
imo...its a hard "label" to overcome if the cheater is honest with his/her future b/f or g/f...but id never be with someone that i knew was an actual cheater.and id never stay with one either if they had cheated on me.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 07/14/08 09:09 PM
i guess i'm one of those people that believe people can change

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Mon 07/14/08 09:13 PM
imo...its a hard "label" to overcome if the cheater is honest with his/her future b/f or g/f...but id never be with someone that i knew was an actual cheater.and id never stay with one either if they had cheated on me.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 07/14/08 09:14 PM
Well, lets look at it like this. Before the person cheated, they were a non-cheater. So, they never had cheated, until they one day do the deed. So, the "Once" part from the saying comes into effect. But here is the thing. If you screw up one time, realize it, then make amends to never do it again, you have gone back to what you were. However, you did, in fact cheat, so therefore, this saying is pretty much accurate. Once you do cheat, you have that label no matter what you say or do. I rest my case.

domination Joined Fri 06/20/08 Posts: 506	Mon 07/14/08 09:14 PM
Abso-effin-lutely

popcornncoke Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 2088	Mon 07/14/08 09:15 PM
i guess i'm one of those people that believe people can change I try to see the good side of a person.

LaughaLittle101 Joined Sun 04/20/08 Posts: 1485	Mon 07/14/08 09:15 PM
Damn mirror it was only once i said i'll be faithful, why can't u just trust me babe...... LMAO,

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 07/14/08 09:15 PM
To some degree, yes...Depends on the underlying psyche..but for the most part yes.. ((((Mirror)))) How are you hun? hello Angelbabe Im doing great

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 07/14/08 09:15 PM
Damn mirror it was only once i said i'll be faithful, why can't u just trust me babe...... LMAO,

armbender Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 177	Mon 07/14/08 09:19 PM
absolutely

lookingforsunshine Joined Tue 12/25/07 Posts: 38	Mon 07/14/08 09:23 PM
Yep. My ex cheated with his current girlfriend and guess what! You guessed it he is cheating on her now too.

Kravynn Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 1513	Mon 07/14/08 09:28 PM
Ya know what I love. The idiots who fall for people who are cheating, then they leave their wife/gf/husband/bf for them. Hey DUMBA$$ he cheated with you, hes going to cheat on you....rocket science people...