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Topic: What is wrong with me in Tennessee?
carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sun 07/27/08 04:02 PM
LOL glad I notice that :)

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sun 07/27/08 04:04 PM
not really pointing my finger at you,,,but some people put things so far out that it's impossible for them to find there match,,,,,like 1 in a million,,,,th odds are just to much,i think it was grer said she loks for friends an if something better comes out of it,great,,if not,u still got a good friend

cherokeeangel53 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 76	Sun 07/27/08 04:17 PM Edited by cherokeeangel53 on Sun 07/27/08 04:26 PM
I agree Joe. I have many friends I've met through the past year. It seems the men I've met for the most part aren't looking for a long term relationship, just to see how quick they can get a person into bed without even getting to know the person's heart. It's so frustrating to me. I long to find true love again. I'd been married since I was 17 and I hate being alone.

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sun 07/27/08 04:31 PM
i feel like th harder you look,,,,th harder it is to find,,an some say it will find you,,,,who knows witch one is true,,,,,,but i do understand what ur saying about a relationship

cherokeeangel53 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 76	Sun 07/27/08 05:01 PM
I've been told to stop looking so hard but I have stopped and just pray for God to send me someone. I know God works in His own time but I hope I'm still young enough to enjoy someone once He sends them.

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sun 07/27/08 06:08 PM
he might wait till u get into a rest home,,,then find you a buddy,,,,,sorry that just poped out,,,,sounds like my kind of luck anyway

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Sun 07/27/08 06:27 PM
The Lord will lead you to who he wants you to be with and vice versa. Be patient, pray and wait on him. Our impatience can drive us to someone who isn't good for us and vice versa. Proverbs 3:5&6: Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. Your profile looks OK to me. I don't really understand the first line of it, but that's OK. It's interesting at any rate and I like that you acknowledge the Lord in your profile. Take your time and enjoy your life. What do you do when you're not on JSH?

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Sun 07/27/08 08:09 PM
BRAVO YASHA!! I believe that God is the key to evey thing that is done on the earth, and that is why I am waiting till that time when I WILL KNOW!!!!!! Until then, I just have fun and keep gathering friends that are good to , and for me!!!!!!!

cherokeeangel53 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 76	Mon 07/28/08 02:31 PM
The Lord will lead you to who he wants you to be with and vice versa. Be patient, pray and wait on him. Our impatience can drive us to someone who isn't good for us and vice versa. Proverbs 3:5&6: Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. Your profile looks OK to me. I don't really understand the first line of it, but that's OK. It's interesting at any rate and I like that you acknowledge the Lord in your profile. Take your time and enjoy your life. What do you do when you're not on JSH? When I'm not on JSH or a bunch of match making sites, I'm going bowling (alone), movies (alone) or to listen to Gospel groups sing (alone).

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Mon 07/28/08 02:36 PM
I truely understand!! I do most every thing alone, even when I am with Mom!!!

flame1cutie Joined Thu 04/24/08 Posts: 7307	Mon 07/28/08 08:00 PM
The Lord will lead you to who he wants you to be with and vice versa. Be patient, pray and wait on him. Our impatience can drive us to someone who isn't good for us and vice versa. Proverbs 3:5&6: Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. Your profile looks OK to me. I don't really understand the first line of it, but that's OK. It's interesting at any rate and I like that you acknowledge the Lord in your profile. Take your time and enjoy your life. What do you do when you're not on JSH? When I'm not on JSH or a bunch of match making sites, I'm going bowling (alone), movies (alone) or to listen to Gospel groups sing (alone). I know what you are going threw too. I have been alone for over 10 yrs and I admit it's really been hard. The loneliness is strong but I've learned that when I put in my Southern Gosple music it helps out an awful lot so just hang in there. There is someone special for you when God is ready you will find him.

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Mon 07/28/08 09:03 PM
Well put, Flame!!!!

cherokeeangel53 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 76	Tue 07/29/08 02:50 PM
I just hope I'm still young enough to enjoy being with someone.

polypeasant Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 1319	Tue 07/29/08 02:58 PM
across the Big Pond.... Never fear. You are never too old. You look great in your picture. Its hard to be eternally hopeful, but whats the alternative?? I have gone through a long hard dryspell with flirtations leading to no where, but I think there is a right good person out there for everyone. Cheers and keep the faith!! Poly aka:Erlene

cherokeeangel53 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 76	Tue 07/29/08 03:43 PM
Thanks, Poly

cherokeeangel53 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 76	Tue 07/29/08 03:45 PM
I'm strong, yeah it will hurt but please tell me why I can't find someone to love me? See my picture and read my profile, is there something I can do to improve on the profile? Am I just so butte ugly no one wants to even look at me? Thought I'd repost the question so if anyone new comes looking and doesn't want to go to the first page. (Please God, I'm so lonely I cold cry.)

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Tue 07/29/08 03:58 PM
hun,,,thats a song

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 07/29/08 04:34 PM
I'm strong, yeah it will hurt but please tell me why I can't find someone to love me? See my picture and read my profile, is there something I can do to improve on the profile? Am I just so butte ugly no one wants to even look at me? Thought I'd repost the question so if anyone new comes looking and doesn't want to go to the first page. (Please God, I'm so lonely I cold cry.) AH girlie I've been crying too but for other reasons. Me I thought I found someone the hurt from it ending after looking and hoping just to get knocked down again doesn't help. Be careful the scammers the married men. I have on my profile no married men but they still get through using other wording.

cherokeeangel53 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 76	Tue 07/29/08 05:25 PM
I've had my share of scammers and married men. I've still got a married man begging me to be his lover. I told him I'm not into that stuff and I didn't want to be the other woman like my ex's girlfriend.

polypeasant Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 1319	Tue 07/29/08 05:59 PM
Ah Cherokee & CarolD, There's this guy I have liked for so long and it felt mutual, BUT, we never got together nor did I ever get to the part where I felt like I was getting what I wanted..... Then today I find him advertising on another site where I have been for so long.... Breaks my heart...why doesn't he see me for the goo, loving person that I am or was to him.... Its all such a nasty game...I gave him the space he seemed to need..made the effort not to be clingy....it didn't do any good..