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Topic: Would you be able to continue ?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/09/08 06:50 PM
If you started dating someone and found out they had a child they never saw or cared about, would you be able to continue the relationship?

ImLookingForU2 Joined Tue 07/29/08 Posts: 207	Sat 08/09/08 06:51 PM
yes

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Sat 08/09/08 06:52 PM
no... my sons father does this and its devistating to my son... i couldnt be with a man that can infict that kind of hurt on a child.

monza2003 Joined Sun 05/18/08 Posts: 1	Sat 08/09/08 06:52 PM
not sure depends on why

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Sat 08/09/08 06:52 PM
NO, because that child deserves to have both parents in their life.

coz1976 Joined Sun 07/13/08 Posts: 1196	Sat 08/09/08 06:53 PM
no

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sat 08/09/08 06:53 PM
If there were no reasons other than his own lack of caring that kept a man from seeing his own child, I would not want to maintain a relationship with him.

ciggskill Joined Mon 06/04/07 Posts: 398	Sat 08/09/08 06:54 PM
no i couldnt thats redicuolous but i found for my life style its easier to date guys without kids

ImLookingForU2 Joined Tue 07/29/08 Posts: 207	Sat 08/09/08 06:55 PM
I have a baby and the mother will not let me see it. she was not sure who the dad was because she cheated on me. but now she is getting married to this other guy and she wants the kid to think he is the father

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sat 08/09/08 06:57 PM
What if the reason the guy doesn't see his child is due to something beyond his control, even though he would give anything at all to be able to see the child?

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Sat 08/09/08 06:58 PM
NO, because that child deserves to have both parents in their life. diddo what kind of person walks out on there kid?

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Sat 08/09/08 06:59 PM
I have a baby and the mother will not let me see it. she was not sure who the dad was because she cheated on me. but now she is getting married to this other guy and she wants the kid to think he is the father But you could fight for your rights if you wanted to

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sat 08/09/08 06:59 PM
It would depend upon the circumstances.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/09/08 07:00 PM
Very interesting

wanttachat Joined Sat 01/27/07 Posts: 8827	Sat 08/09/08 07:02 PM
NO, because that child deserves to have both parents in their life. diddo what kind of person walks out on there kid? double ditto

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sat 08/09/08 07:02 PM
Very interesting Definitely. Sometimes, I think it's possible to find a match for me around here somewhere...then there are times that I realize that the women here seem to be just as judgmental and full of crap as they are in the real world.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sat 08/09/08 07:04 PM
Very interesting Definitely. Sometimes, I think it's possible to find a match for me around here somewhere...then there are times that I realize that the women here seem to be just as judgmental and full of crap as they are in the real world. HEY, whoa... watch who you're accusing, buddy!

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sat 08/09/08 07:05 PM
Very interesting Definitely. Sometimes, I think it's possible to find a match for me around here somewhere...then there are times that I realize that the women here seem to be just as judgmental and full of crap as they are in the real world. HEY, whoa... watch who you're accusing, buddy! Sorry. I'll rephrase. A LOT of women around here. That better?

wanttachat Joined Sat 01/27/07 Posts: 8827	Sat 08/09/08 07:06 PM
Very interesting Definitely. Sometimes, I think it's possible to find a match for me around here somewhere...then there are times that I realize that the women here seem to be just as judgmental and full of crap as they are in the real world. not judgmental just opinionated

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sat 08/09/08 07:07 PM
Very interesting Definitely. Sometimes, I think it's possible to find a match for me around here somewhere...then there are times that I realize that the women here seem to be just as judgmental and full of crap as they are in the real world. not judgmental just opinionated Sorry. In this case, without knowing any of the particulars, it's judgmental.