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Topic: YES OR NO TO Friends with Benefits?
horsegirl55 Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 5236	Mon 12/01/08 01:53 PM
Hi Bonnie did you have a great time last night?

july7553 Joined Fri 11/21/08 Posts: 1461	Mon 12/01/08 02:01 PM
at the time of the benefits, sure. all depends on what kind of benefits ur talking about. Never say never. Wow, this discussion looks like it ruffled a few feathers. I'm with those who don't make judgements about others and "never say never." I have "been there" on this one and it was a good thing for both of us. We don't live in the same city anymore and I miss what we had.

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Mon 12/01/08 02:05 PM
I have been so busy this past year and half, to have friends, much less benefits

bonniebelle Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 1206	Mon 12/01/08 02:25 PM
Hi Bonnie did you have a great time last night? It was her Christmas concert, she added allot of her hits toward the end.

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Mon 12/01/08 03:43 PM
She who, Bonnie?

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 12/01/08 03:57 PM
at the time of the benefits, sure. all depends on what kind of benefits ur talking about. Never say never. Wow, this discussion looks like it ruffled a few feathers. I'm with those who don't make judgements about others and "never say never." I have "been there" on this one and it was a good thing for both of us. We don't live in the same city anymore and I miss what we had. Yeah I agree with with you July. I know I'm going to miss this person too. Never will be anything more but I know I what more in a relationship.Life, sure wouldn't expect to be here now. It can flip so fast. :)

july7553 Joined Fri 11/21/08 Posts: 1461	Mon 12/01/08 04:00 PM
at the time of the benefits, sure. all depends on what kind of benefits ur talking about. Never say never. Wow, this discussion looks like it ruffled a few feathers. I'm with those who don't make judgements about others and "never say never." I have "been there" on this one and it was a good thing for both of us. We don't live in the same city anymore and I miss what we had. Yeah I agree with with you July. I know I'm going to miss this person too. Never will be anything more but I know I what more in a relationship.Life, sure wouldn't expect to be here now. It can flip so fast. :) Hey Carol - I know what I want too. I think that is the problem, maybe I want too much. Sure would like to meet someone that I could really relate to

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 12/01/08 04:08 PM
at the time of the benefits, sure. all depends on what kind of benefits ur talking about. Never say never. Wow, this discussion looks like it ruffled a few feathers. I'm with those who don't make judgements about others and "never say never." I have "been there" on this one and it was a good thing for both of us. We don't live in the same city anymore and I miss what we had. Yeah I agree with with you July. I know I'm going to miss this person too. Never will be anything more but I know I what more in a relationship.Life, sure wouldn't expect to be here now. It can flip so fast. :) Hey Carol - I know what I want too. I think that is the problem, maybe I want too much. Sure would like to meet someone that I could really relate to LOL keep the faith :) I just want someone to love and live happily ever after with :) of course we have to be compatiable so that takes time :)

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Mon 12/01/08 04:08 PM
I have missed the real point of this discussion, haven't I? I was really just having fun, so I hope I haven't offended anyone.

bonniebelle Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 1206	Mon 12/01/08 04:10 PM
She who, Bonnie? I got to see Crystal Gale out here in Laughlin last night. I enjoyed it allot.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 12/01/08 04:12 PM
I don't think it was you Greer. lets stir it up a little lol :)

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Mon 12/01/08 04:15 PM
She who, Bonnie? I got to see Crystal Gale out here in Laughlin last night. I enjoyed it allot. Well, YEAH!!!! Bet it was AWESOME.

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Mon 12/01/08 04:17 PM
I don't think it was you Greer. lets stir it up a little lol :) Thought I was stiring it up when I said NO FRIENDS, NO BENNIES!!!! But you know how things can get turned around. I am here to have fun, and be friends to those who need an ear, shoulder, or heart felt "hug".

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 12/01/08 04:25 PM
At this stage in my life I don't need the mind games that friends with benefits can cause, but on the other hand I don't ever see my self getting married. She would have to be more then a friend to me.

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Mon 12/01/08 04:39 PM
At this stage in my life I don't need the mind games that friends with benefits can cause, but on the other hand I don't ever see my self getting married. She would have to be more then a friend to me. That is totally my problem!! But I just do not have the time to even meet people, much less get to know them well enough for bennies....

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 12/01/08 04:46 PM
Does anyone feel they don't have the energy for a relationship?

bonniebelle Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 1206	Mon 12/01/08 05:08 PM
She who, Bonnie? I got to see Crystal Gale out here in Laughlin last night. I enjoyed it allot. Well, YEAH!!!! Bet it was AWESOME. Yes Greer it was, her sister Peggy Sue was singing with her, another good singer. Those two ladies get to kidding around- they are a riot The Christmas songs, her popular songs & the seating where i could see her clearly. Yes awesome. She's so classy & personable

horsegirl55 Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 5236	Mon 12/01/08 05:19 PM
I would have loved to see it. I like her sister, too. I bet they could really get things going. I am glad you had a good time. Sorry I didn't get back to you but the vet called and I had to meet her to pick up some more horse medicine. She was in the area and it makes it easy just to wait until she heading back to her office in Goochland to meet her near the interstate.

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Mon 12/01/08 05:25 PM
Does anyone feel they don't have the energy for a relationship? I feel that way at times. Next few weeks is going to be that way. 8 concerts in the month of December plus rehearsals and working full time make for a very busy life. Not much time left over for a relationship unless they are into the music stuff too.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 12/01/08 05:36 PM
Does anyone feel they don't have the energy for a relationship? I feel that way at times. Next few weeks is going to be that way. 8 concerts in the month of December plus rehearsals and working full time make for a very busy life. Not much time left over for a relationship unless they are into the music stuff too. Let me rephrase myself. Have you put so much effort in to a relationship where you feel you’re drained. The last lady I was dating sucked the life energy out of me.