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RO... I meant that comment to the OP.  It was still funny!!! 
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 I am by far not a virgin I have 4 children. I wasn't saying wait until marriage. Yes it has to be when the time is right. But women often come upon men who want to just have sex right away. I personally will not have sex right away. I am one of those who prefers the more chemical contact that comes when people bond. |
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RO... I meant that comment to the OP. It was still funny!!! Ha, well it might be a good thing you don't dream about it. I bet you get more sleep than I do! |
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<----has the opposite problem. Gets women who can't wait. Marriage proposals over blind date dinners. Gets clothes tore off and sexually used and abused the second we leave a public place. Sometimes not even that. "Hey! I'm trying to eat my linguini and sausage! Leave my zipper alone! No I don't want a blowjob! Get out from under the table!" (guess I shouldn't have said it so loud- restaurant went silent and everyones staring with their mouths open). No! I don't want a blowjob while I'm driving! You like it when someone slaps your ass during sex! Why? I don't get it! You want me to stick it in your butt?! You like that? Makes you crazy? Wow! Blind dating is crazy these days. Any dating is crazy.
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"Hey! I'm trying to eat my linguini and sausage! Leave my zipper alone! No I don't want a blowjob! Get out from under the table!" No! I don't want a blowjob while I'm driving! You like it when someone slaps your ass during sex! Why? I don't get it! You want me to stick it in your butt?! You like that? Makes you crazy? Wow! Good thing we live so far away, LHB.... you wouldn't want to date me then! 
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I am by far not a virgin I have 4 children. I wasn't saying wait until marriage. Yes it has to be when the time is right. But women often come upon men who want to just have sex right away. I personally will not have sex right away. I am one of those who prefers the more chemical contact that comes when people bond.  The more chemical contact when people bond.....that was a good way to put it (LOL...superglue)....I guess I'm the same way...I don't just jump right in bed either. Personally, if I find someone who wants to get that close...I'm gonna want to keep them around for a long time. |
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"Hey! I'm trying to eat my linguini and sausage! Leave my zipper alone! No I don't want a blowjob! Get out from under the table!" No! I don't want a blowjob while I'm driving! You like it when someone slaps your ass during sex! Why? I don't get it! You want me to stick it in your butt?! You like that? Makes you crazy? Wow! Good thing we live so far away, LHB.... you wouldn't want to date me then! OH BABY!!!!!! |
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No I totally understand what you are saying.
And to be truthful, I've often thought of changing tactics. But there are so many dirtbags (not steriotyping...just being honest) around here. That abstinace always seems like the best option. Plus I'm from the bible belt, it is hard to have a good relationship with someone and not seem like a whore. I don't go to church never have, probably never will. I'm not looking for a 'bible thumping' guy who think anything beyond holding hands is a sin. That's why I broke up with my last guy. He loved church more than me. But I'm 23, never gone anywhere close to sex...and now I'm worried about getting into some deep trouble. Plus I'm overweight. So any quy who looks my way (generally speaking) is only seeing one useful thing. Guys around here are so shallow, they don't understand the value of a good conversation! *sorry just venting steam* So when I say I'm waiting...well then I seem stuck up and non-flexible. It's a no win situation. - or well that's just how it seems |
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And really what is the fun of jumping right into bed with someone? Hell, half the fun is getting there!!! Missing the little nuaunces (I know that has to be spelled wrong) of the chase, well that's just not right.
Doesn't anyone enjoy taking the long road anymore? Are we that much of a fast food society that we can't even make time for good old fashioned dating? Did McDonalds and ATM's really ruin all aspects of society? The fun part of getting to know each other over time is just too good to miss if you ask me. I mean as a single person, when I wax nostalgic these are the times which come to mind. I don't know, I guess I belong in another era, but it seems we all just want an instant solution to any problem we have, and no one is willing to put in the time anymore. |
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Ever thought about just taking it day by day rather than setting firm in stone boundaries that may be perceived as rigid?
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I'd be only too glad to! If I can find someone. So I guess that's why i'm here.
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I feel like I belong to another era too. But yeah we live in a fast paced world now. Everything has to be done right away. Instant gratification. Easy come easy go. Things that take time and dedication are well worth the effort and last longer
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Ok, then jumping topic...how does one go about finding someone?
Also - working on profile. Will let you know when I'm done. Feed back would be great. |
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No I totally understand what you are saying. And to be truthful, I've often thought of changing tactics. But there are so many dirtbags (not steriotyping...just being honest) around here. That abstinace always seems like the best option. Plus I'm from the bible belt, it is hard to have a good relationship with someone and not seem like a whore. I don't go to church never have, probably never will. I'm not looking for a 'bible thumping' guy who think anything beyond holding hands is a sin. That's why I broke up with my last guy. He loved church more than me. But I'm 23, never gone anywhere close to sex...and now I'm worried about getting into some deep trouble. Plus I'm overweight. So any quy who looks my way (generally speaking) is only seeing one useful thing. Guys around here are so shallow, they don't understand the value of a good conversation! *sorry just venting steam* So when I say I'm waiting...well then I seem stuck up and non-flexible. It's a no win situation. - or well that's just how it seems |
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Ok, then jumping topic...how does one go about finding someone? Also - working on profile. Will let you know when I'm done. Feed back would be great. In here or out there? The best advice I have is be outgoing. If you see or meet someone that interests you, go for it. Being told "no" is not so hard or so bad. It's not personal for the other person doesn't know you. Keep that in mind and you'll be great. Try not to bring up sex... it will just confuse things. If they do, just sorta kinda dismiss it without ignoring it. And take it day by day. |
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I find that just hanging out enjoying yourself in the forums and showing your personality will attract someone to you. When you kind of stop looking and just hang back and be you, you are more likely to have someone find you. It takes time.
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<----has way too many freinds. Owns a rollodex. Has two blackberrys because the sd cards only hold 1500 phone numbers and addresses.
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<----screens phonecalls.
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<----screens phonecalls. |
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<----is able to pick on himself and live in humble humility.
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