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Topic: Be Honest...
LVSteve's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:48 PM
Would you--for any reason--read your mate's email or pose as him/her online, without his/her knowledge and permission?


Goofball73's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:49 PM
Isn't that against the Geneva Connvention or something?

ambuh_massacre's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:50 PM
yes

no photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:51 PM
no

Totage's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:51 PM

Would you--for any reason--read your mate's email or pose as him/her online, without his/her knowledge and permission?




no

missy51970's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:51 PM
No...

dia_licious's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:52 PM

Would you--for any reason--read your mate's email or pose as him/her online, without his/her knowledge and permission?




i have, and thats how i found out he was cheating on me. i did, however, have a good reason to hack into his messenger and read his archived messages...it wasnt because i was bored or anything...

ambuh_massacre's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:53 PM


Would you--for any reason--read your mate's email or pose as him/her online, without his/her knowledge and permission?




i have, and thats how i found out he was cheating on me. i did, however, have a good reason to hack into his messenger and read his archived messages...it wasnt because i was bored or anything...


yeah, I did the same thing.
I would never do it out of boredom, only if I had good reason.

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Sun 10/26/08 07:53 PM
NOPE NOPE NOPE

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:54 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sun 10/26/08 08:11 PM
No. If I suspect I need to do something like that I am already gone. Reading someones mail is more likely to hurt a relationship because two wrongs don't make a right. That said I don't think I have ever been in a relationship where I didn't have full access to a Power of Attorney and passwords. My mates frequently told me what they wrote or saw. We didn't see things as private from a mate. I guess it was the we are one concept.

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Sun 10/26/08 07:56 PM
No.

Jill298's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:56 PM
If I had evidence that he was cheating or a very good reason to think he was, then I feel I have a right to find out by whatever means. I have never done it and hope I never have to. But I feel if he violated my rights and respect by cheating on me, then it's open season.

Jill298's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:57 PM

No. If I suspect I need to do something like that I am already gone. Reading someones mail is more likely to hurt a relationship because two wrongs don't make a right.
a suspicion shouldn't be enough to leave your partner. You should at least have actual proof before you break a relationship.

dia_licious's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:58 PM

No. If I suspect I need to do something like that I am already gone. Reading someones mail is more likely to hurt a relationship because two wrongs don't make a right.


soooo if you went to do your mates laundry and found a $50 gift card to red lobster in a pocket and when asked they said it was for a female friend of his for xmas, after the fact that YOU had to pay for all HIS familys gifts because he was broke...you wouldnt be suspicious enough to read his emails in hopes to clear your thoughts?

chickayoshi's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:58 PM
No. I would never do that...no matter how tempting it may be. But My.Space comments can reveal stuff too. That's how I found out about one of my "friends".

Goofball73's photo
Sun 10/26/08 07:59 PM
I'm sorry, but for those of who would do this, I just find that to be wrong. Call me a judgmental prick if you must, but why would get involved with someone that you couldn't trust? And it lead you to do something like this? I don't get that.

Jill298's photo
Sun 10/26/08 08:02 PM

I'm sorry, but for those of who would do this, I just find that to be wrong. Call me a judgmental prick if you must, but why would get involved with someone that you couldn't trust? And it lead you to do something like this? I don't get that.
It's not about getting involved with someone you don't trust... it's about him or her cheating after you've been in a relationship. I trust my bf, I give him every right to privacy. I never check his phone, his wallet, his email. None of that. But if I started having a VALID reason to think he's cheating on me... then I have the right to find out.

dia_licious's photo
Sun 10/26/08 08:02 PM

I'm sorry, but for those of who would do this, I just find that to be wrong. Call me a judgmental prick if you must, but why would get involved with someone that you couldn't trust? And it lead you to do something like this? I don't get that.



what if you trusted this person with your life, until that one event happened...thats how it was for my situation anyway, i was totally blind sided!

dia_licious's photo
Sun 10/26/08 08:03 PM


I'm sorry, but for those of who would do this, I just find that to be wrong. Call me a judgmental prick if you must, but why would get involved with someone that you couldn't trust? And it lead you to do something like this? I don't get that.
It's not about getting involved with someone you don't trust... it's about him or her cheating after you've been in a relationship. I trust my bf, I give him every right to privacy. I never check his phone, his wallet, his email. None of that. But if I started having a VALID reason to think he's cheating on me... then I have the right to find out.


thank you!

Jill298's photo
Sun 10/26/08 08:04 PM
When someone is cheating on you, it puts your health on the line if you're having sexual relationship. You don't know who he / she is cheating with and could bring home to you. I'm not going to turn a blind eye and pretend he's not cheating when all the evidence shows otherwise.

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