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Topic: Should women pay when out on a date?
Beachgirl101's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:35 PM
Call me old fashion but I think the man should always pay when going out on a date...am I wrong to think this? I have heard sooo many guys say they feel less like a man when a woman pays...is this true?

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:37 PM
It is akward, but these are different timesohwell

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Tue 10/28/08 05:37 PM
I think a lot of guys feel that way, and that just shows that they are a gentleman...of course I also see nothing wrong with going dutch on occasion or even paying myself

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Tue 10/28/08 05:37 PM
Well, I've met a few who are not offended. For me, it's partly based on feeling it's MY TURN and sometimes I pay if they just paid for something, or if I know the fellow is low on funds. It's only fair to at least offer once in a while.

mmmike's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:38 PM
If I ask I pay if you ask you pay sounds fair to me

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Tue 10/28/08 05:38 PM
first date, men should pay, after that
if the LADY wants to pay it's fine by me

buffry's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:39 PM
I think it depends on whose idea it was to go out ya know? If you initiate the date...take on some of the bill. Or if he's broke, treat him!

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:40 PM
I have a date tomorrow night & she insists on paying, I still don't know how to deal with that one, but like I said these are diffferent times

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Tue 10/28/08 05:41 PM

Call me old fashion but I think the man should always pay when going out on a date...am I wrong to think this? I have heard sooo many guys say they feel less like a man when a woman pays...is this true?


If Im inviting then Im paying, if Im invited then theyre paying.




...I stay home alone alot..:cry:

Giocamo's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:41 PM
the man should always pay if it's a date...

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Tue 10/28/08 05:41 PM

Call me old fashion but I think the man should always pay when going out on a date...am I wrong to think this? I have heard sooo many guys say they feel less like a man when a woman pays...is this true?

Well I was raised right. I always pay, open doors, etc

But some people believe its whoever asks the other person out should pay.

enderra's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:42 PM
HELL NO!!!, a man who lets you pay is not interested in you, mark my words.

JenJen1985's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:42 PM
Edited by JenJen1985 on Tue 10/28/08 05:43 PM
I think a man should pay for the date because it shows they are a gentlemen. But in return give them your attention and time and even if the date not going well.

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Tue 10/28/08 05:44 PM

Call me old fashion but I think the man should always pay when going out on a date...am I wrong to think this? I have heard sooo many guys say they feel less like a man when a woman pays...is this true?

I disagree.. out of like the 18 dates I went on with my ex I paid for everything except she got us lunch TWICE which cost her maybe $15. I spent hundreds of dollars on her for dinner, beach, bowling, movies and NOT once did she offer to pay. I would not feel less of a man if she paid whatsoever.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:44 PM
U know sometimes I pay because that's just howI am then I don't feel like I owe anyone anything! flowerforyou

RKISIT's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:45 PM

It is akward, but these are different timesohwell
not the toweldrool laugh

Winx's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:45 PM

I have a date tomorrow night & she insists on paying, I still don't know how to deal with that one, but like I said these are diffferent times


Better not wear that towel.

Did she ask you? Haven't you dated much before?

Giocamo's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:46 PM

U know sometimes I pay because that's just howI am then I don't feel like I owe anyone anything! flowerforyou


I'm jottin' this down...lol

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Tue 10/28/08 05:46 PM
I only have 2 rules:

1. We take turns paying.
2. It's always my turn.

drinker

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:46 PM
It all depends on who ask the one that asked should be the one that pays. Now I don't believe that should be all the time for I see no reason why a lady can not pick up the tab once in a while. Or at least the drinks at the bar before a meal if you are having to wait for a table.

Now days many women actually have a higher income then some men do or pretty even.

I've been known to pick up the tab at times I have no problem with it.


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