| Topic: Should women pay when out on a date? | |
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      Call me old fashion but I think the man should always pay when going out on a date...am I wrong to think this? I have heard sooo many guys say they feel less like a man when a woman pays...is this true?
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      It is akward, but these are different times   | |
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      I think a lot of guys feel that way, and that just shows that they are a gentleman...of course I also see nothing wrong with going dutch on occasion or even paying myself
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      Well, I've met a few who are not offended.  For me, it's partly based on feeling it's MY TURN and sometimes I pay if they just paid for something, or if I know the fellow is low on funds.  It's only fair to at least offer once in a while.
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      If I ask I pay if you ask you pay sounds fair to me
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      first date, men should pay, after that
 if the LADY wants to pay it's fine by me | |
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      I think it depends on whose idea it was to go out ya know?  If you initiate the date...take on some of the bill.  Or if he's broke, treat him!
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      I have a date tomorrow night & she insists on paying, I still don't know how to deal with that one, but like I said these are diffferent times
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| Call me old fashion but I think the man should always pay when going out on a date...am I wrong to think this? I have heard sooo many guys say they feel less like a man when a woman pays...is this true? If Im inviting then Im paying, if Im invited then theyre paying. ...I stay home alone alot..   | |
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      the man should always pay if it's a date...
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| Call me old fashion but I think the man should always pay when going out on a date...am I wrong to think this? I have heard sooo many guys say they feel less like a man when a woman pays...is this true? Well I was raised right. I always pay, open doors, etc But some people believe its whoever asks the other person out should pay. | |
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      HELL NO!!!, a man who lets you pay is not interested in you, mark my words.
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        Edited by
        JenJen1985
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        Tue 10/28/08 05:43 PM
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      I think a man should pay for the date because it shows they are a gentlemen. But in return give them your attention and time and even if the date not going well.
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| Call me old fashion but I think the man should always pay when going out on a date...am I wrong to think this? I have heard sooo many guys say they feel less like a man when a woman pays...is this true? I disagree.. out of like the 18 dates I went on with my ex I paid for everything except she got us lunch TWICE which cost her maybe $15. I spent hundreds of dollars on her for dinner, beach, bowling, movies and NOT once did she offer to pay. I would not feel less of a man if she paid whatsoever. | |
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      U know sometimes I pay because that's just howI am then I don't feel like I owe anyone anything!     | |
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| It is akward, but these are different times       | |
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| I have a date tomorrow night & she insists on paying, I still don't know how to deal with that one, but like I said these are diffferent times Better not wear that towel. Did she ask you? Haven't you dated much before? | |
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| U know sometimes I pay because that's just howI am then I don't feel like I owe anyone anything!   I'm jottin' this down...lol | |
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      I only have 2 rules:
 1. We take turns paying. 2. It's always my turn.   | |
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      It all depends on who ask the one that asked should be the one that pays. Now I don't believe that should be all the time for I see no reason why a lady can not pick up the tab once in a while. Or at least the drinks at the bar before a meal if you are having to wait for a table.
 Now days many women actually have a higher income then some men do or pretty even. I've been known to pick up the tab at times I have no problem with it. | |
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