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| Topic: Is sex with your ex a good idea? | |
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While my ex and I were together we would talk about anal sex, oral sex and giving up our whole life for each other and dedicating our lives to kinky sex. Then right before she takes off to Spain for the summer she decides that I am too much drama and cuts me out of her life. After four months of trying to get her out of mind, she wants to meet up again. I have no intention of getting back together with her, but she's hot and I just want to have anal, oral, and kinky violent sex with her. Good idea or bad? |
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i'd say do it if you are sure you dont love her.
especially if she liked "intense" &thats how you want it. thats just me though. |
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Extremely bad idea! And a very good way to ruin something with anyone you are with now.
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While my ex and I were together we would talk about marriage, babies and giving up our whole life for each other. Then right before she takes off to Spain for the summer she decides that I am too much drama and cuts me out of her life. After four months of trying to get her out of mind, she wants to meet up again. I have no intention of getting back together with her, but she's hot and I just want to have grudge sex with her. Good idea or bad? , < << i'm all about revenge, but it must be well deserved. my question is, when she broke up with you, was she out to wound you in any way. i know it hurt you, and maybe you don't agree with her reasons, but these 2 things don't necessarily mean that she had intent to harm you emotionally. like i said before, i'm all about revenge and i'm a master at it, but i firmly believe that in order for revenge to be to be an option that 2 things must be a factor: 1)knowledge and 2)will. if she BOTH knowingly and willfully hurt you then i say she should pay. hey, why not make her wear a ball-gag and teather her to the headboard with a leash while you're at it. tell her that watching girls drink out of dogs dishes turns you on, then laugh while she does it. have her give you head, then light a huge cuban and use the top of her head as an ash tray. if she genuinely has it coming let her have it, but be creative. |
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I have an idea. Why don't you just realize you still do love her but you are just trying to mask it. I would never have sex with an ex-g/f. Some and I will repat Some ladies will take that the wrong way. The next thing you will you be back in a relationship with her. Although I think that is what you really want but don't want to admit to. I would think long and hard about this. But in the end do what your heart says or the head on your shoulders not the one in your pants.
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i think it depends on how much emotion and feeling u have toward that person. id love to say heck yea but knowing the situation i am in now, it would just send my head into a tailspin
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Ohh babe...Sex w/ the Ex..well its bad..cuz if it happens usually they are still some feelings involved..on one side, maybe more than the other..its not a good idea..and you don't have to lie to yourself calling it grudge sex. You still hold a grudge cuz you care for her still deeply. Sounds like there was no closure for you..and u are kinda seeking that closure thing hoping that maybe this sex thing will help. Maybe even to rekindle things.
But it is gonna just hurt more...and then you have to try to heal again.. I wouldn't do it. |
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Ohh babe...Sex w/ the Ex..well its bad..cuz if it happens usually they are still some feelings involved..on one side, maybe more than the other..its not a good idea..and you don't have to lie to yourself calling it grudge sex. You still hold a grudge cuz you care for her still deeply. Sounds like there was no closure for you..and u are kinda seeking that closure thing hoping that maybe this sex thing will help. Maybe even to rekindle things. But it is gonna just hurt more...and then you have to try to heal again.. I wouldn't do it. i agree w you |
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Edited by
adj4u
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Mon 11/10/08 08:23 PM
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well i would suggest getting her to write to you for a few times to get proof it is her idea b4 going anywhere near her
you go there you are opening up a lot of possibilities some good some ok some bad and some could lead to criminal charges and sex ain't worth the last one what ever you decide cover your azz if you decide to uncover it |
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Bad bad bad bad idea.... did i mention bad idea?!?!?!
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missy... how could you forget to mention... BAD IDEA
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yanno, he's been gone a long time
you don't think... |
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missy... how could you forget to mention... BAD IDEA I KNOW huh?!?!?! Shhhez... my bad...BAD IDEA!!!!! 
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missy... how could you forget to mention... BAD IDEA I KNOW huh?!?!?! Shhhez... my bad...BAD IDEA!!!!! ill let ya off with a spankin this time... dont let it happen again missy lolol |
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I am sure alot of others said this but no its never a good idea. There is a reason you broke up
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Edited by
Urbanphilosopher
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Mon 11/10/08 09:58 PM
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We didn't break up over the sex. She got mad at me for some stupid reason and she justified being single while she was Europe.
Only when she comes back does she realize that it was a stupid reason and wants to meet up because she has "unsettled emotions about our relationship". What type of B.S. is that? Yeah I'm angry. She broke my heart and there is no way I can love her. I can't be emotionally involved with someone that petty, that selfish and that fickle... but I do want to f*** her brains out! Although I know my heart is weak, and this may be a scheme on her end to get me back. Everyone is telling me to stay away. But like all men I am weak and stupid when we think with our penis. But I think that if I can find someone else to have mind blowing sex with, then I will be okay. |
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dont want to be the gross one here but maybe you should take a mag to the bathroom and a cold shower afterwards lol
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Been there more times that I want to say,had sex over and over,been hurt over and over.Have no-one to blame but myself because I was weak and needed sex. No,Sex with a ex is not a good thing.But you will do what you want to do,no matter what other people tell you.
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doesn't seem like it.
If you take a drink from expired milk from the fridge, put it back in the fridge, next time you take it out.... its still expired milk. |
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doesn't seem like it. If you take a drink from expired milk from the fridge, put it back in the fridge, next time you take it out.... its still expired milk. Genius |
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