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dude there is no way theres ONE person for everyone, its impossible, if anything its atleast HIGHLY unlikely, i mean honestly, because than that would mean life is based upon fate and fate is bull**** made up by totall douchebags who dont wanna accept blame for **** that happens in their lives.
lol So no, Love is something that u can find but their is no ONE person out there for everyone, theres a thousand someones out there that you could fall inlove with but its knowing what kinda person u want thats the trick. You can love someone els untill u love urself!! Love peace and chicken Grease!!!! |
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Just for the record, I happen to have a friend who met a woman on the internet from SWITZERLAND and now lives there and is married to her. It was sad to see him go but thats what he needed to do for love
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Nah... that is the rumor, but I've never met anyone I'd date at a grocery store... too interested in why the price of lettuce just went up 50 cents a head I mean somewhere NICE... where they don't have booze or religion... and people can just sit and talk (can't sit and talk at a grocery store... how romantic is it to meet somebody pushing a steel cart with squeeky wheels... LOL) Where ever there is free speech there will be people spouting the ideals of religion. And well, I'm Irish, so I can't really fathom no alcohol either  HOWEVER, I have never met a date-able guy in a club or bar so I hear what you are saying. I think maybe a coffee shop type environment would work best. That sounds good, a coffee shop singles place... I like that... no booze, no religion to mess with your emotions or judgment |
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Just for the record, I happen to have a friend who met a woman on the internet from SWITZERLAND and now lives there and is married to her. It was sad to see him go but thats what he needed to do for love If I found love on the moon, I'd be contacting NASA for a rocket ride... ... I once flew 9,000 miles to Guam to meet a wonderful woman. We met, decided to be friends, and have been friends ever since. One of the best women I have ever met in my life. She is now happily married to a great guy that really loves her a lot. |
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Magbalihi
I'm going to bed.....night ya'll night. Don't stink up the bathroom |
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Nah... that is the rumor, but I've never met anyone I'd date at a grocery store... too interested in why the price of lettuce just went up 50 cents a head I mean somewhere NICE... where they don't have booze or religion... and people can just sit and talk (can't sit and talk at a grocery store... how romantic is it to meet somebody pushing a steel cart with squeeky wheels... LOL) Where ever there is free speech there will be people spouting the ideals of religion. And well, I'm Irish, so I can't really fathom no alcohol either HOWEVER, I have never met a date-able guy in a club or bar so I hear what you are saying. I think maybe a coffee shop type environment would work best. That sounds good, a coffee shop singles place... I like that... no booze, no religion to mess with your emotions or judgment 
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TlephoneMan
If I found love on the moon, I'd be contacting NASA for a rocket ride... ... I once flew 9,000 miles to Guam to meet a wonderful woman. ....... So you are willing to go far for love? Cool. I've never even considered something like that until I joined Mingle When I joined Mingle I was expecting my mail to come from Philly and Jersey. Not all over the world. I figured why would guys from 1000's of miles away message me? I learned my lesson quick. |
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TlephoneMan If I found love on the moon, I'd be contacting NASA for a rocket ride... ... I once flew 9,000 miles to Guam to meet a wonderful woman. ....... So you are willing to go far for love? Cool. I've never even considered something like that until I joined Mingle When I joined Mingle I was expecting my mail to come from Philly and Jersey. Not all over the world. I figured why would guys from 1000's of miles away message me? I learned my lesson quick. In this country alone, there are like 100,000,000 women, not all are single, but that is about the number give or take... All it would take is one good woman who would communicate with me for a while, get to know me, and it would be on. I am in a station in life where I don't own a house right now, I'm not up to my ears in any kind of debt, and I am not engrained in some lifetime career job... I am a free bird... I wouldn't want to move into some woman's house, though... been there... done that... too much loss of power and control for one's own life... I'll never do that again... Instead, I'd ideally have my own place within dating distance... if it works out, and the long-term thing happens, we can buy a house together some day... but I'm not moving in to some house some woman has only her name on the deed... from experience, doesn't work out well for me |
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^one up. I wish you luck. I am looking for the dream myself. I even have a lot of money saved for my own home one day in case the guy doesn't have his on savings.
I'll just keep being a naive young 21 year old girl with silly dreams at least until I am taught to know better. My parents have the dream. I want it too. |
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^one up. I wish you luck. I am looking for the dream myself. I even have a lot of money saved for my own home one day in case the guy doesn't have his on savings. I'll just keep being a naive young 21 year old girl with silly dreams at least until I am taught to know better. My parents have the dream. I want it too. My parents have been married for 59 years... have lived in the same house since 1949, one month after they got married. |
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Edited by
MindyMindy
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Sat 11/22/08 12:30 AM
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^up ....whoa 59 years!! 26 for mine.
That's what I want. edit same house but they did live in 2 rented apartments first for 7 years |
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Yup. Dad is 82 and mom is 78, and they still hug in the kitchen...
 Getting to the point of giving up for me... been lonely for so many years I can't see straight |
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Edited by
MindyMindy
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Sat 11/22/08 12:35 AM
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Yup. Dad is 82 and mom is 78, and they still hug in the kitchen... Getting to the point of giving up for me... been lonely for so many years I can't see straight Even your picture looks lonely :-( |
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Well, MindyMindy... gotta go to bed now... its nice chatting with you. There is a good man out there for you. I hope you find him soon.
Don't do like I did and wait until you are 35 to get married... then it didn't work out, and you spend the rest of you life alone..... Not too pleasant, really... ... if God would just cure my loneliness I'd be alright |
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Good night TM
Almost time for me to goto bed too. |
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wow im up way to early but i cant sleep so im on m2 lol an mindy im glad u started this it gets a look at wat people r really thinken an y there here(on this site)
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Most believe there is a perfect person for them out there in the world. Some call these people soul mates. However..... Most people marry people that live near them. People they work with or go to school with...etc. (so says a website on marriage statistics). Look at how many people marry their H.S. sweethearts. I bet most of these people would say their spouse is their true love or soul mate. So it seems most people's true love or soul mate just happens to live nearby. Really? Seems to me that we create love, not find it. We find someone who is closest to what we want and then we find things to love about them. We create and build love. If we really only feel in love with that one perfect person we would have a heck of a time finding that person in this big world. Then they might be married to THEIR soul mate. What do you think? Are you searching for your one and only soul mate or are you searching for just a good person that you will then create love with? Wow Mindy that was deep and it gave me something to think about. I like you already |
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Mike you said..
True love? I don't think anyone really knows what that is on this site. Because if they did and have had it. They wouldn't be on here looking for it. They might have an idea on what it is. But will never know until it actually happens. I beg to differ with you! I'm guessing most widowed people on here and even some divorced ones would.
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^one up.....Hi auburngirl. I am glad some know what true love is. I don't, not yet, but I hope to one day.
^^two up....... thx anonymous326 |
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Comparing a man to a house “Good foundation” Hmmmmm.
So you want an empty house with a good foundation that you can fill up with your stuff…hey??? Much like an empty house you want a man that you can “fill up” with all of your emotions ,cares, views and burdens. ****Bad news**** men are not empty houses with good foundations. In fact the best you can hope for is a man to throw out some of his stuff in order to make room for some of your stuff in his house aka his life. . They call it compromise. The lack of which is the number one reason for divorce in the United States. Just a thought. |
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