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| Topic: I'm having a hard time with this dating scene | |
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After being married for 21 wonderful years, a marriage that ended way too soon...I find it hard to be in this dating thing.
I guess I lived a protected life. Anything that turns me off really quick is a line of crap or lies and it seems that its a lot of what one hears anymore. I find it disgusting and it makes me not want to even want to date. I know there are good ones out there somewhere but I don't know whether I can or want to wade thru all the crap to get there. Does anyone else feel that way? I just want to live a happy relaxing life. Maybe I just don't get it..lol |
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note to self: eliminate the "line of crap".
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welcome to my world; I'm having a tough time too |
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welcome to my world; I'm having a tough time too Yeah it sucks doesn't it? I guess I'm just too honest and I can't understand why other people can't be honest and up front. Silly me...I guess. 
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note to self: eliminate the "line of crap". Yuppers...get rid of it. 
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I know exactly what you mean. You don't know who to trust.
 About two years ago I started dating this guy and he was great. Met his family and really had a great time. This went on for three months. We went trail riding together, even went on an overnite trail ride. Went over to ride at the farm where my horse was at and found out he was headed to Virginia Beach to get married. He had been out with me the day before.  I guess I was a very special understanding person. Blah! Blah! Blah!  Now, I only want a friend. |
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I'm sorry to hear that hgirl.
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I just know how to pick the losers!!!!!!!
 Married them Lived with them Dated them I just fall for the sad stories I guess. |
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Edited by
motowndowntown
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Mon 11/24/08 03:22 PM
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There's a lot of heart break out there. But don't let it get to ya. Heh, if you fall off a horse you get right back on right? Just make sure you got a good grip on the reins next time and the cinch strap is tight.
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motown is so right...don't give up hgirl
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There's a lot of heart break out there. But don't let it get to ya. Heh, if you fall of a horse you get right back on right? Just make sure you got a good grip on the reins next time and the cinch strap is tight. At my age now when I hit the ground I just lay there and moan for a long time before I even try to move. I have to take inventory to make sure every thing still moves. Then I figure out how far I am from home and if I can limp that far or do I really need to get back in the saddle to get home. Then after three or four days I'll get back in the saddle. |
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Well yeah, it may take a little time, what doesn't at this age, but you do get back on, right?
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I know exactly what you mean. You don't know who to trust. About two years ago I started dating this guy and he was great. Met his family and really had a great time. This went on for three months. We went trail riding together, even went on an overnite trail ride. Went over to ride at the farm where my horse was at and found out he was headed to Virginia Beach to get married. He had been out with me the day before. I guess I was a very special understanding person. Blah! Blah! Blah! Now, I only want a friend. Thats terrible. There's just too many loser/users out there. It used to be a person was good as their word. Now...its just plain scary. I can't understand how anyone could have any respect for themselves in acting that way. |
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Yeah, but it hurts like hell!!!!!!
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Yeah, it sure does, but nobody said it was going to be easy.
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Yea, it's really tough to break through all the C. and get to the real person. Lots of players out there. Gotta be careful. If you find any honest, down to earth guys in the PA area let me know.
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Yea, it's really tough to break through all the C. and get to the real person. Lots of players out there. Gotta be careful. If you find any honest, down to earth guys in the PA area let me know. If I find an honest guy..do you really think I'm gonna share?  I might share with you though musichic..lol
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Edited by
carold
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Mon 11/24/08 07:43 PM
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What I have found online and or dating Hmmmmmmm. Scammers, married men lieing saying they're single or filing or filed. Men reading I'm widow so think I have a paid off home or insurance money. Once they hear no money work in a restaurant no more email :) And the one that just want a FB. Well after awhile you learn to figure them out quick. And to all you great guys I'm sure they're are some just like the women on here with allot of heart. I say never give up but wait for it to happen. Yeah 30 years has passed by and yeah what is left seems pretty bleak. But I'm sure there are some good guy who are widowed or wives have left them. And we all have been hurt and hard to trust. I've made so many friends in the last year at least that is a good thing love my gal pals on here. So there is a blessing. It sure does toughen you up a bit. I guess we have to to survive out there.
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Wow...
Horsegirl what a story. How could a guy forget...oops I think I've got something to do tomorrow...oh yeah, the marriage thing...  Carold ,Creepy, thinking maybe you have it made in the shade because you are widowed.... My former co-worker from Texas used to say...men!! you can't live withim and you can't shootem, ceptin in Texas! Oh Lord, make the nice guys come out of the woodwork or where ever they are hiding....  |
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LOL Polly I don't think they are hiding. Hint Hint
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