For those of you who read my last post about watching the papers, things escalated tonight and I had to call the cops. He gave me an ultimatum to be at his house or he would hang himself. I called my cousin who is a cop and he called the local cops in the guys area. They asked me to keep him online til they got there. That was about an hour ago. I haven't heard from him or the cops. Still don't know what is going on. Sleeping with the doors locked and the weapon handy. Holy freaking scary.

I don't think I will sleep much tonight. Hope the forums are hopping.

Well if this crazy dude did indeed hang him self over you. That's really sad.

He must of had some big problems.

Sorry to hear that, if I was you.. I'd contact your cousin and see what he knows etc, then take a warm shower if that helps any and take something to help you sleep.

OR the other thing you could do is contact the cops and see what you can find out and if anything was done so you can sleep better.

Either way. Hopefully all is better tomorrow.

That guy is fricking nuts!!

Frickin nuts is the understatement of the year.

And I think I might take a warm shower. I really thought the cops would have called me back and told me what was going on. The guy doesn't know where I live, but I doubt it would be hard for him to figure it out. So I am still thinking that sleep is out of the question.

Well unless your number is listed that and if you give him your full name, then no he shouldn't be able to find out where you live etc.

I wouldn't worry too much about it. Try to listen to the radio or tv and if anything get something to eat after taking a shower and try and take your mind off this whole thing.

I know easier said then done.

Thank you. I am going to try that. Actually a friend recommended the comedy channel. So I turned that on.

My number is listed. At least until tomorrow that is. Might be closing the barn door after the cows get out, but I know that in the future no one will ever be able to find me that way.

I am sorry to hear this guy brought this on. What mess! It might take a little while for the police to sort it out and determine if he needs psychiatric evaluation. Call your cousin tomorrow and have him look into it for you.

Hang in there - it will get better than this. You deserve the best!

The cops have obviously left him at home. I have already gotten one text and three ims from him. Even though I appear offline to him. I tried to call the cops back, but they are not in their office. I doubt that they have around the clock coverage, it is a small town. As long as he is iming me though I know he is not driving here.

never ever answer his IM's again and maybe you can even block his number on your phone

I would be scared to death, can you go to a friend's house?

I can, but if I run tonight it will make it that much harder to stay here tomorrow night. I can protect myself if need be. I don't think anything will happen, but I am prepared to take care of things if I have to.

Why can't you call the police back to see if there is any kind of update, so you can maybe put your mind at ease a little bit?

***Never mind. I looked back and saw your previous response. Sorry, a little on the slow side tonight.

Um!WOW! I hope for your sake he buggers off. Finds a new victim or @ least someone as sick as himself to stalk. You and him will be in my prayers. Oh and get a PFA 2moro! It can't hurt!

I am getting a PFA first thing in the morning. I really thought he would let me alone after the cops left though.

did you give him sum? serious question no fun intended

Do not hesitate to report any violation either!

Here is a picture of him so that everyone will know to call the police when they see him.

Good thing no fun was intended, because this week has been anything but fun.

Thanks for the flower. I try to put on a brave face, but am shaking in my boots. His last im(which I didn't reply to) said the cop wants to know why you would mind walking around with $500 in your pocket all the time. WTF? And his last text was the elf moon wars. Seriously?

i havent seen the other post. i was just trying to figure out what has him like that. sex would drive lonely men who hasnt had a girl or a piece in a while crazy enough to do that. get a dog or a pistol. mace always changes their mind also.