So ive been dating this guy for like 6 months who said he was legally seperated from his wife. He tells me alot about his life but some of his story sometimes doesnt make rational sense, although they r pretty good excuses. Anyways i just recently made a fake profile on myspace and found out his wife had an acct. i added her as a friend on myspace and ive started to ask her questions about her life. totally playing an innocent tourist. im not trying to be malicious or anything i just want to find out the truth and if hes been lying to me. If he is lying my friend told me i should tell her that her husbands been cheating on her with me. (bcuz He has told me he loves me and hes never felt this way about anyone else before.) Am i wrong for prying into her life? would it be wrong for me to tell her if he IS lying to me? P.S. i found recent family photos taken of him and her and their kids...does that mean anything?

Wow

Lol, are you kidding me?



This is the fun part where you get to ruin his life. Eff that guy for lying. Don't even think for one second that he wouldn't do the same to you if you were his wife.


Punishment Commence.

the family photo doesnt prove anything, specially if they have kids together, however if you ask her and she tells you that yes indeed they are still married, then I think you should tell her and break up with the guy!

yikes - hate to be in your shoes

Not me, I would love to be in her shoes lol. Blackmail city.I mean...

Best of luck to ya.

why? blackmail for what??? sounds lame to me (jmo)

the only ones that suffer in these situations are the children

yeah... I've been there only I was sancho. I found out about it and.... I mean I'm a cage fighter and all but I ain't stupid, homie was a marine and... yeah... Look the guys a fool and your just trying to see if you can trust him and to be with him... nah your doing the right thing.

Oh and he found out about us and ended up beating the **** out of her! ... eek! and was trying to find me.. but I'm a backdoor man so ...HAH!!! catch me if you can, I'm the motha ****en ginger bread man!!

I think she deserves to know the truth. Would you like to know the truth if you were the wife? Let her make the decision to live with a liar, or not.

If your going to so much trouble to check up on him then you don't trust him. Maybe you have good reasons not to trust him. But if you have no trust in a relationship,you don't have a relationship.Maybe you should follow your gut feelings.Hope it all turns out well for you whatever you decide

some women stick around because the sex is great and they don't want to give that up!

i'd like to know, but i'd prefer to hear it from him, and not have to be humiliated by receiving a personal call from his lover.

if you don't trust him, maybe you should stay out of his life? i wonder how he'd feel, if he were telling you the truth, after he finds out you've been meddling in the lives of his family (whether they are ex or not)?

Yes.

WOW ARE YOU KIDDING ME? I guess you must have a lot of free time to stick your nose in his life? My first thought was this..I hope he is single and I hope YOU get busted and he kicks your a$$ to the curb. My question is this...if you can't trust him at all, why are you wanting to be with him? How old are you??

Awwwww poor children.... so innocent and fragile.

that says alot

She has every right to stick her nose in his life. It's her life and happiness that HE is messing with.


It sounds to me she is still not 100% he is married, that is why she hasn't taken any action yet.

Good thing all children that don't die become adults!

If you don't trust him so that you have to do this, cut him loose and I wouldn't involve his wife. Let it go and move on.