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Topic: Is routine good or bad in a relationship?
MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 01/10/09 09:13 PM
flowerforyou Is routine good or bad in a relationship?flowerforyou

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Sat 01/10/09 09:14 PM
depends, i doubt regarding the intimate part

galendgirl's photo
Sun 01/11/09 06:41 AM
Good if it's not boring, but I think you have to have some of the unexpected too...

betsybubbles's photo
Sun 01/11/09 06:44 AM
Balance of both is good,but not over the top drama.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 01/11/09 06:46 AM
scared Stay inside the linesscared

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 01/11/09 06:48 AM
Edited by Puffins1958 on Sun 01/11/09 06:48 AM
Sometimes there is alot to be said about being spontaneous

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Sun 01/11/09 07:03 AM
As much as you want to avoid it one of these days routine will settle in , just have to make sure to shake it up once in awhile and not be afraid to talk about it.

scoundrel's photo
Sun 01/11/09 07:06 AM

flowerforyou Is routine good or bad in a relationship?flowerforyou


Routine is essential, for me, just because.

Variety, or variations from the routine, add spice to the life--absolutely--but the comfort and warmth of a routine life together is beyond value.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:27 AM
Edited by angelindarkness on Sun 01/11/09 10:39 AM
I believe structure and routine is very good in any relationship I would be a part of. That's because I'm very unstructured and free-spirited or unorganized in some ways. I need a balance. Your mileage may vary.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 01/11/09 10:35 AM

flowerforyou Is routine good or bad in a relationship?flowerforyou


No. She must be willing to do more than just the missionary position.bigsmile

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Sun 01/11/09 10:38 AM

flowerforyou Is routine good or bad in a relationship?flowerforyou

Doesn't bother me, but there has to be some things to make it interesting every now and thenflowerforyou

SexyBeast65's photo
Sun 01/11/09 11:17 AM
For some people, routine is perfect. For others, there can never be routine or it's over. I think the majority of us prefer the middle ground. We tend to need a bit of routine (work, appointments, etc), but you have to break free from it fairly often to keep things interesting and fun.

When I come home from my routine of work, I don't mind someone being there earlier than expected, with flowers, dinner, and a warm bed waiting for me, lol. As long as she doesn't mind if I return the favor.

If we are going to the store on the weekend, we stop at a museum that's along the way. Hey, it wasn't planned, but we pass it every Saturday and never make plans to go. So, today we go and forget the store until later. That kind of thing is fun. Now, all I need to do is find someone who wants to share that with me......

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:17 PM

For some people, routine is perfect. For others, there can never be routine or it's over. I think the majority of us prefer the middle ground. We tend to need a bit of routine (work, appointments, etc), but you have to break free from it fairly often to keep things interesting and fun.

When I come home from my routine of work, I don't mind someone being there earlier than expected, with flowers, dinner, and a warm bed waiting for me, lol. As long as she doesn't mind if I return the favor.

If we are going to the store on the weekend, we stop at a museum that's along the way. Hey, it wasn't planned, but we pass it every Saturday and never make plans to go. So, today we go and forget the store until later. That kind of thing is fun. Now, all I need to do is find someone who wants to share that with me......



bigsmile well saidflowerforyou

Totage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:18 PM

flowerforyou Is routine good or bad in a relationship?flowerforyou


Consistancy is a good thing, but it's also good to shake it up a bit sometimes.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 12:36 AM

MahanMahan's photo
Fri 02/20/09 12:39 AM
Routine... Same ol' same ol'???


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Fri 02/20/09 12:41 AM

flowerforyou Is routine good or bad in a relationship?flowerforyou

I can cope with it in small clips. More than that, and I start to question if, at the end of the day, that's all I want to have taken with me.

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Fri 02/20/09 12:41 AM

For some people, routine is perfect. For others, there can never be routine or it's over. I think the majority of us prefer the middle ground. We tend to need a bit of routine (work, appointments, etc), but you have to break free from it fairly often to keep things interesting and fun.

When I come home from my routine of work, I don't mind someone being there earlier than expected, with flowers, dinner, and a warm bed waiting for me, lol. As long as she doesn't mind if I return the favor.

If we are going to the store on the weekend, we stop at a museum that's along the way. Hey, it wasn't planned, but we pass it every Saturday and never make plans to go. So, today we go and forget the store until later. That kind of thing is fun. Now, all I need to do is find someone who wants to share that with me......
geeeeeeeeeeeez too bad your a lesbian!!!:wink: laugh laugh drinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 12:41 AM

Routine... Same ol' same ol'???




bigsmile I agreeflowerforyou



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Fri 02/20/09 12:44 AM

flowerforyou Is routine good or bad in a relationship?flowerforyou
indifferent One should NEVER let a routine start!glasses

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