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| Topic: Why do you judge by looks? | |
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I'm just saying, there has to be something more significant than looks that carries a relationship. There has to be a connection deeper than that...because looks can fade, people can go blind, etc. It's all in companionshiop...not physical attractiveness... nope...first its physical....I'm guessing 99% of the time...just like going into a bar to pick up a chick...physical attraction always first...now...what do you like or what do you find attractive...thats where we're all different 
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I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I also believe I have to have an attraction to my guy physically...I mean...If I have to be in your mouth or have you grunting on top of me, I at least require clean teeth and someone that knows how to take care of themselves... 
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I have been attracted to men that noone else thought was good looking. It is the attraction NOT the looks.
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Etrain nailed it. What I find attractive physically may not be what someone else finds attractive physically. EVERYONE makes a first impression based on appearance...
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It can all be summed up with just one word:
Preference. |
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and I think of that and think... how many people out there have just totally ignored a message when possibly that person could have turned out to be "the one" I admit few years ago I was totally into myself (not sure why at this point) but I totally ignored people, and theose people now turned out to be pretty fun and exciting, I had the chance to date them but I Ignored them, turns out years later they are into the same things as I am and it's to late... while i'm not very good at knowing whether i'd be romantically interested in someone based on a photo and a few lines in their profile, i can certainly ascertain within an email or two whether there'd be enough interest to at least pursue a friendship with them. that is what i'd base my my continued responses on, not the way that they looked in their photo. and i have found that the greater my attraction and love, the better looking the person becomes. |
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a big difference i've noticed between men and women with regards to internet dating, and maybe just dating in general is that the man (most times) is expecting instant and immediate attraction whereas the woman (in many instances) finds that attraction is something that is built up over many dates and/or emails.
when the man doesn't get the instant reaction that he wants, he stops calling the woman. if he'd persisted, he may have found that her level of interest increased as they got to know each other. well better to get away fast! Less complicated |
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I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I also believe I have to have an attraction to my guy physically...I mean...If I have to be in your mouth or have you grunting on top of me, I at least require clean teeth and someone that knows how to take care of themselves... Ok that was blunt, goes both ways btw. |
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Im not saying that all women on this site do it, but I can say that from my experience I have seen it to many times, a woman says she is looking for "the nice caring sensitive guy" and then when you give them that they either realise they don't want that or are just scared off by your hideous looks, why? same goes for guys really to be fair, if you want a girl who would treat you right and not cheat on you... why do you go for looks first, if a girl is "ugly" or "fat" you just blow her off... How is anything dating wise supose to work in a screwed up world like that... not necessarily true i like a stocky guy not fat or ugly but it is in the eye of the beholder and attraction preferences. |
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*yawning* How do you spell Raspberries?
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ok then its preference or maybe a beneficial thing who knows
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Because pretty women are nicer. Ugly women are always so bitter.
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Because pretty women are nicer. Ugly women are always so bitter. 
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another one of these topics sheesh
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Internet dating is totally different than meeting a guy in a bar. The biggest turn off for me is reading a profile full of spelling errors and misuse of common words (your, you're).
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I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I also believe I have to have an attraction to my guy physically...I mean...If I have to be in your mouth or have you grunting on top of me, I at least require clean teeth and someone that knows how to take care of themselves... Ok that was blunt, goes both ways btw. I know it... I can only speak for myself right?!?! |
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Because pretty women are nicer. Ugly women are always so bitter. 
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Sat 01/17/09 05:33 PM
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glad i don't worry about any of this, unless they have a vampire fetish, they run like hell
  even the ones with the fetish are scared..... |
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Because pretty women are nicer. Ugly women are always so bitter. Aw, Christ....here we go.... 
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I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I also believe I have to have an attraction to my guy physically...I mean...If I have to be in your mouth or have you grunting on top of me, I at least require clean teeth and someone that knows how to take care of themselves... yes yes cleanliness is a must, and excercise, is it too much to ask? how about set down the "bon Bons?" Can we ask for that too? Or plastic boobs, do we have to like plastic boobs? i will think of more... 
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