Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, true...but tell me how many "hot" people you've met who were total jerks and seemed ugly afterwards?

It's all a matter of personal choice, I know, but why should people knock those who want to get to know others for what's on the inside? Beauty fades, personality lasts forever. :o)


Well said

It is just my opinion but I think maybe you are making sweeping generalizations that are not neccesarily true.

At your age your experiences are still quite limited. While you may have awaken to a slightly more realistic view of people you have a ways to go.

Attraction is really more about how a person is percieved. I take just about any magazine of the so called "beautiful" people and most of them have some "issue" that in the strictest sense or definition they aren't.

I believe a lot of it is the vibe you give off. Is it closed, tense, distant, defensive? Or open, relaxed, engageing, and huggable. I read your text and I get a completely different vibe of who you are than what your picture projects. I don't know for sure how a younger woman would relate to your picture but to me it doesn't do anything for you. It's like you don't even want to introduce yourself to the camera much less a woman. No smile, hostile folded arms, kind of grungy looking clothes in a dark depressing background. Your hair and facial hair seem like an after thought. If that is typical I would give you the benifit of the doubt that it is just trying to be yourself and not draw attention to yourself but that doesn't work real well in trying to be noticed for a date. Even great looking guys have to spiff it up a little and be engageing or they come off as snobs.

Girls generally want a guy with a career not a couple of low paying part-time jobs. It isn't selfish not to want to live hand to mouth and see your children do without while you and your mate struggle to keep from going under. If you don't mention you are working for beter as a young man you look like a slacker.

There was a lot of talk about preference but some guys just don't get it is some times about looks. Some gals want blonde some want brunette and others want a red head. Maybe they like long hair others short. There are a hundred reason someone will accept or pass on your looks and it isn't right or wrong.

Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. It's in the eye of the media.

This is EXACTLY the crtitcism I needed, harsh but true, after you said it I looked and realised I only have the one picture up, and I don't include every detail about my life and maybe if I opened up a little more, more people would be open to actually having a conversation with me, in all honesty no sarcasm thanks, I seriously didn't even realise I only had one picture up!

why would i date someone that im not physiaclly attracted to? That is just setting myself up for a failed relationship. Why is it that you feel attraction means that the person has to have mental flaws? you can find someone thats attractive and nice, why settle?

Only if you are one of the sheeple who allow the media to dictate how you live your life.

Justaguy, is that my face hanging on your towel rack?

something that ticks me off sometimes though i mean i know every one has standards and what not.. why is it sometimes i might try to talk to girls who are like in shape well put together and they blow me off?? but then its like i walk away and there's some dude fatter and like unglier than me has like a girl who looks like a dallas cowboy cheerleader. sometimes that gets me ticked off becuase i just dont understand it...

GOD I HATE IT WHEN A WOMAN WEARS A BLACK BRA UNDER A WHITE SHIRT WHAT THE HELL IS THAT???????

oooh, this is getting good now!

well dang what have I missed in ehre

was it good???

why do you judge by looks?