btu waht si het igb eadl whit sllepgni

Actually feel the same way, not big on having close my eyes when someone is ontop of me... seems so wrong.

You just dropped blood in a shark tank.. run.

me thinks sometimes prettier woman are meaner bcs they can get away with it. and others not as pretty are nicer bcs their selection not a big??? IMO This is in how they view themselves though!!

i just wanna pick apart your original post a bit, if you don't mind. it's nothing personal, it's just that i see that same thing so often.

why is it so many people have to have an either/or ?

can't a girl be both beautiful AND nice? or a guy?

why does the beautiful one have to be a cheat, and the ugly one kind?

i won't settle for either/or. i want both. ummm, actually i got both

and if the person isn't attracted to you because you are nice to them, how come the fault has to lay on them? i mean, could there possibly be something about you that doesn't turn their crank? just because a guy is 'nice' it doesn't necessarily mean that women will be panting for him. personally, chemistry and rapport will be what dictates whether the relationship will progress.

I Mannequins

nope *****es and assholes come in all shapes and sizes trust me....

Don't hate me because I'm beautiful.

Seriously- according to others, I am usually attracted to "ugly" guys- I dunno why.

I have this one gentleman head over heels in love with me for 4 years. He is SUCH an awesome man. He would make a wonderful father, friend and spouse...
I refuse to be intimate in ANY way with him because his teeth are rotting right out of his mouth. They all seem to be a shade of Black, He smokes and his nails are always long and dirty
^ you mean to tell me because that guy is "nice" I'm not to wonder what the hell he has festering under his finger nails?!?!
How am I to want someone like that to touch me?!?!?
I might get an infection.

Looks no,apperances yes...and like most i do have my preferances...as well..but nothings etched in stone..
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looks matters otherwise why do we have eyes for? I can't be with someone that I don't feel attracted, there must be some degree of attraction

Which is why I decided to try the internet dating thing, because it IS different than just meeting some guy in a bar or a club. I want a guy to fall for my awesome personality and sense of humor, not my looks. I want a guy who values more than that in a woman. I mean I'm not a beauty queen, but I'm not skanky either.


And as for the comment that prettier women are nice and ugly women are bitter? That is such a cruel and cold cliche...which is how this whole conversation came about--because people are for the most part cliche in judging first by beauty...

Such a bummer we can't all be Donny Osmond or Tom Brady, ain't it?

Never said that was what I wanted.
Read it again

If I dont actually want to sleep with him, whats the point in a date?

Honestly if I'm not in fact attracted to them in some form of the way it will not go any farther why should it? It may be their smile their eyes or their sense of humor but it has to be something that caught my eye in order for me to look farther. If some think that is being shallow then so be it just being truthful.

Not sure about the rest of you but I do prefer to wake up to someone I find as being at least pleasing to my eyes. Even though what I might find pleasing will not for another.

Therefore what I see within that person has a lot to deal with the whole person not just what is on the outside but what is on the inside as well. So guess I base what I like with a combination of both inside and out.

Dannb,we've all judged others at one time or another in our lives and I guess it's hereditary and thing that we can't exactly stop from doing such thing,but maybe in time we will learn from such adolecence

*sigh*



Combo of nice guy and looks



We all have preferences of what we find "attractive" and what one of us may like someone else would consider ugly.

Internet dating does provide the benefit of getting to know someone without having the need of looks come into play first but developing a friendship in real life provides the same opportunity. Personalities can cause someone who is "hot" to turn ugly to the eyes of the beholder.

Gotta have the confidence and attitude of accepting who you are before offering yourself up to anyone else. Rejection happens to everyone and as long as you are confident in who you are and what you have to offer it tends to attract people.

I did. Sounds a little bit like the Princess Syndrome to me.