Fire.
Been talking for a while. Gone out for an intimate time, dinner, etc. Feeling pretty close and then, for no real logical reason, we run like hell.
What are some of the reasons you've chosen not to jump into the fire?

Don't like having to answer for things that I do or choose not to do. Simple as that.

Hmmmm. The list is endless.

How about: Multiple kids with multiple women, called them all biotches.
Told me about his TPO and Violating said TPO after learning I work for the courts.
Learned he was still married...

And on on and on into infinity.....

things she says to me are a good indicator of what I have to look foreword too dealing with that person in the future.

There are other reasons because I know better to just commit to anyone.

Since women hold out for the best they can land I am holding out for the best. I want to have kids by intelligent and motivated women, not ghetto bunnies (and that term I use racially in a very loose sense since ANYONE can live in a ghetto).

If her mating dace is not Just Right then a mating will not happen!

I take my commitments far too seriously to just frivolously flit from flower to flower because I ain't no butterfly! I'm a KILLA BEE!

ask the women i've dated.

they're the ones that run like the devil's chasing them.

I have children, so I take things slow to begin with. The last go around, I told him I needed to take a step back and take a breath. That has to be ok for me to do....and it wasn't. He got angry and I never heard from him again.

Sorry 'bout that.
I have run, on occasion, due to my own commitment issues.

Burned once at the stake already...

That's exactly what I do, as soon as things get too close, I run like hell the other way. I would love to find someone where I just run towards them the more I find myself screaming "RUN AWAY!". I don't think that's ever gonna happen, although I must admit I came close a few times.