Topic: In over my head
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Sun 03/29/09 01:54 PM
I can understand what you are saying Duffy, the only comment I would add to it is that the gentleman in question needs to know all that is going on. If he decides to overlook her feelings towards him, then that is his burden to bear; but she needs to be honest with him so that he knows what he is getting into.

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Sun 03/29/09 01:55 PM
She's looking for a free ride except there are none.

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Sun 03/29/09 01:59 PM
well he is older i think, and he keeps coming back. it could be that he jolly well knows what is going on. and he knows she COULD be a golddigger. she likes the money...does this sound familar?
:banana: :banana: :banana:
none of you are there in the bed with them....or going on their dates, so how the hell do u really know what is going on..


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Sun 03/29/09 02:02 PM
Nothing wrong with her wanting a bit of fun and the guy paying for it.I bet the guy is unaware he is being dragged through the mud on an internet site,does he know he is paying for that too.

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Sun 03/29/09 02:03 PM

yup when u r young u want a man who takes your breath away, and money does not mean a thing.
but trust me, when u r older money does mean something. and u can say what u want, but this is a companion deal.flowerforyou


For some, this seems to be such a personal issue (I completely understand how people get passionate about subjects, we all do it), but I totally get what you are saying here and agree. After reading her other post, I concede that maybe money is more of an issue than I originally thought, but I still don't see this as a totally bad situation for either of them. She just needs to talk to HIM about it, not us.

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Sun 03/29/09 02:03 PM

well he is older i think, and he keeps coming back. it could be that he jolly well knows what is going on. and he knows she COULD be a golddigger. she likes the money...does this sound familar?
:banana: :banana: :banana:
none of you are there in the bed with them....or going on their dates, so how the hell do u really know what is going on..





I'm only basing my assertions on her posts. She's made multiple posts on this very subject. Fact is, I might be slightly biased since, as I stated previously on this thread, women like her are a big reason I don't date.

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Sun 03/29/09 02:05 PM


well he is older i think, and he keeps coming back. it could be that he jolly well knows what is going on. and he knows she COULD be a golddigger. she likes the money...does this sound familar?
:banana: :banana: :banana:
none of you are there in the bed with them....or going on their dates, so how the hell do u really know what is going on..





I'm only basing my assertions on her posts. She's made multiple posts on this very subject. Fact is, I might be slightly biased since, as I stated previously on this thread, women like her are a big reason I don't date.
drinker drinker

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Sun 03/29/09 02:05 PM


well he is older i think, and he keeps coming back. it could be that he jolly well knows what is going on. and he knows she COULD be a golddigger. she likes the money...does this sound familar?
:banana: :banana: :banana:
none of you are there in the bed with them....or going on their dates, so how the hell do u really know what is going on..





I'm only basing my assertions on her posts. She's made multiple posts on this very subject. Fact is, I might be slightly biased since, as I stated previously on this thread, women like her are a big reason I don't date.


Awwwwwwwwwww, honey, I don't want your money. I just want to rub your bald head.

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Sun 03/29/09 02:07 PM
Since she is asking our opinion on here-I doubt seriously if he has any idea how she really feels.It is very wrong to lead someone on.If she hurts him then that will be in his mind for the next person he meets who possibly may really care but will have to pay for what she did.It is a vicious circle.I would never be with guy for money-I know how to make my own!

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Sun 03/29/09 02:08 PM

Nothing wrong with her wanting a bit of fun and the guy paying for it.I bet the guy is unaware he is being dragged through the mud on an internet site,does he know he is paying for that too.



You've nailed it. Sure she's being honest with us, but I somehow doubt she's had this conversation with him. If she did and he's okay with it then shame on him for allowing her to perpetuate this practice. I abhor anyone, man or woman who have a sense of entitlement and look for a free ride.

I live on Long Island which is ground zero for golddigging, materialistic, and shallow people. People like this make my blood boil.

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Sun 03/29/09 02:09 PM


well you dont want to stay just for the money......that would be a no no



Well I am really not, but we do so many neat things that it is hard to find someone to do stuff with, alot of guys I have dated just want to sit around, this guy doesn't.



If you enjoy being with him, and if you like him, why break up?

Ask yourself what it is that you really want in life. Do you and he have anything in common? Are you sexually turned off or unfulfilled?

Enjoy what he has to give to the fullest. That does not mean you have to marry him.


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Sun 03/29/09 02:09 PM
flowerforyou I'd rather be with someone I love and do the best we canflowerforyou than to be with someone I don't feel real love forflowerforyou

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Sun 03/29/09 02:12 PM
easy enough


your leading him on and that again cool at all.

you dont love him,like him,care for him move on


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Sun 03/29/09 02:13 PM
its wrong to be with someone just cause they have money,and thats what I see here.your staying with him cause he has money.

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Sun 03/29/09 02:17 PM

its wrong to be with someone just cause they have money,and thats what I see here.your staying with him cause he has money.


Yes, and unfortunately for her she seemingly can't have it all. She goes through this "crisis" every few months when she wonders if she can dump her entertainment ticket to find someone she can love who also can provide her with the lifestyle she believes she deserves.

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Sun 03/29/09 02:20 PM


its wrong to be with someone just cause they have money,and thats what I see here.your staying with him cause he has money.


Yes, and unfortunately for her she seemingly can't have it all. She goes through this "crisis" every few months when she wonders if she can dump her entertainment ticket to find someone she can love who also can provide her with the lifestyle she believes she deserves.


then she has a major prob she needs to work out.


not every one has money to offer.
she is gonna always be unhappy with this way of thinking

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Sun 03/29/09 02:20 PM


its wrong to be with someone just cause they have money,and thats what I see here.your staying with him cause he has money.


Yes, and unfortunately for her she seemingly can't have it all. She goes through this "crisis" every few months when she wonders if she can dump her entertainment ticket to find someone she can love who also can provide her with the lifestyle she believes she deserves.
drinker right ondrinker

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Sun 03/29/09 02:21 PM



its wrong to be with someone just cause they have money,and thats what I see here.your staying with him cause he has money.


Yes, and unfortunately for her she seemingly can't have it all. She goes through this "crisis" every few months when she wonders if she can dump her entertainment ticket to find someone she can love who also can provide her with the lifestyle she believes she deserves.


then she has a major prob she needs to work out.


not every one has money to offer.
she is gonna always be unhappy with this way of thinking



Yep, stay tuned for the next installment in a few months.

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Sun 03/29/09 02:21 PM

I am involved with a man who is wealthy, however I am not sure if I am in love with him. His personality is great, he is very attentive,loving and treats me great, except he is a poor kisser and his body type kinda turns me off. Should I stay, cause there is always gonna be soemthing or move on. He also takes me places I cannot afford by myself.
Dont be a user. If you arent attracted to him enough, let him go so he can find someone who loves him just for him!

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Sun 03/29/09 02:22 PM
So you say his body type is a turn off,how can you tell with dollar signs over your eyeballs