Ok I have to ask.. What are you thinking... He is everything you want except he can't kiss and his body isn't what you want. Well if he is wealthy as you state here join a gym. Teach him how to kiss.
He treats you great..
No offense silly woman...LOL this is what most of us want someone to be totally into us to treat us great, actually give a damn about us.




Ummm This also is going to sound really mean and I apologize for it before hand. How can you ask this???? IMO a person that stays with someone out of financial gain is well tacky to say the least. I know I couldn't look myself in the mirror.

I wish you luck out here.
One parting question since I looked at your profile how would you feel if this man was your son and your were some girl dating him. I think that would be your answer.

point out the pain of doing it vs not doing it, in the long run, and maybe have a heart to heart. things can change the staunchest person. i can help, for i got helped many times through my life, but i had the desire to learn, and that saved my life. e-mail me, and i'll give you some info that helped me, and that can help you help him.

So, you're taking advantage of this guy because he has money and he takes you places you can't afford to go by yourself, and you are looking here for some sort of justifacation, is that it?

So your still with this guy and you havent decided. You have been with him for around 10 months or so right?

12 and yes but we have been on more than off, and I am very good to him as he is to me..

Gotcha...i just remember you posting something about this awhile back.

As my Mom always points out to me, eventually the physical aspect of a relationship fades. So if that were to happen over time, would you be happy with what is left over?

if he is happy with his looks...why change it? It sounds to me like you are better friends than anything

i could be wrong, and i've been wrong before, but i think each relationship and chemistry's different, and i think that you hope so, well, you're right, and when you expand you horizons to think so, you might be pleasantly suprized.

If you break it off with him you will just end up with some guy that will turn you off AND is broke.

If she was taking advantage of him, she wouldn't be here asking for advice, she would be sucking the man dry. She obviously has some morals and is trying to decide if she should continue to date him even though she may not love him. He's an adult, if he was getting taken advantage of, he could have went running in the other direction.

read the original post. She mentions money, going places she can't afford, he treats her nice, but she is not turned on by him. If that's not taking advantage I don't know what is. He's an adult but her may not know he is being used.

I don't think being used is a hard thing to discern.

She also clarified that he takes her places that are "neat" and it's hard to find guys who want to do neat things and get up off the couch.

I'm not advocating staying with someone because they have money, I'm simply saying it didn't appear to me that she was taking advantage of him. If she was, she wouldn't talking about it. Women like that know exactly what they are doing.

Nowhere does she say she really likes the guy. In fact she is kind of turned off by him. And no, women like that don't always know exactly what they are doing. Which is playing with somebodys feelings.

If you're not completely happy with him, money isn't going to change that. The money is only going to keep you happy for a little while.

I think we are going to have to agree to disagree on this. I have a feeling this subject is personal to you and it really isn't to me. We are seeing it from 2 sides, which is to be expected.

She made a thread several months ago complaining about whether or not she should break up with him because she wasn't in love with him and at that time she made it a point to tell us about the money. I'm thinking the money has a lot to do with it otherwise she wouldn't be so intent on mentioning it each time she makes a thread about this guy. Also, if she's not in love with him, and now is complaining about his kissing technique, what's the point of staying with him. Call me crazy, but I'm thinking the money is playing a very big factor in this scenario.

Nothing personal involved at all. I am just reading what she wrote. See the post below yours.

Here is the previous thread she made about the subject
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/161398


and in one comment she even admitted to being attracted to the financial part of the relationship.

All I can say is that if you don't want him, send him my way. I've married for "love" and I know how that turned out.