Topic: In over my head
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Sat 03/28/09 09:17 PM
karma is a mutha

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Sun 03/29/09 08:12 AM

karma is a mutha


You got that right! drinker

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Sun 03/29/09 08:36 AM
I'm sorry to say this, but women like the OP are a major part of the reason I find dating unattractive. Shallow materialism is sickening, yet I see it daily on Long Island.

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Sun 03/29/09 08:55 AM
I was engaged to a millionare once and he didn't treat me as I feel I should be treated by someone that loves me and his money was more important than I was. To me being happy and with someone that appreciated and treated me right was more important so I broke it off. If you do not love this man and are not attracted to him then you should break it off with him because you are basically just using him for his money.

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Sun 03/29/09 08:55 AM
Money isn't everything. What if he lost it all?

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Sun 03/29/09 08:56 AM
I've dated men that had money but never did I date them due to their money. Myself I feel if that is the only reason one has to date someone they should take a good hard look at themselves. If you don't love him then let him go so he can find someone that loves him for himself not for what he has.noway slaphead

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Sun 03/29/09 09:04 AM

Money isn't everything. What if he lost it all?




Then she would have no reason at all to continue the relationship... Time to find the next sugar daddy.

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Sun 03/29/09 09:06 AM

I've dated men that had money but never did I date them due to their money. Myself I feel if that is the only reason one has to date someone they should take a good hard look at themselves. If you don't love him then let him go so he can find someone that loves him for himself not for what he has.noway slaphead



NOT for what he has.....NOR for what he can DO for you. Let him find someone who thinks his kiss tastes GREAT and who thinks his body is a total TURN on... someone who WANTS the whole PACKAGE!

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Sun 03/29/09 09:14 AM
Shallow,disrespectful and sponger are a few words that come to my mind. He is not a good kisser lol how old are you 10. You should leave this man and let him keep his pride instead of pulling him apart on a dating site then find places you CAN afford to go instead of using this guy to finance your lifestyle

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Sun 03/29/09 09:18 AM
Whew, thought I was the only one thinking that something sounded off!

If money was not important, it would not have been mentioned. If it was not the reason you are staying, you wouldn't have said "but he can take me places that I can't afford to go myself".

If he is truly a terrible kisser and his body turns you off, I would second everyone else who said let him go so that he can find someone who does appreciate the package as a whole.

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Sun 03/29/09 09:22 AM

Whew, thought I was the only one thinking that something sounded off!

If money was not important, it would not have been mentioned. If it was not the reason you are staying, you wouldn't have said "but he can take me places that I can't afford to go myself".

If he is truly a terrible kisser and his body turns you off, I would second everyone else who said let him go so that he can find someone who does appreciate the package as a whole.



She doesn't think that deep. She would never let him go until it suits her. Don't you understand that the world revolves around her and her needs?

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Sun 03/29/09 09:25 AM

She doesn't think that deep. She would never let him go until it suits her. Don't you understand that the world revolves around her and her needs?



Pffffttttttt that's crazy talk. The world revolves around ME! (especially after I've been indulging in too much pasta, mmmmm)

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Sun 03/29/09 09:26 AM


Whew, thought I was the only one thinking that something sounded off!

If money was not important, it would not have been mentioned. If it was not the reason you are staying, you wouldn't have said "but he can take me places that I can't afford to go myself".

If he is truly a terrible kisser and his body turns you off, I would second everyone else who said let him go so that he can find someone who does appreciate the package as a whole.



She doesn't think that deep. She would never let him go until it suits her. Don't you understand that the world revolves around her and her needs?


That was good!!laugh drinker drinker

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Sun 03/29/09 09:29 AM
I have been in that same siuation before, but I realized I would rather live my life truly loving someone then to live my life filled with those things. When you die, none of those "things" will matter, only the love that you have found along the way will...

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Sun 03/29/09 09:31 AM

We have broken it off before and he asks to come back into my life and somehow we get back together cause I miss the fun stuff we do and miss his funny ways, etc. But i feel i don't love him.


Theres your answer right there.


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Sun 03/29/09 01:19 PM


karma is a mutha


You got that right! drinker

flowerforyou

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Sun 03/29/09 01:40 PM
oh ya all missed it..
he is her companion...and if he pays for things cause she can't, there is no harm.
maybe she is lonesome, maybe he is lonesome. people come together for various reasons.
everyone of u out there has had something similar to this. someone likes u but u don't feel it for them...
so start looking in the mirror. if she does not love him, at least she is being honest. let her have some fun, and if he wants to pay for it...what is wrong?
money never hurts, and i think i tried to make this point at another time, and got lots of heat for it.

pauline "duffy" harvey the rabbit from the nuthouse 9 operation outpatient clinic.flowers flowers flowers flowers

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Sun 03/29/09 01:52 PM
money or not-if the feeling is not there, it won't work.Everyone has flaws but when you love someone, you accept their flaws-it is what makes a relationship work.Without love those flaws will become huge until that is all you see.Personally I would rather be with someone poor who takes my breath away than someone rich who makes me hold it in!

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Sun 03/29/09 01:53 PM

oh ya all missed it..
he is her companion...and if he pays for things cause she can't, there is no harm.
maybe she is lonesome, maybe he is lonesome. people come together for various reasons.
everyone of u out there has had something similar to this. someone likes u but u don't feel it for them...
so start looking in the mirror. if she does not love him, at least she is being honest. let her have some fun, and if he wants to pay for it...what is wrong?
money never hurts, and i think i tried to make this point at another time, and got lots of heat for it.

pauline "duffy" harvey the rabbit from the nuthouse 9 operation outpatient clinic.flowers flowers flowers flowers



She is a golddigger who wants it all.

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Sun 03/29/09 01:54 PM
yup when u r young u want a man who takes your breath away, and money does not mean a thing.
but trust me, when u r older money does mean something. and u can say what u want, but this is a companion deal.flowerforyou