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If the right person came along I would have to say yes. |
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Yeppers............... I find I loose myself when I  live with some one else. The Pleaser in me takes over and I forget about " ME". YES...dumb enough to do that 2 times.....Did beautiful well balanced meals.... and too much more. Alone definitely has its perks....no worries about puffy eyes, pillow marks...and morning breath....Nice to put decent clothes on when you want to! |
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Edited by
sweetcheeks1956
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Sat 04/25/09 02:01 PM
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If I felt it was a comitted realationship I most certainly would, the reasons,finances. At this stage of life I have to protect whats mine and lot of men feel the same way. I don't think a piece of paper proves anything at this stage of life. I can really relate to the losing yourself part also everytime I get with someone I lose some of me and am determined it's not going to happen again but it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks lol.
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Here's what I do when ever I feel alone and wish I had someone living whit me. I go and visit my married friends for awhile, After you hear them talk about their troubles, and they can't afford to do things or fight, I go home and those feeling go AWAY.
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seeetcheeks, You said it well. Finances are the usual driving
force at this stage of our lives. Not that I have anything against marriage, I loved being married. However at this point it is prolly better to just live together. There is a lot to think about but that would prolly be best. |
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I loved being married also did it three times
 but most of us are done having kids so why complicate things? |
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it all depends on the people and the situation
I would never think to impose a cookie cutter, one size fits all, solution to any relationship |
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If I felt it was a comitted realationship I most certainly would, the reasons,finances. At this stage of life I have to protect whats mine and lot of men feel the same way. I don't think a piece of paper proves anything at this stage of life. I can really relate to the losing yourself part also everytime I get with someone I lose some of me and am determined it's not going to happen again but it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks lol. Totally agree with this point of view. Never say never, but this is the most poss. for me. |
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oldsage
you are a very smart man 
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Thus the name
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Given my adversion to the "M" word, probably...
It would still have to be a very serious relationship and I'd STILL have to believe it could be something significant. I can support myself so it's never gonna be about an a place to receive mail. |
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In a New York minute.........but the situation has to be right, before I'd really commit to giving up my independence. So for me it's a "wait and see" I'm still waiting to find someone that fits all my criterea (and their's) Oh there's times when the walls feel like their closing in and I get the "lonely me blues", but it doesn't last long enough to be desperate to commit to a bad relationship.
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Right now, I wouldn't "live in".
Sure would like living "CLOSE".     
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I would be happy right now meeting a real man just for dinner and here I am talking about moving in lol. Talk about putting the cart in front of the horse. Seems we are so disposable on these sites that if you don't meet all the criteria you are kicked to the curb so right now a date would be a good start. My momma used to always say Cross that Bridge When you get to it and right now there is not a bridge in site.
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So where in Missouri, is florissant?
Any where close to the northwest cornor? Might be available for that dinner. Or do you ever travel to omaha area? |
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not looking for someone to move in with me or vice versa. Just want someone to be close enough to see on a regular basis.
 
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Old Sage
 Thank you darlin, Florissant is in St. Louis County. And my car blew up lol so until July I am in Florissant literally. Having dinner with a gentleman such as yourself would be wonderful. 
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Well, if I ever get to that area, we will have to see what can be done. Kind of tired of traveling, right now.
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