so will i say what i was thinkin? lol
nope not a good idea

Kevin u didn't say that last week

i am so having to catch up on this thread i coulda had some good fights outta it

Are you trying to get sent back to your corner?

I will miss you again!

and don't get me started on bi's
make your mind up, stop being greedy and i for one don't want somethin thats been dipped in diffrent pies!

I have no problem with gays/lesbians. It looks pretty interesting to me. Im sure for many thousands of years, bi-sexuality was the normal state of affairs. Spartans? Romans? I feel sad when I hear people condemning them to hell. What is so gosh darn terrible about a loving, committed relationship between two people of the same gender? Ive never understood the aversion to it. Is it better to be in a horrible, abusive heterosexual relationship?

i know, i've lasted well haven't i? lol

I have absolutely nothing against gays or lesbians. To each their own.

i like to have somethin against gays but thats another thread!

he's baaaack!!

and where exactly have u been lady huh?

So far yes

i was out looking at spaces for my 'mingle's most banned' recovery house i'm gonna start.

lol ooohhhhhh u'll be nxt

Thanks for clearing that up, I can't believe it was even said.

I hope I shed some light upon what I meant initially -

Some are faking some arent - being you is far more important than what anyone else thinks.

At the end of the day it is you and the face in the mirror that you have to live with


Your straight I take it, because you can not fake being gay, and a gay person will know if you are faking it believe me, I have dated straight women, and I knew they were straight and curious. Not my cup of tea, experiment with others that are doing the same, is what I told them.

People will find what works best for them and what makes them happy, don't particularly understand why you are seemingly so concerned with fakes, because if you are gay you can tell a fake a mile away and they are rare.

I have a few examples in my own personal life that I have seen people that I know that are faking it. In one case I know of a young lady that is unfortunately going to be very hurt when she finds out that her new girlfriend is just with her to make the previous boyfriend insane.

then I also know of another couple that are true and will do just fine. It really is a case by case thing and you NEED details to make a blanket statement like that about someone.




Ok well now this one makes sense, but very few do this in reality. I have known gay women that strictly date straight woman, which I find very strange because they always end up hurt. And personally any gay or straight that would use someone to get back at a boy friend or girl friend is not someone that can be trusted, period. And immature to be sure.

I bet he is talking more about the fad these days to be "heteroflexible" or bi.

I'm supportive of the GLBT communities. If it is truly you - that's great.

Fads? Meh. Not so much support from me for those.

Gay women are not 'KNOWN' for hating men. Some do but I would say most do not hate men.

There are some gay men that are intolerant of gay women, I have known a few, they are even more condesending toward women that some straight men. That's just the way it is. People are people and they all have one hang up or another...