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Just having one of those days where I just wanna quit everything, walk away, leave it all behind and become a hermit. I'm angry, disappointed in others and feeling sorry for myself. I should be grateful for everything I do have that is positive (and I do have a lot and I am) but right now, I just wanna wallow for a while.
I know it will pass, sooner rather than later and this doesn't happen to me often, thankfully, because I really, really hate feeling like this. |
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Just want to let you know that you're not the only one. I've felt like that many times.
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You can wallow in it for awhile...then the people that are your friends, people that love and care about you...will let you know that your time to wallow in it is up!! and they will do it with lots of love!! I don't think there is anything wrong with feeling like this from time to time...and it does not mean that you are not grateful for everything you have...to me, it means that I have taken on too much, over whelmed myself, had too high of expectations for myself and or others... this is a great time to eat choc and watch some movie that you cry over... this is the time when I do the Hokey Pokey!! |
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Take a nap
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You can wallow in it for awhile...then the people that are your friends, people that love and care about you...will let you know that your time to wallow in it is up!! and they will do it with lots of love!! I don't think there is anything wrong with feeling like this from time to time...and it does not mean that you are not grateful for everything you have...to me, it means that I have taken on too much, over whelmed myself, had too high of expectations for myself and or others... this is a great time to eat choc and watch some movie that you cry over... this is the time when I do the Hokey Pokey!! Well, I don't generally wallow long, thankfully. And I have taken on way too much and do definitely feel overwhelmed and I'm "given" out, I at the moment just have nothing left to give anyone. Mostly, I have a bad situation that directly affects me and that I have no control over. It's a relatively minor problem that's turned into a major mess and I just can't find a solution at the moment. And the sad thing is, usually I don't have to rely on anyone else for stuff or to solve my problems but in this case, I have no choice, I have to. And that's where the issue comes in. Oh well, chocolate and hokey pokey sound like a good prescription |
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I feel like my ass is dangling over a fire right now.
You can't hide from your problems. All you can do is fall back and regroup because there is no surrender. |
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I feel like my ass is dangling over a fire right now. You can't hide from your problems. All you can do is fall back and regroup because there is no surrender. Thank you and I know you're right. How bout just taking a break, is that allowed? |
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sending a BIG hug to {{{{{suz}}}}}
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The times I feel like that I get away from the house and everything around me at times just go for a drive take myself out to eat have me a drink or two and take in a good movie and it always seems to help me put things in order when I come back and look at things in a different light.
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I go through that too,I think, we all do.I hope you have a wonderful day.
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a cold Guiness and a few lapdances always help when i'm feeling down,but that's just me. be seeing you
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Everybody needs a refresh day now and then. Maybe today is yours. Takeing a bubblebath and doing something creative helps me re-energize. Useing my calendar helps me break down tasks in manageable bites. Letting go and letting others help may not get you the exact result you want but if it is a good result and you are not exhausted then it is a good result right? Good luck. HUGS.
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Fongul. I loathe those days.... Got a good book? A bad TV show to watch, a complicated meal you can prepare? For me, that's cathartic.
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I feel like my ass is dangling over a fire right now. You can't hide from your problems. All you can do is fall back and regroup because there is no surrender. Thank you and I know you're right. How bout just taking a break, is that allowed? Not only is taking a break allowed...it is part of the solution!! I think it is very healthy that you recognize your feeling and that you acknowledge them too! You have even stated several reasons for feeling the way you do! You are already on the way to dealing with this issue... You know that you will deal with your decision and your choice in your way and your time...and that you can then change your decision if necessary... |
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Remember u always have to take time for yourself.Remember the saying when mommas happy everyone is happy.
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I do the same,as most of us.Feel like running away,just for a day.Sometimes that helps!But hang in there.I't will get better.
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Thank you everyone. You know, I tell myself all these things but they sound so much better and truer coming from others, for some reason.
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Yeppers, I agree. Like steak tastes way better at the Outback than anything I can whip up at home...
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you could start bonging beers. that always makes me feel better.
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