Topic: where does a thirty something man meet a good woman?
plk1966's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:15 AM
no someone else is always talking about it and I thought you said it in your post

TBRich's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:27 AM
Me? I never stray from the thread topic.

74Drew's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:33 AM

I don't do the bar or club scene. I don't go to church. And the women I work with are either married too old or too young. So where does a thirty something man meet a good woman?

i have the same issues and i've found that there are good women everywhere. just not so many good looking good women. IMO

it seems as though the better looking they are the more fvcked up they are and the more likely they are to screw you over.

so, IMO, if you don't really care about looks all that much, open your eyes. if you do care a lot about looks, close your eyes and grab some lotion. there's going to be a lot of stroking in the future.


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Tootsweet13's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:39 AM


I don't do the bar or club scene. I don't go to church. And the women I work with are either married too old or too young. So where does a thirty something man meet a good woman?

i have the same issues and i've found that there are good women everywhere. just not so many good looking good women. IMO

it seems as though the better looking they are the more fvcked up they are and the more likely they are to screw you over.

so, IMO, if you don't really care about looks all that much, open your eyes. if you do care a lot about looks, close your eyes and grab some lotion. there's going to be a lot of stroking in the future.


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ABlooEyedAngel's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:58 AM
Hi all...this topic is interesting :wink:

I ask myself the same question except about men...I am on the BBW side of things (voluptuously so) although I go to the gym 5 times a week and work out...I have a great job, house, vehicle, yada yada...but I am not in the market to support a man which I am having loads of trouble with frustrated so maybe you guys need to hook me up with some of these 30 somthings that are great men!!

TBRich's photo
Sat 06/20/09 11:39 AM

Hi all...this topic is interesting :wink:

I ask myself the same question except about men...I am on the BBW side of things (voluptuously so) although I go to the gym 5 times a week and work out...I have a great job, house, vehicle, yada yada...but I am not in the market to support a man which I am having loads of trouble with frustrated so maybe you guys need to hook me up with some of these 30 somthings that are great men!!


You will value it more if you do the work yourself

ThomasJB's photo
Sat 06/20/09 12:11 PM

Hi all...this topic is interesting :wink:

I ask myself the same question except about men...I am on the BBW side of things (voluptuously so) although I go to the gym 5 times a week and work out...I have a great job, house, vehicle, yada yada...but I am not in the market to support a man which I am having loads of trouble with frustrated so maybe you guys need to hook me up with some of these 30 somthings that are great men!!


Many of us here don't put much faith in mutual match, but these forums are a good place to meet interesting people. Just find a topic that looks interesting a join the discussion. drinker

hotandspicey's photo
Sat 06/20/09 12:25 PM
All I can say, is that the older you get, the braver you have to be, because by now, any women you meet absolutely have been hurt by someone and are wary of trying again, so you will have to make the first move and not be pushy, just persistant in a nice charming way.

no photo
Sat 06/20/09 12:58 PM

I don't do the bar or club scene. I don't go to church. And the women I work with are either married too old or too young. So where does a thirty something man meet a good woman?
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no photo
Sat 06/20/09 05:32 PM
at church and by faith

TBRich's photo
Sat 06/20/09 08:17 PM

at church and by faith


How's that working out for you?

1mellowguy's photo
Sat 06/20/09 08:43 PM
Not sure. trying to take notes from Charlie Harper. My guess would be the local junior college or beauty school. bigsmile

ThomasJB's photo
Sat 06/20/09 09:20 PM


at church and by faith


How's that working out for you?


Well she see no evidence for a mate, but she knows he's there. :laughing:

no photo
Sat 06/20/09 09:23 PM
:banana: :banana: :banana: In a grocery aisles man!:laughing: :laughing: :banana:

1mellowguy's photo
Sat 06/20/09 09:29 PM

:banana: :banana: :banana: In a grocery aisles man!:laughing: :laughing: :banana:


you should not be in the frozen foods...all this food will melt.bigsmile

ThomasJB's photo
Sat 06/20/09 09:30 PM
Edited by ThomasJB on Sat 06/20/09 09:31 PM

:banana: :banana: :banana: In a grocery aisles man!:laughing: :laughing: :banana:


So where do you shop? :wink: bigsmile

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 06/21/09 12:36 AM

The Supermarket, thrift stores, coffee houses, book stores....


I think the supermarket is a risky one...99% are wives. I would say it's the hardest place to meet single women.

On the other hand, single women need to make themselves Obvious, that they are single and looking. Don't ask me how, I'm sure the women knows how, but the worst part is when they are single and looking and act like they aren't and try to figure out why they aren't even looked or talked to.

crystel's photo
Sun 06/21/09 07:02 AM
Its no easier over here in England but i,ve met a few nice guys when i,ve been walking my dogs in the park, and dogs are such great judge of characters too so will probably suss out the psycho,s for you:wink: :banana:

Tootsweet13's photo
Sun 06/21/09 07:05 AM
In the 8 months that I have been separated, I have NEVER been asked out by anyone I had not met online. That's kinda sad! embarassed

crystel's photo
Sun 06/21/09 07:09 AM

In the 8 months that I have been separated, I have NEVER been asked out by anyone I had not met online. That's kinda sad! embarassed
that is sad and surprising the men a round you must be mad as you have a great smile.
Do you ever ask them out? x