Topic: where does a thirty something man meet a good woman?
Tootsweet13's photo
Sun 06/21/09 07:12 AM


In the 8 months that I have been separated, I have NEVER been asked out by anyone I had not met online. That's kinda sad! embarassed
that is sad and surprising the men a round you must be mad as you have a great smile.
Do you ever ask them out? x


Aww...thank you. And no, I never ask them out. I'm way too chicken for that. laugh

crystel's photo
Sun 06/21/09 07:19 AM



In the 8 months that I have been separated, I have NEVER been asked out by anyone I had not met online. That's kinda sad! embarassed
that is sad and surprising the men a round you must be mad as you have a great smile.
Do you ever ask them out? x


Aww...thank you. And no, I never ask them out. I'm way too chicken for that. laugh

Think alot of us women are i,m the same laugh

no photo
Sun 06/21/09 05:23 PM


:banana: :banana: :banana: In a grocery aisles man!:laughing: :laughing: :banana:


So where do you shop? :wink: bigsmile


Cub Foods.. if you want to hit on Asian go the the chinese ingredients section, for sexy woman go to the diet section, for veggetarian hang out in the vegetable section and for lazy go the deli section etc ....etc...rofl rofl rofl

Beachy77's photo
Thu 06/25/09 09:59 PM
Edited by Beachy77 on Thu 06/25/09 10:02 PM
Get out an initiate. Dog parks, coffee shops and the mall! I would think people are more just chilling out and less likely to be in a hurry and maybe easier to approach to just sit and chat for a moment. That's not too easy at a grocery store. The guy who said the thrift store, that is terribe! I love thrift stores. Don't you have any class?

ThomasJB's photo
Thu 06/25/09 10:18 PM



:banana: :banana: :banana: In a grocery aisles man!:laughing: :laughing: :banana:


So where do you shop? :wink: bigsmile


Cub Foods.. if you want to hit on Asian go the the chinese ingredients section, for sexy woman go to the diet section, for veggetarian hang out in the vegetable section and for lazy go the deli section etc ....etc...rofl rofl rofl


SO who would you meet in the frozen foods section? :laughing:

no photo
Fri 06/26/09 01:06 AM
hang out wi the fags we know loads tongue2

adj4u's photo
Fri 06/26/09 05:38 AM
figure out what you like

and spend time at related events and retail establishments


at least you will probably have something in common

just a thought

but hey

what do i know

7z3r05's photo
Fri 06/26/09 08:20 AM


SPeeddating =)


How is that? I've never done it.


ive done speed dating before. it was at a church, so i guess you could call it catholic speed dating...

... yes it was lame and awkward all at the same time! however i am sure it is different if you do it somewhere else, say, not a church perhaps.

TBRich's photo
Fri 06/26/09 10:30 AM

Get out an initiate. Dog parks, coffee shops and the mall! I would think people are more just chilling out and less likely to be in a hurry and maybe easier to approach to just sit and chat for a moment. That's not too easy at a grocery store. The guy who said the thrift store, that is terribe! I love thrift stores. Don't you have any class?


I do have class, I just prefer women without any.

ThomasJB's photo
Fri 06/26/09 08:40 PM

hang out wi the fags we know loads tongue2


I don't currently have any gay friends. tears They do though have an uncanny insight into some things like that though. :thumbsup:

Matty120179's photo
Sat 06/27/09 07:42 PM
It's so hard for our generation to find a partner if we are still single at 30. So many get married way to young & by the time they are 30 & there marriage is gone bad your stuck with kids & in the dating game again, those of us who left it till later in life find the pickings slim because lets admit it it is not easy to date & raise kids. All my 20 something friends I tell to wait until your 30 before you get married or have kids, there is just so much you can do in one lifetime. My advice to all the 20 somethings "enjoy the time while it's there & don't take life too seriously."

ThomasJB's photo
Sat 06/27/09 07:48 PM

It's so hard for our generation to find a partner if we are still single at 30. So many get married way to young & by the time they are 30 & there marriage is gone bad your stuck with kids & in the dating game again, those of us who left it till later in life find the pickings slim because lets admit it it is not easy to date & raise kids. All my 20 something friends I tell to wait until your 30 before you get married or have kids, there is just so much you can do in one lifetime. My advice to all the 20 somethings "enjoy the time while it's there & don't take life too seriously."


I have to agree. Looking back at myself over the last decade or so, I have changed and matured so much and feel so much wiser. In many respects I feel like I am not the same person I was then. Welcome to mingle. drinker

Iheartpinkpink's photo
Sun 06/28/09 12:52 AM
I'm a 32 year old woman, and it's SO difficult meeting guys in the area...so I totally know what you're going through...

ThomasJB's photo
Sun 06/28/09 06:16 PM

I'm a 32 year old woman, and it's SO difficult meeting guys in the area...so I totally know what you're going through...


It is even harder when you are not a very extroverted person. While I wouldn't call myself shy, I do tend towards being introverted.

no photo
Mon 06/29/09 02:26 AM


hang out wi the fags we know loads tongue2


I don't currently have any gay friends. tears They do though have an uncanny insight into some things like that though. :thumbsup:


well let me take u by the hand and lead u to the promised land bigsmile winking tongue2

GeckoDo's photo
Mon 06/29/09 05:12 AM
I've also tried going to church, but I'm not sure that people are good because they go to Church, or because they go to Church because they are sinners. Anyway, Church is not my thing if it's for meeting women.

no photo
Mon 06/29/09 05:23 AM
How to Meet Your Soulmate

first you have to get out. Take some classes. Volunteer. Go to Sunday school classes. Just get out and about and meet people

eventually you'll meet a woman that seems to fit you perfectly

you'll start dating

and eventually you'll decide to marry

and on the wedding day you'll meet her family. and when you meet her sister the bridesmaid you'll realize that SHE is your soulmate and it's too late

so sayeth the prophet Murphy


Luv2Bounce's photo
Mon 06/29/09 09:58 PM
You can meet a good woman just about anywhere. It could be in line at the grocery store, taking a walk in the park,on lunch break, pretty much anywhere. The question is, Are your eyes and mind open to seeing them?

74Drew's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:08 PM




:banana: :banana: :banana: In a grocery aisles man!:laughing: :laughing: :banana:


So where do you shop? :wink: bigsmile


Cub Foods.. if you want to hit on Asian go the the chinese ingredients section, for sexy woman go to the diet section, for veggetarian hang out in the vegetable section and for lazy go the deli section etc ....etc...rofl rofl rofl


SO who would you meet in the frozen foods section? :laughing:

single men who don't want/know how to cook.


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ThomasJB's photo
Mon 06/29/09 10:15 PM





:banana: :banana: :banana: In a grocery aisles man!:laughing: :laughing: :banana:


So where do you shop? :wink: bigsmile


Cub Foods.. if you want to hit on Asian go the the chinese ingredients section, for sexy woman go to the diet section, for veggetarian hang out in the vegetable section and for lazy go the deli section etc ....etc...rofl rofl rofl


SO who would you meet in the frozen foods section? :laughing:

single men who don't want/know how to cook.


. . .


I enjoy cooking when I feel like it and have the time.