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Topic: Why do you say you'll call, and then not?
SunshineMama's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:36 PM
Edited by SunshineMama on Sun 06/14/09 05:37 PM
Seriously guys, cut the b.s. If you're "not that into me" then don't say that you are! I'm wasting my time waiting and you're turning into an ass playing some stupid game. Didn't we leave that behind after high school? Can anyone explain this to me?

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:38 PM
in all fairness...some women do that too. If someone isn't into you...don't waste any more time or energy on it

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:39 PM
maybe they got arrested

SunshineMama's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:41 PM
yeah, isn't that really mean of me to hope they did! or in an accident, or lost their phone... I'm feeling like Drew Barrymore in the movie!

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:43 PM

Seriously guys, cut the b.s. If you're "not that into me" then don't say that you are! I'm wasting my time waiting and you're turning into an ass playing some stupid game. Didn't we leave that behind after high school? Can anyone explain this to me?


I don't know, why do all the ladies I date not give upfront honest answers to questions? Same applies, if you're not interested...I'm a big boy, tell me.

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Sun 06/14/09 05:44 PM
someone told me the story of the dude that called his girl, said he was arrested, she paid for a cab to bring him home, she was all apologies about him being arrested....but...the dude told the cab driver he had been with another girl the prior evening and told the "i got arrested story" to stay out of hot water...

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Sun 06/14/09 05:44 PM
usual game playing, tell them to enjoy their habd and move on

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Sun 06/14/09 05:44 PM


Seriously guys, cut the b.s. If you're "not that into me" then don't say that you are! I'm wasting my time waiting and you're turning into an ass playing some stupid game. Didn't we leave that behind after high school? Can anyone explain this to me?


I don't know, why do all the ladies I date not give upfront honest answers to questions? Same applies, if you're not interested...I'm a big boy, tell me.


yeah honesty is a rare commodity these days....

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:46 PM

someone told me the story of the dude that called his girl, said he was arrested, she paid for a cab to bring him home, she was all apologies about him being arrested....but...the dude told the cab driver he had been with another girl the prior evening and told the "i got arrested story" to stay out of hot water...

whoa

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:46 PM
Maybe he just means like.. hell call when he feels like it, or has time. I wouldnt sweat it.

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:48 PM
It's just something they say. Ya know like, later. It mean's nothing.

ThomasJB's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:48 PM
Edited by ThomasJB on Sun 06/14/09 05:49 PM
I think the women that are having problems like this are finding the wrong men. Those men aren't worth your time. I know I'm only one of many men here that, when we say we will do something, we will do it. We would not tell a woman we'd call her if we had no intention of doing so.

SunshineMama's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:49 PM

Maybe he just means like.. hell call when he feels like it, or has time. I wouldnt sweat it.


you'd think that could be it too - he said 5 minutes! Or, we'll go out on Saturday which comes and goes...

trgirl's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:50 PM
i dont know but all the guys i know do that. must be a guy thingwhat

SimplyElla's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:50 PM
If they dont call when they say they will..
they are just not wanting too..
goes with anything and everything else..
men - and women - will only do what they wish to do..









***POOF***

galendgirl's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:50 PM
Not a problem for me :banana:

geektothetenth's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:51 PM
Edited by geektothetenth on Sun 06/14/09 05:52 PM
Why do girls give out fake phone numbers, I'm just trying to get a date and 30 minutes later Papa John is at my door asking for 20 bucks WTF.


someone told me the story of the dude that called his girl, said he was arrested, she paid for a cab to bring him home, she was all apologies about him being arrested....but...the dude told the cab driver he had been with another girl the prior evening and told the "i got arrested story" to stay out of hot water...


how did anyone ever find out what he told the cab driver, is this one of those urban legend stories, cause if so, a few yeti's and maybe a chupacabra would make it more interesting.

But yes it's irritating when people say they're going to do something and then don't.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:51 PM
No one is perfect... Some people just can't say they're not interested and they avoid it... It may not be 'grown up' per se but sometimes the truth may hurt more than no knowing.... and the times I've told someone I didn't think we were a match they freaked out on me and called me every name in the book and one even had his friends stalk me as well sooooooooooooooo sometimes being completely open isn't always accepted with open and appreciating arms...

littleike's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:53 PM

Seriously guys, cut the b.s. If you're "not that into me" then don't say that you are! I'm wasting my time waiting and you're turning into an ass playing some stupid game. Didn't we leave that behind after high school? Can anyone explain this to me?
ok ill try to answer but i hope no one gets mad at me. well i believe alot of it is sociaty around the world today. alot seem to be greedy and into thereselfs and how they can benifit right this minute. its always seems to be im bigger,faster, more money, cuter, me me me me me. this game playing that men and women do is stupid and childish

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Sun 06/14/09 06:01 PM
That's why I dont wait by the phone..... If you're not there to answer, he may wonder who else you're out with and try harder to show you he cares...

If im here to talk fine...if not, he'll call back if "he's all that into me".

Stop sitting by the phone and live life deary!!! flowerforyou

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