It's unfortunate but if someone is going to treat you like that then you're better off without them.. I can see needing a coupld/few days to cool off if it was a huge argument but that should still be communicated, even if by text or email... More than a few days and I'd be moving on even if he did call after a week..

Success is the best revenge, pull yourself up and move on. You will be better off in the long run.

Maybe it all sounded good in the planning but as the house is closer to close, he's getting cold feet about commitment.
That happened to me awhile back. We "talked it out" and he told me what I wanted to hear. A year later I couldn't get out of there fast enough. He didn't know enough about himself to deal with his feelings OR work it out...but he would never admit that.
You might be better off without this guy in the long run.

well, it's best that you're finding him out now rather than later down the road. imagine if you guys had moved in together and gotten married and then like 10 years later, he pulls something like this. communication is key in any relationship and if he can't even talk to you about this, he's too immature to be in a relationship.

If he's that immature about things, that's not a good sign.

Sometimes people get so bent out of shape or hurt in an arguement that they cut all ties instead of dealing with another fight. It's not that they are playing some game and want somebody crawling back to them, it could be that they simply don't care or care to deal.

that's a possibility. a guy pissed me off in a conversation the other night so i just stopped talking to him and deleted all traces of him, but that's not the same as in a relationship. i'd like to hope if i had been in a relationship with this person i would have had the courtesy to tell him it's over. jmo

My friendship ended with a text message.. have not heard her voice since.

Same exact situation I was in several months ago. I decided not to give him control over my part of deciding about the relationship. I wasn't going to put my life on hold for some untold amount of time while HE MADE the decision for both of us. Packed the few toiletries he had here, went and got mine. Felt great! Found out he'd been cheating - easiest relationship I ever walked away from and on my own terms before I knew of his bad behavior. Do what is in your heart, the answer is likely already there.

sounds like he's playng games i'd say game over

more than a day or two then assume its over

Yes
It is that simple

You take charge of your own destiny
And do it!!!!!






Sometimes it's not that simple...

If someone treated me this way, it would be over, I wouldn't wait around for him to announce it. You've got a real good indication of how you'll be treated in the future. Just shutting down over a disagreement is not an option for folks who care about one another. I know you're hurting now, but the pain I see for you if you stay with him is far worse. Best of luck.

well at least you got that much. a guy told me he'd call me back and he hasn't yet, and that's been over 12 years ago

Then there is my son's father, dodged a bullet and got an amazing human in return. He, my son will soon be 30. Long, long ago stopped hurting over that loser. Dodging bullets RULES!

well as of this moment I'm still being ignored, so I still have about 12 years to go.

He is emotionally stunted. He is pouting to get his way. Move on, unless you want a long term relationship with a boy not a man.

very well said

to the OP...the ball is in your court now. You can make your choices.

It's not that easy if it's an online or a long distance thing, for sure....there are other reasons and circumstances for when it isn't...