Topic: What is "fat"?
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Wed 09/16/09 04:02 AM
Its sad how society and hollywood view weight.
My daughter is 6" tall and 147 shes a size 3 but very muscular and she thinks shes fat!
Im a bit over weight...im 5'7 and 168 a size 10...but am told i look like a size 7 cuz i carry my weight well and am muscular.
the way i look at it is, i'm happy with myself. Anmd if someone else dosent like how i look.....then dont look at me!

beachbum069's photo
Wed 09/16/09 04:45 AM

Ladies, don't allow yourselves to listen to anyone that tell you what you should do with your body, your lives, your self esteem.

I just think people say the darnest things when hungry :laughing:

Live a good life
Live a healthy lifestyle
Treat people like you want to be treated
Feel good about yourself

Life is short, ride it out don't sit on the sidelines, have fun and throw out those unnecessary categories people want to put us in.

Hi my name is Frances and not only am I PHAT but I am FABULOUS.

flowerforyou



love

niteclerk's photo
Wed 09/16/09 05:03 AM
When a womans wears stretch pants and shops at Wal-mart.
I'm fat cause I shop at Walmart? spock

Holly4459's photo
Wed 09/16/09 05:19 AM

I'm a size 12, and by entertainment standards, that's fat.

Someone told me men don't care so much about sizes or inches, just a good bust-waist-hip ratio.

But that's just one guy. Some men like their girls slim. So just throwing the question out there, what do you consider "fat"?
Jusy -you are adorable girl! The other ladies posting in here are also beautiful!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

beachbum069's photo
Wed 09/16/09 09:07 AM
I don't consider someone fat unless you can count chins and stomach folds.

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Wed 09/16/09 11:53 AM
I always thought that fat was that stuff that hangs over your pants. I believe they are called muffin tops!!!!noway scared shocked

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Wed 09/16/09 12:09 PM
shades ... A PHAT bottom girl is good to find, more cushion for da pushin' ... bigsmile


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VMnjF1O4eH0

Are ya gonna take me home tonight??? ... :banana: :banana:

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Wed 09/16/09 12:09 PM
I thought "fatness" was more desirable than length.

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Wed 09/16/09 12:11 PM
Phat IS "where" it's at ??? ... spock

jtitol's photo
Wed 09/16/09 12:12 PM
50 pounds overweight

unsure's photo
Wed 09/16/09 12:15 PM
The sad thing is people really do become obsessed with their weight. I lost 125 pounds about 5 years ago, I had cancer. Then keeping the weight off is really hard...I actually developed an eating disorder so I could remain thin. Is this how we are suppose to be? All of my friends and family kept telling me how horrible I looked..I looked sick to them because I am a "big boned" girl. I had to look deep inside myself and decide do I want to be sick the rest of my life to remain thin OR am I going to allow myself to eat and be healthier?
I gained 26 pounds...do I regret it? I do BUT its a society issue telling me that I should be thinner. In my mind I will always say "DIET, DIET, DIET."
Good Luck and I guess the one thing everyone has to realize, some times its not as easy as people think it is when everyone says that we need to be healthier and gain weight or we need to diet. Remember, people do take things to heart!!!

jtitol's photo
Wed 09/16/09 12:16 PM
btw i like women wiv lots of curves

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Wed 09/16/09 12:28 PM
Edited by AGoodGuy1026 on Wed 09/16/09 12:30 PM
frankly, a woman who is secure with who she is, how she looks, where she is in her life, and what she wants out of life moving forward is very attractive to me...

a woman who is too large, or too thin to love themselves - and be active in life is very un-attractive to me...

people who focus on specific weight/height criteria are (in my opinion) shallow.

If you loose/gain weight becuase that is what you want and are secure and happy with that... you can be as sexy as you want. If you are insecure about who you are and how you look (fat or thin) it is very unattractive...

5'6" 170lbs - I got no problem with that... if she is happy in herself...

what is fat? being unhappy becuase of your size, and worrying about what other people think of you...

what is thin? being unhappy because of your size, and worrying about what other people think of you...

OP: your NOT fat, you are gorgeous!! If anyone tells you otherwise, they have their own issues... flowerforyou

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/16/09 12:35 PM
As long as they are happy with themselves what does it matter to anyone else................live your own life and let them live theirs...........bigsmile :thumbsup:


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Wed 09/16/09 07:19 PM

I'm a size 12, and by entertainment standards, that's fat.

Someone told me men don't care so much about sizes or inches, just a good bust-waist-hip ratio.

But that's just one guy. Some men like their girls slim. So just throwing the question out there, what do you consider "fat"?


There are guys like that out there. I met a pretty wonderful one who didn't seem to care that I wasn't skinny.

Dan99's photo
Wed 09/16/09 07:20 PM
Walking along a beach, covering up her own footprints with her arse. THAT is FAT.

Dan99's photo
Wed 09/16/09 07:22 PM
Or a butt so big she gets poo stains on her collar..

Jusy's photo
Wed 09/16/09 09:55 PM

Walking along a beach, covering up her own footprints with her arse. THAT is FAT.



Or when footprints in the sand are no longer footprints, but just a big long DRAAAGGGG across the sand?

alonenotlonely's photo
Wed 09/16/09 09:57 PM

I'm a size 12, and by entertainment standards, that's fat.

Someone told me men don't care so much about sizes or inches, just a good bust-waist-hip ratio.

But that's just one guy. Some men like their girls slim. So just throwing the question out there, what do you consider "fat"?


Rubenesque? OMG!

scorpio90's photo
Wed 09/16/09 09:57 PM
Hmm...I still like big girls.....:tongue: