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Topic: ANYONE?
Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 09/20/09 11:01 PM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Sun 09/20/09 11:01 PM
I forgot to mention that my G/F cheated on me with my best LESBIAN friend.


oh

I can't help you there

thats uncharted territory for me

BMS's photo
Sun 09/20/09 11:28 PM
It is ok brother. Basically this specific lesbian looks like a cross between slim shady and peewee herman.

Ever seen the movie "Malibu's Most Wanted" ??

Watch the movie.... she is B-Rad, the main character.




I guess after time you start to just accept that relationships fail, women cheat (men too, I know), the economy is depleated, the world is in the beginning of what looks like a nice long road of chaos....

this is life, so accept it, pick yourself up and move on with whatever life you can acheive. The world works to make weak people who they are, the strong decide how to make the world work for them.


Just a couple random thoughts to add

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 09/21/09 12:03 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Mon 09/21/09 12:04 AM

Seems dramatic.



Feel for ya bro.


Sounds stressful. And trashy.




IV, I love everything you say! I'm like infatuated or something! :laughing: smitten

I adore your no drama mantra, baby! :thumbsup:

no photo
Mon 09/21/09 12:06 AM


Seems dramatic.



Feel for ya bro.


Sounds stressful. And trashy.




IV, I love everything you say! I'm like infatuated or something! :laughing: smitten

I adore your no drama mantra, baby! :thumbsup:









I don't know.



My best friends doing my girl.

My girl humping lesbians.


Sounds entertaining actually.



laugh

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 09/21/09 12:12 AM
Because they lack morals, and values,loyalty, and decency.

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/21/09 12:15 AM

Can anyone tell me why it seems that best friends like to **** your girlfriends? just curious..........


Just something I have dealt with to many times to understand. Maybe one of you super intelligent people can give me your views.


maybe yur standards in friends and girlfriends needs to change?btw good morning BMSlaugh flowerforyou

BMS's photo
Mon 09/21/09 12:34 AM
Good morning my sweet honey southern bee.....

or evening.....

Haven't slept in a few days or eaten, been smokin alot though so I guess that kinda balances it out somehow.....

How have you been darling?



As for my standards....


I am 25
Self Employed
Live in caregiver for my mother
Live in the ... not too much money.. side of town
Covered in Ink
Almost gloved and sleeved on the left side now
Babysitter for my Special Needs Neice
Handyman and basic slave to my older sister

......Standards are a luxury I have never really yearned for.... I take it as it comes. 1 day at a time, 1 moment, 1 girl, 1 painful experience, then it starts over.

Cynical?
Realist?
Or just Really Really Really Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh?


No Clue as of now

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 09/21/09 12:41 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Mon 09/21/09 12:42 AM

Good morning my sweet honey southern bee.....

or evening.....

Haven't slept in a few days or eaten, been smokin alot though so I guess that kinda balances it out somehow.....

How have you been darling?



As for my standards....


I am 25
Self Employed
Live in caregiver for my mother
Live in the ... not too much money.. side of town
Covered in Ink
Almost gloved and sleeved on the left side now
Babysitter for my Special Needs Neice
Handyman and basic slave to my older sister

......Standards are a luxury I have never really yearned for.... I take it as it comes. 1 day at a time, 1 moment, 1 girl, 1 painful experience, then it starts over.

Cynical?
Realist?
Or just Really Really Really Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh?


No Clue as of now



You have standards confused with person characteristics.

Standards:

- Integrity
- Loyalty
- Customary educational achievements
- Career goals
- Good credit
- Emotional and physical health
- Hobbies
- No criminal history

The aforementioned are examples of standards you should possibly seek in your friends and in your dating partners.

BMS's photo
Mon 09/21/09 12:48 AM
Those standards are ones that I hold for myself yes, but it seems that it is almost impossible to find anyone else that holds true to them. Many say that they do but talk is cheap and unfortunately so are alot of the women in this city.

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 09/21/09 12:56 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Mon 09/21/09 01:00 AM

Those standards are ones that I hold for myself yes, but it seems that it is almost impossible to find anyone else that holds true to them. Many say that they do but talk is cheap and unfortunately so are alot of the women in this city.


Well, if you don't have high standards for yourself or for the people with whom you associate then your life will continue to be filled with drama.

It's easy to shut the door on people that are less concerned with the quality of their life -- and when you get in too deep with them -- they will bring you down too.

Just raise your standards (period). You control the switch on the roller coaster. You don't like the ride? Get off! winking

I noticed you generalize women in your last statement. I thought you had issue with a friend having sex with your GF. It takes two to betray you. Hold him accountable too and don't just say "women".

PEOPLE have issues -- not just one gender or the other.

If you repeat your mistakes, people will have less empathy for you. There is no reason to perpetuate drama.

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/21/09 01:20 AM

Good morning my sweet honey southern bee.....

or evening.....

Haven't slept in a few days or eaten, been smokin alot though so I guess that kinda balances it out somehow.....

How have you been darling?



As for my standards....


I am 25
Self Employed
Live in caregiver for my mother
Live in the ... not too much money.. side of town
Covered in Ink
Almost gloved and sleeved on the left side now
Babysitter for my Special Needs Neice
Handyman and basic slave to my older sister

......Standards are a luxury I have never really yearned for.... I take it as it comes. 1 day at a time, 1 moment, 1 girl, 1 painful experience, then it starts over.

Cynical?
Realist?
Or just Really Really Really Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh?


No Clue as of now


im good just looking for a job like always!you need to get some sleep and get something to eat its hard on yur body to do that.
maybe as the for ladies in your life you want miss right now instead miss right.but as for your friends well just kill them.

BMS's photo
Mon 09/21/09 02:12 PM


Those standards are ones that I hold for myself yes, but it seems that it is almost impossible to find anyone else that holds true to them. Many say that they do but talk is cheap and unfortunately so are alot of the women in this city.


Well, if you don't have high standards for yourself or for the people with whom you associate then your life will continue to be filled with drama.

It's easy to shut the door on people that are less concerned with the quality of their life -- and when you get in too deep with them -- they will bring you down too.

Just raise your standards (period). You control the switch on the roller coaster. You don't like the ride? Get off! winking

I noticed you generalize women in your last statement. I thought you had issue with a friend having sex with your GF. It takes two to betray you. Hold him accountable too and don't just say "women".

PEOPLE have issues -- not just one gender or the other.

If you repeat your mistakes, people will have less empathy for you. There is no reason to perpetuate drama.




I am sorry iof I grouped all women together in that comment. I meant to address the two women that screwed me over, my X and My best friend (LESBIAN)

BMS's photo
Mon 09/21/09 02:12 PM


Good morning my sweet honey southern bee.....

or evening.....

Haven't slept in a few days or eaten, been smokin alot though so I guess that kinda balances it out somehow.....

How have you been darling?



As for my standards....


I am 25
Self Employed
Live in caregiver for my mother
Live in the ... not too much money.. side of town
Covered in Ink
Almost gloved and sleeved on the left side now
Babysitter for my Special Needs Neice
Handyman and basic slave to my older sister

......Standards are a luxury I have never really yearned for.... I take it as it comes. 1 day at a time, 1 moment, 1 girl, 1 painful experience, then it starts over.

Cynical?
Realist?
Or just Really Really Really Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh?


No Clue as of now


im good just looking for a job like always!you need to get some sleep and get something to eat its hard on yur body to do that.
maybe as the for ladies in your life you want miss right now instead miss right.but as for your friends well just kill them.


I had a better idea....... just stay to myself for a while until I get MY life in order..... the hell with bringing more drama my way

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 09/21/09 02:13 PM

Can anyone tell me why it seems that best friends like to **** your girlfriends? just curious..........


Just something I have dealt with to many times to understand. Maybe one of you super intelligent people can give me your views.
:smile: Thats why you cant have a best friend and a girlfriend at the same time:smile:

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/21/09 06:41 PM



Good morning my sweet honey southern bee.....

or evening.....

Haven't slept in a few days or eaten, been smokin alot though so I guess that kinda balances it out somehow.....

How have you been darling?



As for my standards....


I am 25
Self Employed
Live in caregiver for my mother
Live in the ... not too much money.. side of town
Covered in Ink
Almost gloved and sleeved on the left side now
Babysitter for my Special Needs Neice
Handyman and basic slave to my older sister

......Standards are a luxury I have never really yearned for.... I take it as it comes. 1 day at a time, 1 moment, 1 girl, 1 painful experience, then it starts over.

Cynical?
Realist?
Or just Really Really Really Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh?


No Clue as of now


im good just looking for a job like always!you need to get some sleep and get something to eat its hard on yur body to do that.
maybe as the for ladies in your life you want miss right now instead miss right.but as for your friends well just kill them.


I had a better idea....... just stay to myself for a while until I get MY life in order..... the hell with bringing more drama my way



i just stopped dating i dont like drama either.but as for being cheap my friends trust me with their life!scary to think huh?but as long as my friends now id bend over backwards for them and they know i keep my word then im just pricelesslaugh flowerforyou

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