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Topic: Am I attractive??
krazy_dt Joined Tue 10/13/09 Posts: 1	Tue 10/13/09 09:03 PM
Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else??

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Tue 10/13/09 09:05 PM
yeah you'll be fine it just takes time but you should crop your pic so it doesn't just show your breasteses

In_OC Joined Tue 10/14/08 Posts: 104	Tue 10/13/09 09:05 PM
Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? "He took my best years away from me"...sounds harsh Best of luck and hope all goes well in your new endevour.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 10/13/09 09:05 PM
Honey, were all beautiful...his cheating was him, not you. Your still young..your best years are NOT gone, trust me on that! Good Luck to ya!

Gator76 Joined Wed 09/09/09 Posts: 1047	Tue 10/13/09 09:09 PM
Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? I can assure you...your best years are ahead of you! Sorry for your pain. But you will not only survive...you'll thrive! Good luck..and yes, you are attractive. Some lucky young guy will prove that in time!

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Tue 10/13/09 09:13 PM
You are not alone. There are many of us with similar stories. Give yourself some time to heal. My husband cheated also and my marriage ended when I was 38. I remember feeling like he took my best years too. Guess what? He DIDN'T!!!! You have many, many wonderful years ahead of you! Take your time, heal and figure out the single life before you jump into another relationship! Welcome

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/13/09 09:14 PM
Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? i checked your pics out on your profile and your very attractive. i may actually be moving down in your are if you want a good friend

Viktorbaenre Joined Wed 07/23/08 Posts: 4	Tue 10/13/09 09:15 PM
hi you look very nice to me. that was his mistake

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Tue 10/13/09 09:16 PM
yeah you'll be fine it just takes time but you should crop your pic so it doesn't just show your breasteses shhhhhhhhhh? i think there should be a mandate that all pics are like this... oh to the op...he didnt do it because you are not attractive... he did it because he is a jerk...karma is a b**** let him find out on his own...

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Tue 10/13/09 09:17 PM
Hi Don’t allow someone to steal your self esteem. He cheated; he is the one with problems. Cheaters are evil, spineless, dishonest, and lack integrity. I’m not sure how old you are but he DID NOT take your best years. Reinvent yourself; take some classes, work out if you don’t already, and take it slow. He did the wrong thing but managed to put you in a bad way? Don’t empower him. (no generalizations; this scenario could easily take a gender flip)

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Tue 10/13/09 09:25 PM
He was crazy!! You are HAWT Wish you luck

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 10/13/09 09:29 PM
Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? dreamy

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15104	Tue 10/13/09 09:36 PM
You're beautiful, hun! Don't base your view of yourself on the fact that he cheated. One has nothing to do with the other! You're still young and attractive and have so much life ahead of you!

sk8mafia Joined Tue 10/06/09 Posts: 53	Tue 10/13/09 09:40 PM
don't worry he'll be back then you can diss him!

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 10/13/09 09:43 PM
nice pic

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Tue 10/13/09 09:47 PM
don't worry he'll be back then you can diss him! They always do ....lol

yotaman2009 Joined Sun 10/12/08 Posts: 165	Tue 10/13/09 10:30 PM
your cute he is missin out

soundedmind Joined Tue 07/10/07 Posts: 2199	Wed 10/14/09 12:14 AM
Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? ... I'd do ya.

Pumpkin_King Joined Sun 08/23/09 Posts: 15	Wed 10/14/09 12:49 AM
You are very attractive honey. Any man would be lucky to have you. It may seem like a hard time now but it will always get better, you still have your whole life ahead of you. Don't take him back no matter want, once a cheater always a cheater.

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Wed 10/14/09 09:11 AM
No problem with your looks, the problem was his brain not seeing your beauty. As for stealing your best years from you that's not true the best years are always the ones ahead not the ones past. Keep smiling and you'll find what it is you need.