Topic: Your view of Marriage?
Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:01 PM
Ewwwww

Never again

It smells like poop

I want to be free...
I want to be free....:heart:

TxsSun's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:03 PM
If we are both secure in the relationship, what is the point?

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:06 PM

If we are both secure in the relationship, what is the point?


let's run away together and become nuns love laugh

s1owhand's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:08 PM
a contract is only as good as the people who signed it....

TxsSun's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:11 PM


If we are both secure in the relationship, what is the point?


let's run away together and become nuns love laugh


I can't, just yetbigsmile

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:25 PM

a contract is only as good as the people who signed it....


Not if the contract is crooked in the first place. What use is marriage? It doesn't prove anything in a relationship, it doesn't help the relationship, if anything it hinders it more. It is foolish to commit that much to one person for the rest of your life, especially when it is done on average after a year or two. Five years later the divorce becomes final and they move onto the second marriage, five years down the road the divorce becomes final and they move onto the third marriage, etc. etc.

50% of first marriages (coin-flip anyone?), 67% of second marriages (oddly enough 67 is the prefix in most states for blocking your number on caller ID), and 74% of third marriages fail (74 MPH and you have yourself a hurricane or typhoon).

It is like playing duck, duck, goose...

no photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:39 PM







if marriage was ment to work and be amazing then why is the divorce rate soo high..

im not Betty crocker in not Suzie homemaker and i cant stand to date someone for too long!


With me it's the other way around, they never want to date me for too long.sad sad sad sad sad


yeah ive been dumped before but they all have been losers...laugh


I think we've dated the same guys.:wink: laugh


lol yeah and wow if i could erase every guy ive ever dated..id be a virgin who knew how to trust peoplelaugh


I'm a born again virgin.blushing


i guess i am too and glady i could go the rest of my life with out getting anylaugh


Me too! Mind ****s are much more fun anyway!rofl rofl rofl

no photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:40 PM


a contract is only as good as the people who signed it....


Not if the contract is crooked in the first place. What use is marriage? It doesn't prove anything in a relationship, it doesn't help the relationship, if anything it hinders it more. It is foolish to commit that much to one person for the rest of your life, especially when it is done on average after a year or two. Five years later the divorce becomes final and they move onto the second marriage, five years down the road the divorce becomes final and they move onto the third marriage, etc. etc.

50% of first marriages (coin-flip anyone?), 67% of second marriages (oddly enough 67 is the prefix in most states for blocking your number on caller ID), and 74% of third marriages fail (74 MPH and you have yourself a hurricane or typhoon).

It is like playing duck, duck, goose...


You get to throw a pretty kick a$$ party though.laugh laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:40 PM



If we are both secure in the relationship, what is the point?


let's run away together and become nuns love laugh


I can't, just yetbigsmile


laugh

southern_bee's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:40 PM








if marriage was ment to work and be amazing then why is the divorce rate soo high..

im not Betty crocker in not Suzie homemaker and i cant stand to date someone for too long!


With me it's the other way around, they never want to date me for too long.sad sad sad sad sad


yeah ive been dumped before but they all have been losers...laugh


I think we've dated the same guys.:wink: laugh


lol yeah and wow if i could erase every guy ive ever dated..id be a virgin who knew how to trust peoplelaugh


I'm a born again virgin.blushing


i guess i am too and glady i could go the rest of my life with out getting anylaugh


Me too! Mind ****s are much more fun anyway!rofl rofl rofl



lmao rights..speaking off matt and arent dating he isnt over his ex and well i didnt really care one way or the other lol but were still good friends lol

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:41 PM



a contract is only as good as the people who signed it....


Not if the contract is crooked in the first place. What use is marriage? It doesn't prove anything in a relationship, it doesn't help the relationship, if anything it hinders it more. It is foolish to commit that much to one person for the rest of your life, especially when it is done on average after a year or two. Five years later the divorce becomes final and they move onto the second marriage, five years down the road the divorce becomes final and they move onto the third marriage, etc. etc.

50% of first marriages (coin-flip anyone?), 67% of second marriages (oddly enough 67 is the prefix in most states for blocking your number on caller ID), and 74% of third marriages fail (74 MPH and you have yourself a hurricane or typhoon).

It is like playing duck, duck, goose...


You get to throw a pretty kick a$$ party though.laugh laugh


Yeah, but I can do that without a reason...and besides that party includes family, no one can really enjoy a party if their family is all around.

no photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:43 PM




a contract is only as good as the people who signed it....


Not if the contract is crooked in the first place. What use is marriage? It doesn't prove anything in a relationship, it doesn't help the relationship, if anything it hinders it more. It is foolish to commit that much to one person for the rest of your life, especially when it is done on average after a year or two. Five years later the divorce becomes final and they move onto the second marriage, five years down the road the divorce becomes final and they move onto the third marriage, etc. etc.

50% of first marriages (coin-flip anyone?), 67% of second marriages (oddly enough 67 is the prefix in most states for blocking your number on caller ID), and 74% of third marriages fail (74 MPH and you have yourself a hurricane or typhoon).

It is like playing duck, duck, goose...


You get to throw a pretty kick a$$ party though.laugh laugh


Yeah, but I can do that without a reason...and besides that party includes family, no one can really enjoy a party if their family is all around.


Well, my perfect man is one who would rather his family was elsewhere, soo....laugh

no photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:44 PM









if marriage was ment to work and be amazing then why is the divorce rate soo high..

im not Betty crocker in not Suzie homemaker and i cant stand to date someone for too long!


With me it's the other way around, they never want to date me for too long.sad sad sad sad sad


yeah ive been dumped before but they all have been losers...laugh


I think we've dated the same guys.:wink: laugh


lol yeah and wow if i could erase every guy ive ever dated..id be a virgin who knew how to trust peoplelaugh


I'm a born again virgin.blushing


i guess i am too and glady i could go the rest of my life with out getting anylaugh


Me too! Mind ****s are much more fun anyway!rofl rofl rofl



lmao rights..speaking off matt and arent dating he isnt over his ex and well i didnt really care one way or the other lol but were still good friends lol


Don't you just love when they're not over the ex, yet they're actively seeking a new one?laugh

southern_bee's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:46 PM










if marriage was ment to work and be amazing then why is the divorce rate soo high..

im not Betty crocker in not Suzie homemaker and i cant stand to date someone for too long!


With me it's the other way around, they never want to date me for too long.sad sad sad sad sad


yeah ive been dumped before but they all have been losers...laugh


I think we've dated the same guys.:wink: laugh


lol yeah and wow if i could erase every guy ive ever dated..id be a virgin who knew how to trust peoplelaugh


I'm a born again virgin.blushing


i guess i am too and glady i could go the rest of my life with out getting anylaugh


Me too! Mind ****s are much more fun anyway!rofl rofl rofl



lmao rights..speaking off matt and arent dating he isnt over his ex and well i didnt really care one way or the other lol but were still good friends lol


Don't you just love when they're not over the ex, yet they're actively seeking a new one?laugh


after he dogged her but its all good its not like i was madly in love with and wanted to have dirty pig sex..and im not sure if i wanted a relationship anyway i work a lot now and well i find relationships annoying right nowlaugh

no photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:49 PM











if marriage was ment to work and be amazing then why is the divorce rate soo high..

im not Betty crocker in not Suzie homemaker and i cant stand to date someone for too long!


With me it's the other way around, they never want to date me for too long.sad sad sad sad sad


yeah ive been dumped before but they all have been losers...laugh


I think we've dated the same guys.:wink: laugh


lol yeah and wow if i could erase every guy ive ever dated..id be a virgin who knew how to trust peoplelaugh


I'm a born again virgin.blushing


i guess i am too and glady i could go the rest of my life with out getting anylaugh


Me too! Mind ****s are much more fun anyway!rofl rofl rofl



lmao rights..speaking off matt and arent dating he isnt over his ex and well i didnt really care one way or the other lol but were still good friends lol


Don't you just love when they're not over the ex, yet they're actively seeking a new one?laugh


after he dogged her but its all good its not like i was madly in love with and wanted to have dirty pig sex..and im not sure if i wanted a relationship anyway i work a lot now and well i find relationships annoying right nowlaugh


Oh damn, now I'm thinking about dirty pig sex....frustrated laugh

southern_bee's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:50 PM












if marriage was ment to work and be amazing then why is the divorce rate soo high..

im not Betty crocker in not Suzie homemaker and i cant stand to date someone for too long!


With me it's the other way around, they never want to date me for too long.sad sad sad sad sad


yeah ive been dumped before but they all have been losers...laugh


I think we've dated the same guys.:wink: laugh


lol yeah and wow if i could erase every guy ive ever dated..id be a virgin who knew how to trust peoplelaugh


I'm a born again virgin.blushing


i guess i am too and glady i could go the rest of my life with out getting anylaugh


Me too! Mind ****s are much more fun anyway!rofl rofl rofl



lmao rights..speaking off matt and arent dating he isnt over his ex and well i didnt really care one way or the other lol but were still good friends lol


Don't you just love when they're not over the ex, yet they're actively seeking a new one?laugh


after he dogged her but its all good its not like i was madly in love with and wanted to have dirty pig sex..and im not sure if i wanted a relationship anyway i work a lot now and well i find relationships annoying right nowlaugh


Oh damn, now I'm thinking about dirty pig sex....frustrated laugh


oink oink baby!laugh

heavenlyboy34's photo
Thu 10/22/09 06:52 PM
It's just a religious ceremony.

catseyes1's photo
Thu 10/22/09 07:50 PM
Been there done that, won't do it again. You are right it is only a piece of paper.

Spirograph's photo
Thu 10/22/09 08:28 PM
It is mostly a piece of paper.. but the tradition of it holds a sparkle for me. I love Erik, and would love nothing more than to have my traditional little get together and celebration of our love and commitment to one another, but the "piece of paper" as we're putting it, wouldn't "prove" that our love was true, so it's not something that I would demand from him.


Does that make sense?

hellkitten54's photo
Thu 10/22/09 08:39 PM

It's just a religious ceremony.


Exactly.


I won't do it again for this reason.