Topic: need some advice
southrnladee's photo
Mon 11/09/09 11:14 PM
met a man on mingle been talking 4 almost a month very stablr in his job loves kids and seems 2 b an amazing man.just like all of us wants 2 find that spcial person we live far away.should i take a chance or stay on mingle 4 ever lol

azrider24's photo
Mon 11/09/09 11:16 PM
go for it n c what happens from there

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Mon 11/09/09 11:19 PM

met a man on mingle been talking 4 almost a month very stablr in his job loves kids and seems 2 b an amazing man.just like all of us wants 2 find that spcial person we live far away.should i take a chance or stay on mingle 4 ever lol



If all seems right? take a chance!!Good luck!bigsmile

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Mon 11/09/09 11:19 PM


met a man on mingle been talking 4 almost a month very stablr in his job loves kids and seems 2 b an amazing man.just like all of us wants 2 find that spcial person we live far away.should i take a chance or stay on mingle 4 ever lol



If all seems right? take a chance!!Good luck!bigsmile



yep i agree with what she said and good luck

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Mon 11/09/09 11:24 PM

met a man on mingle been talking 4 almost a month very stablr in his job loves kids and seems 2 b an amazing man.just like all of us wants 2 find that spcial person we live far away.should i take a chance or stay on mingle 4 ever lol
:heart: From my heart to yours,,,if kids are involved,,ask him and then CHECK,,,if he's ever been in trouble with the law,,,because THEY come first over ANY MATE..
Now,,,second,,,if you can meet him and have a date where the kids won't be involved,,,then YOU can and should test the waters,,,,But knowing ALL THE BADS that have happen here,,,,believe this,,,MOST if not ALL,,,feel THEY found their ONE,wink,
MOST,,,have a date or two and move on,,some go longer,,and then split or make move together plans?
So take all that as truth here, and you make your choice,,,but the kids need to make sure YOU KNOW he would never harm them,,,wink,
GOOD LUCK.......flowerforyou

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 11/10/09 12:58 AM

met a man on mingle been talking 4 almost a month very stablr in his job loves kids and seems 2 b an amazing man.just like all of us wants 2 find that spcial person we live far away.should i take a chance or stay on mingle 4 ever lol


Ya don't have to unsubscribe from mingle just by meeting someone.

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Tue 11/10/09 05:25 AM
Sounds like it time for a 'meet and greet'happy happy happy


meanmarthajean's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:27 PM
Edited by meanmarthajean on Tue 11/10/09 05:29 PM
' Don't jump in to quick' little sister... be careful is all I can say. Backround check too! spock

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:31 PM
Just make sure whom your talking to is the person they say they are. And just because all is well so far does not guarantee it will be there when you meet. Not trying to down fall the situation just reality we all must face...........

smith88203's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:33 PM
have you done like video chat phone call or anything like that

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:33 PM
Take it slow

No need to rush

Really. Really. Get to know him!!:heart:

RKISIT's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:34 PM

met a man on mingle been talking 4 almost a month very stablr in his job loves kids and seems 2 b an amazing man.just like all of us wants 2 find that spcial person we live far away.should i take a chance or stay on mingle 4 ever lol
jump,jump,jump,jumpdrinker

writer_gurl's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:34 PM
I will stay on Mingle forever....But this guy seems like a dream!! Go for it:banana:

Peccy's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:41 PM
My Angel and I are a product of this place, well it was named Just Say Hi! then but it can work from a distance as we were over 1500 miles away.

But it took meeting after 6 months and over a year before I moved permanently. So take it slow, if it was meant to be it will work itself out. If not, there's always another one out there. Just don't settle! I didn't and I have never been happier.

moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:44 PM

Take it slow

No need to rush

Really. Really. Get to know him!!:heart:





a month is not long at all...

Linny1's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:47 PM
Dear sweet person - a background check would be adviseable..

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Tue 11/10/09 05:51 PM
what does your gut say?

Socratease's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:53 PM
Sounds like a nice person with all the qualities,take a chance and find out if he is just a good BS artist or the real deal....tho the real deals are few and far between,at least know you took a chance.Just be aware of "red flags" instead of looking for them,he might be the diamond in the rough...

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Tue 11/10/09 05:56 PM
The fact that you would even wonder if you should take a chance on someone who seems great is key to me. Listen to your instincts. Don't ignore even the slightest detail and just continue getting to know him until you feel like you can definitely take that step towards being with him or you feel the need to let him go!

Good luck!

SirQuixote's photo
Wed 11/11/09 07:54 AM
Is this a trick question?