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Topic: Wtf! Help me understand!?!?
aladytoo's photo
Sat 11/21/09 06:57 AM
Sad to say I feel based on brief info that you posted, there was lost of communication well before this happen. I'd almost bet on it... That does happen. Regroup , heal, move on. And please put your daughter first.Before your own needs...flowerforyou

Male2009's photo
Sat 11/21/09 07:10 AM
After six months of constant bickering and point scoring, can you blame her for not changing her mind? it's your arguing that's just compeling her to go!? you should've said, 'fine, if that's what you want to do?' and just let her go!!! it's pointless to even try to stop them once their mind is made up. trying to convince her to stay is a mistake. she'd only stay because you want her to and not because she wants, some people assume its the one and the same thing!? :) has your behaviour contributed to this situation or has she simply decided she wants a life?

Male2009's photo
Sat 11/21/09 07:19 AM
Why humiliate yourself??? begging gets you no where, plus it looks undignified and sad. grow a backbone and get on with your own life. if she thought that much about your feelings she wouldn't have gone? sometimes, it may not even be you who's to blame. sometimes people just wake up one morning and decide to start living another life, getting out of one existence to consider another. accept the situation and move on with your life.... best revenge is for you to be happy.

freeonthree's photo
Sat 11/21/09 07:25 AM
Im sorry to say, but in alot of cases, marriage can destroy great relationships. I believe that if two people want to be together, they can do so without involving the church or state. I've seen happy couples of 10 years disolve after a year or so of being married. Coincidence ? Maybe...

oldsage's photo
Sat 11/21/09 07:30 AM
An old saying comes to mind, not sure if I can quote it right, but know I can get the message out.

"If you love something,set it free.
If it comes back to you, it is your's.
If it doesn't, it never was."

Something I learned the hard way.

ujGearhead's photo
Sat 11/21/09 07:30 AM
All good advice. Other than Mirror's, but many of us know why he's been here so long. lol. j/k

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 11/21/09 07:36 AM
What was the arguing and bickering over, money, jealousy, not picking your underwear up from the bathroom floor, drinking, drugs, what?

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Sat 11/21/09 08:39 AM


Ok. Its been about 2 months apart. I was married 2 years, together for 7. She says she doesn't wanna be with me anymore? But she also has no one else in mind and just doesn't wanna be with me anymore. I don't get it. I work full time. Support her and our 2 year old daughter, we were best friends, went out together on weekends and such, and we just started arguing and bickering and just fell apart from each other. It went on for like 6 months on and off. I can't changed her mind, she can't change her mind. I guess its time to start over and make new friends...... Thoughts anyone?
devil Punch her in the throatpitchfork


shocked dang mirrorshocked

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Sat 11/21/09 10:35 PM
I didn't beg, I aed her if she was sure she wanted to do this and then she said am I sure, and I sadi there's nothing I can do if u don't wanna be with me. So that was it, done deal, were friends and hang out with my daughter and take her to the park and stuff. It jus seem that we are better at friends than being a couple!

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Sun 11/22/09 01:50 PM
All I can say is to follow the burning in your heart. It will show you to your path. You know deep down what is best for you. The hard part is to know that you will be ok. When it comes to children, this will be hard because you will have ties to your wife forever. But I think if you continue to ask questions and seeking answers you will be fine!! Do what is best for yourself. Take care of yourself. Attain special wants for yourself, continue to grow and lead an inspiring life. She will have to notice, if that is what you want. Take charge of your life and she will follow. Most women just want to feel secure, safe, inspired and loved. And if she does not notice then guess what, some other woman will have no choice but to grab you up. The right woman!! This time will be rough, we need to have this in our lives, even though it hurts so badly. Feel everything, take it all in and grow!! And like the old saying goes....if it was ment to be it was ment to be and if not good thing that there is always tomorrow!!!

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 11/22/09 02:02 PM
ummmmm

women really are crazy yanno

it's that menstrual brain damage

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