Topic: What do you think the opposite sex REALLY wants?
franshade's photo
Tue 12/29/09 11:19 AM
Edited by franshade on Tue 12/29/09 11:21 AM

women want a man like me but just won't say itlaugh

I want a man like him (RKISIT) smitten

there I said it
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Tue 12/29/09 11:20 AM


I plan all my FIRST dates and the next two or three. After that anything goes.


I don't think that's a bad way to go. I planned my last first date because the guy refused. Wouldn't even say what kind of food he liked or give me an idea about anything.

The guy before that planned good dates. I miss those.

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Tue 12/29/09 12:13 PM

Lex that brings it down to 498 now laugh


Hey, the thread's not over, there's still time!

shades

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Tue 12/29/09 12:22 PM
Let me see...we have to like each other, laugh together, get along pretty easily, have a similar sex drive and enjoy spending time together. You would have to have some kind of intellect-of course- I'm not expecting a Lex Fonteyne:wink:, not be too tied to routine and be willing to try new things and enjoy the outdoors.

Now it's down 497, Lex. Never mind that I'm not compatible.laugh

What do men want?

Someone that is easy going, not too bad looking, fun to be with and great in bed.

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Tue 12/29/09 12:27 PM
Lex, only three of us disagreed with you! Maybe there are a lot of women out there who do want to make all the decisions.

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Tue 12/29/09 12:35 PM

boys want all the fun without the strings or responsibility


MEN want the same things women do I think. Companionship...as well as good food and good intimate relationships..lol


I agree with this. I know I want all the strings and responsibility. I already have good food, I cook usually, but companionship and a good intimate relationship? Sign me up.

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Tue 12/29/09 12:53 PM

Lex, only three of us disagreed with you! Maybe there are a lot of women out there who do want to make all the decisions.


I believe the name for that type of woman is dominatrix.

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Tue 12/29/09 01:01 PM


Lex, only three of us disagreed with you! Maybe there are a lot of women out there who do want to make all the decisions.


I believe the name for that type of woman is dominatrix.


Who knew Lex kept meeting dominatrixes? laugh

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Tue 12/29/09 01:01 PM
Lex has been holding out on us :laughing:

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Tue 12/29/09 01:06 PM
Life is too short to question every aspect or contemplate every deviation of possibility. Enjoy life, however you desire.

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Tue 12/29/09 02:32 PM
I started tis thread because I wanted to see if women were as clueless as men about this. It seems that most of the women are close. But, the guys are pretty clueless. I was surprised at how many men think women want money from a man. It seems they view women as little more than prostitutes that will go with the man with the most money.

This is the 21st century! Women can (and should) make their own money.

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Tue 12/29/09 02:34 PM

Lex has been holding out on us :laughing:


Well, it's true that I seem to have an uncanny ability to find (or be found by) the same basic type over and over and over and over....

Although I prefer to use the term "domesticatrix" since I made that one up!


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Tue 12/29/09 04:57 PM

I started tis thread because I wanted to see if women were as clueless as men about this. It seems that most of the women are close. But, the guys are pretty clueless. I was surprised at how many men think women want money from a man. It seems they view women as little more than prostitutes that will go with the man with the most money.

This is the 21st century! Women can (and should) make their own money.


SO true! What a man has in his wallet, his employment info, his possessions, his pension, his bankability and, etc.? Have never once entered into the attractions or needs equation realm for me.

I can take care of myself and have never been supported by a man financially, nor do I care to ever be ...

Would be kewl if we won a phat lottery together though; we all want that! Good to lean on one another applies best ...

Equally, I don't want a man that would freeload and seek a 'Sugar Mamma' type dependency ...

Money is just NOT at all in the question for me!

I ALWAYS say 'Quality, not Quantity'. If you've deep love, health and your own career ... What more do you need? ... Nothing ...

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 12/29/09 05:04 PM
Who knows what anyone is really looking for anymore

This world is a crazy place when it comes to that

I know I found it

But......

It took me till the age of 50 to find it!!! AAAAHHHH :heart:

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Tue 12/29/09 05:18 PM

I started tis thread because I wanted to see if women were as clueless as men about this. It seems that most of the women are close. But, the guys are pretty clueless. I was surprised at how many men think women want money from a man. It seems they view women as little more than prostitutes that will go with the man with the most money.

This is the 21st century! Women can (and should) make their own money.


I tend to feel that the guys who think they have to spend a lot of money on a woman to make her happy are just trying too hard. It's not attractive.

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Tue 12/29/09 05:21 PM

I started tis thread because I wanted to see if women were as clueless as men about this. It seems that most of the women are close. But, the guys are pretty clueless. I was surprised at how many men think women want money from a man. It seems they view women as little more than prostitutes that will go with the man with the most money.

This is the 21st century! Women can (and should) make their own money.


Well they should, and many do, but most won't share the wealth.laugh

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Tue 12/29/09 06:28 PM
I think that most are looking for different things and when they find what they think they want it is not that after all.

Actually men/women many times want the same thing but seems when they find one that will be that person they are not the one they can do those same things for. Always hoping and thinking there is something better down the road. Then they realize later they passed up some they should have looked a little closer at.

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Tue 12/29/09 06:35 PM

I think that most are looking for different things and when they find what they think they want it is not that after all.

Actually men/women many times want the same thing but seems when they find one that will be that person they are not the one they can do those same things for. Always hoping and thinking there is something better down the road. Then they realize later they passed up some they should have looked a little closer at.


Yep ... "The never satisfied, searching further" principle!

I sure have made that error more than once, uggghhh! At least they are still my best friends, small consolation prize for bein' a dumb arse, though!

I blame 'the Adventurer' part of myself, Viking blood! ... frustrated

Oh, well, no do overs, on up ...

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Tue 12/29/09 07:01 PM


I started tis thread because I wanted to see if women were as clueless as men about this. It seems that most of the women are close. But, the guys are pretty clueless. I was surprised at how many men think women want money from a man. It seems they view women as little more than prostitutes that will go with the man with the most money.

This is the 21st century! Women can (and should) make their own money.


Well they should, and many do, but most won't share the wealth.laugh


What would you like them to do? Pay for dates? Buy you things?

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Tue 12/29/09 08:38 PM
I think that everyone is basically looking for the same thing, but at different times in our lives. What I look for now is not what I looked for 10 years ago.The hardest part is finding the "one" who is looking for the same things the same time you are. We all want that special someone to come home to after a bad day and know that we can talk with them about it. Someone who enjoys doing things with you because they are with you,even it they don't like doing the same things you do. Someone who trust and respects you. And for me,he has like to laugh and to make me laugh, life is too short to be serious all the time. Oh, and a little surprise, like a note, or just a card, every once in awhile, just to keep it intresting.