Gender bias is hard if not impossible to remove from topics like these, no? How can one really put themselves in the shoes of a woman if one can never be a woman and vice.

I like it when the gal appreciates it when I stop whoopin' up on her.

Ya' gotta' go to sleep sometime there, OP.

Well, he's telling people what all women are like. Obviously, not all women are going to be like the OP described.

Sounds like to me your asking would a woman appreciate it if her man was treating her like a buddy or a friend instead of his lady.

The answer is no for she would expect to be just a tad higher on the ranks then your buddies,co-workers or friends.

And if your a man and can not understand that then maybe one should just stick to FWB that way there are no emotions involved.

example:

my last date had green hair

so why do all women have to have green hair?


yeah its exaggerated a little bit but its the same concept

Or could it be the guy does not see her as more then just another person per-say. So maybe he needs to open his eyes and see what is before him.

When two people are intimate there is more of a bond between them then there is with just a friend. Therefore they should be treated as more then just anybody else they associate with.

you just answered the question,and that prolly would have been a better way to present the topic too.

"how can you please a woman who just isnt pleaseable."

answer..you cant,so move on and find someone who appreciates you for what you are and do.
lifes too short to be miserable,or Hoping that things get better..
just my opinion....

*unsure* said it right too..communication is Key to relationships.

no, its not me. I know all woman arent like that. But you and I both know that they exist. well more guys than woman.

I just float in a bubble----------

not really. This was actually a quote. it has absolutly nothing to do with me, for I am not the creator of this quote. I have said this before but yet some people are still saying I came up with this from my personal experiences, which clearly isnt the case.

Back to the matter at hand...It shouldnt matter who made it, it shouldnt matter if some guy down the street made it. I never had an experience first hand but I have seen it many times. And its not only from me, a Lot of males has experienced this, so you cant really say that this is only coming from my personal experience just because YOU havent experienced it one way or another

many people who have not experienced this is assuming they know what the question is asking. the quote is suppose to sound the way it does on purpose, It has to sound like that to prove a point. dont over think it, its as simple as chewing gum.

This is what my cousin had to say.

Shearer: I dont think I have answer your question. This is really hard to say because every woman have diff. Reason why they so hard on a man. She feels that if a man dont ask for her number and they are show that they like her you need to get her number right then and there and when you get the number you have to call her everyday and when you dont call ... See Moreher she will delete you. Right now this guy came to her with something she never had before he treated her like a woman. He make his way down to her classroom every morning to say good morning. He was bringing her lunch when she didnt even ask for it. Do you know why she so pissed off at him? Because he never ask for her number. She is so use to men dicking her down and leaving that she dont know how to accept what he is doing. He doing the step by step of getting to know her and she not giving him the chance to even ask for her number because she acting like a *****.In the pass men steped on her and BRICKS BEGINS TO BUILD and she dont know how to knock them down

if you treat a woman with love and kindness, and she doesnt act like it ever happens. she gives ranks to whats more important to her rather than being appreciative to all that is given to her, infact, even if you do give her what she wants and doesnt realize it, being blind to what shes given and what she really has. she can never realize what she ... See Morehad until its gone and because of that, she can not be pleased. not being happy with what you have, if you are already being treated good why arent you thinking that you arent, i dont think thats a communication issue

Oscar Wilde, personally, don't look too much into it and just let be. You either mesh well with a lady or you don't and move on, doesn't get any more simple than that. Different strokes for different folks and all that.

The two above me get one another email them.Such a stud that fear