Iv bn on a couple of dating sites now for what seems like ages and yet I never seem to get any messages or replies.Maybe im not very goodlooking or have a rubbish profile .I am so fed up of bn single its a lonely life I am such a loving guy I just wish I had someone to share it with.

Worked for me and I wasn't even lookin'...and I'm a total spazz....

Yes, they can work, but you'll need to lose the negativity. Re-write your profile to include more about you and what you're looking for. Get involved in the forums so others can get to know you. Good luck!

Here's some historical documentation about that!

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/122097

Your profile is essentially empty. Tell us more about yourself; what you like to do in your free time, interests, hobbies, activities.
What kind of a woman are you looking for?
The women here aren't mind readers you know.
It's OK to look at other men's profiles too to get an idea about how to elaborate on your own profile.

When you say " I always seem to end up with the wrong ones" you are in effect telling women if they are even the slightest bit interested in you, they are the wrong one. What woman wants to be told that as soon as she looks at your profile???

Get active in the forums, a good way to interact and to let others get to know you. Also a way for you to get to know others.

Chat Global-Date Local.

chat global-date local.....lol!!

sounds good..unless all thats available is Loco....

Hi!!!!

Tammy

hey sexy,
u r so good looking that u yourself dont know,god gifted u with such a good brain to think,lovely heart, beautiful eyes to see beauty,strong fingers to write and chat,sexy voice soooo always first u feel proud to be born as man or human ,feel very lucky that u were born without any deformity .if u love yourself ,u will find love in yr neighborhood,i m also new to this ,but i m enjoying the process because U CAN NEVER WIN UNLESS U THINK & DREAM OF VICTORY so be a WINNER not LOOSER,happy hunting

Thanks.

hi.

The older I get the more skeptical I become... :)

Define better what the right one is and what you have to offer. By the way I would like it if some women could look at my profile and let me know if it sounds good. Any advice on how to make it better would be appreciated. I have met a person on mingle and she became more of a friend than a lover. Which is cool but, now I would like to find a lover. Good luck everyone! Even if you just find friends that's cool too.

dating sites work just like real life. Sometimes you find the one, sometimes you don't. You have to be patient. We have many couples on here (some still post in the forums) and several that have gotten married or engaged from meeting on here.

I dont know about ya'll, but iv bn single for a year now after a 3 1/2 yr relation ship. iv nvr used a dating site before. i figure its a safe way to start again.

i think you're trying to hard.

dont look at this as trying to find a mate...

look at it as making friends and enjoying your life now...

good things take time to flourish

I have heard others have had success. I have really only recieved spam or scammers. This is on both mingle2 and zoosk.

If there's one thing you don't want to do on here, it's get too wrapped up in it. Everyone is not who they claim to be, though this site is better than most.

Test the water, answer and create some posts you'll gain respect and maybe a few admirers. Things online or around the corner, rarely happen overnight. Take your time with things and don't try to force them because square pegs never fit into round holes. Good luck to you!

I haven't seen much action either, but i've only been on for 2 weeks.

I am 39 and have never even had a girlfriend.Never been on a date either,since every woman that I was ever interested in dating,wanted nothing to do with me.
This is why I am in such an awful mood now a days.I try not to be,but how can I not?

this is only a 5th grade computer science project
in artificial social networking so knock yourself out!